
I posted a video in my car saying I stopped getting my nails done and my life got better. That was it. One less appointment, one less thing to manage. I thought I had cracked the code, and the code was nails.
Then the internet lost it. Twice.
The first time, women were relieved, like nobody had told them opting out was allowed. A year later, it came back and turned into something else entirely. First, I was broke for not doing my nails. Then, I was rich for not doing my nails. My little video ended up next to Carolyn Bessette in think pieces, and I am over here just trying not to drive to a salon.
So I called Cyndi Ramirez-Fulton, who built Chillhouse from one SoHo salon into the brand that created the press-on category.
She said the part I had not thought about at all: when I skip my nails, it gets called quiet luxury. When a woman of color skips hers, it can read like she is not keeping up. Same bare nail, completely different verdict.
I had become the poster child of a trend I never signed up for, and I had not once considered whose hand it was on.
We stayed there for a while. Why we go after each other so hard over our own faces. Whether we quietly judge other women, which she answered honestly instead of pretending she does not. What her mother's spa in Queens had—a room full of women talking for hours—that we do not really have anymore. Why she builds loudly and improves quietly. And what it is actually like to build a company with the man you are married to, which is its own thing entirely.
At the end, I asked her what women are not saying out loud right now. She said she wishes we could fully own being who we want to be and not feel bad about it. We can change, we can stay the same, and we can do whatever we want.
I think a lot of women need to hear that right now.
Cyndi Ramirez-Fulton is the founder and CEO of Chillhouse, the self-care brand she built from a single SoHo salon into one of the most influential beauty companies of her generation.
She is the woman behind Chill Tips, the press-on line that helped redefine what nail care even is. An Inc. Female Founders honoree and one of WWD's 40 of Tomorrow, she partnered with Kiss Beauty Group in a deal that keeps Chillhouse independent, staying on as CEO with her team and her SoHo flagship intact.
She is a wife, a mother, and a proud Colombian-American—the daughter of an esthetician who started with a single chair in Jackson Heights and grew it into four stores. The Queen of Chill.
Cyndi's Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/cyndiramirez
Chillhouse Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/chillhouse
Valeria's Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/valerialipovetsky
Valeria's TikTok:
https://www.tiktok.com/@valeria.lipovetsky
Not Alone's Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/notalonepod
Not Alone's TikTok:
https://www.tiktok.com/@notalone.pod
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WHAT WE TALKED ABOUT:
0:00 – I posted one video about my nails
2:16 – Why she called the Queen of Nails
3:37 – The year it came back and changed shape
5:37 – Becoming the poster child she never signed up for
6:39 – The part that did not sit right with her
7:52 – Are we bored, or is everything a trend?
8:57 – Who actually wears bare nails
10:06 – The question nobody wanted to ask out loud
11:01 – Valeria pushes back: status or race?
12:23 – Why beauty is so loaded
12:41 – Burgundy hair, black eyeliner, and needing a flag to carry
14:15 – So I'm trending now?
15:29 – Wait, I have a choice
15:36 – Russian mother, Colombian mother, same rules
17:10 – Her mother's chair in Jackson Heights
17:38 – What those rooms full of women had
19:18 – Building Chillhouse and self-care as a necessity
21:04 – Why people still crave the salon
25:59 – Holding two truths: organic and Botox
28:08 – The Botox conversation she was scared to have
29:18 – Why she talks about what she gets done
30:33 – The magazine where Valeria did not recognize her own face
31:15 – Cyndi's teenage modeling years
31:56 – Do you judge other women? Be honest
33:44 – Judging as a mirror, not a verdict
33:54 – Each other's greatest critics, each other's greatest teachers
34:46 – The real takeaway from the bare-nail discourse
35:07 – Recession indicator to status symbol
36:42 – The poster child of having fun with beauty
37:45 – Finding a personal style and dressing like a chameleon
38:29 – Being the face of the brand
40:09 – 2020: putting nails in women's hands at home
41:21 – The pivot, the pandemic, and making payroll
43:12 – The intuition she never second-guessed
43:43 – Why intuition is the business skill
47:28 – Build loudly, improve quietly
50:35 – When vulnerability goes too far
52:34 – Leaving New York to find solid ground
53:51 – Building a company with the person you married
57:06 – The real version of building with your husband
59:02 – The coach they needed and the next version of themselves
1:00:34 – Rapid fire
1:02:28 – What women aren't saying out loud
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Jul 15
1 hr 9 min

Kelly Piquet was born into Formula 1 royalty. Her father is Nelson Piquet, a three-time world champion. Her partner is Max Verstappen, a four-time champion. She has millions of followers watching her life, and most of them think they know her. They don't.
This is the first time Kelly has sat down for a real conversation, and she goes places she never has before. She talks about growing up inside a name that opened every door, then walking away from it at eighteen to move to New York and become nobody. About the version of herself who climbed Kilimanjaro on a whim, and where that fearlessness went. About what it actually takes to protect your own identity inside the most-watched relationship in sport, to build a modern partnership where two ambitious people refuse to disappear into each other. About raising children in the glare of it all, and why she's decided that not every meaningful moment deserves an audience.
It's a conversation about being seen versus being known, about holding on to yourself when the world has already written your story, and about the quiet cost of a life that belongs to everyone but you.
Kelly's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kellypiquet
Valeria's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/valerialipovetsky
Valeria's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@valeria.lipovetsky
Not Alone's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/notalonepod/?hl=en
Not Alone's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@notalone.pod
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What We Talked About:
0:00 - The F1 first lady
3:00 - Meeting Kelly first, the world second
4:16 - Why she finally said yes to this
5:05 - Growing up around greatness
6:40 - Breaking free from a name that wasn't hers
7:05 - Going to New York to be nobody
9:00 - The plane, the headphones, taking over the city
11:00 - The UN dream, Tanzania, Kilimanjaro
13:44 - Leaving fashion, going home, regrouping
16:50 - The thing she refuses to shy away from
17:00 - The price of being visible
20:00 - The part of herself she fought hardest to keep
22:33 - Modern partnership, and two people not managing ego
26:29 - Criticism, lies, and the line around her children
31:47 - The season of experience, and slowing down
34:11 - What motherhood made her say no to
44:19 - Raising grounded kids in a privileged world
49:40 - Rapid fire, and the F1 first lady title
52:47 - Valeria's takeaways: your story is yours to hold❤️
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Jul 8
56 min

This episode is brought to you by Nutrafol, the #1-selling hair growth supplement brand. Start from within to see thicker, fuller hair in 3-6 months. Use code VALERIA for $10 off your first month at https://nutrafol.com
In this episode of Not Alone, Valeria sits down with board-certified dermatologist and lifestyle medicine expert Dr. Heather Woolery-Lloyd for an eye-opening conversation about hair health, supplements, stress, and what it means to take a whole-body approach to hair thinning.
From postpartum shedding to perimenopausal thinning, Dr. Heather breaks down why hair changes and why it takes time to see results. She also helps break down why so many women feel confused by the supplement space. She shares what to really look for in your supplements - from clinical trials and randomized controlled studies to third-party certifications like NSF.
Valeria opens up about her own postpartum hair experience, and the women discuss the emotional toll hair changes can take. Dr. Heather also shares simple, actionable shifts, like five-minute meditation, daily walks, and realistic habit-building, that make wellness feel less overwhelming and more sustainable.
Learn more about Nutrafol: https://nutrafol.com
Dr. Heather’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drheathermd/Dr. Heather’s TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@drheathermd
Valeria’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/valerialipovetsky/Valeria’s TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@valeria.lipovetsky
Not Alone’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/notalonepod/Not Alone’s TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@notalone.pod
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What We Talked About:
0:34 – Valentine’s Day, stress & post-holiday burnout
1:45 – Getting Motivated for 2026
2:45 – Meet Dr. Heather Woolery-Lloyd
5:38 – Why she chose dermatology
6:50 – What is lifestyle medicine?
9:05 – The truth about supplements (and doctor skepticism)
10:29 – Why hair takes 3–6 months to respond
12:30 – Stress, sleep & actionable daily habits
15:00 – Why baby steps beat perfection
17:30 – How to read a supplement label (efficacy + safety)
18:55 – What NSF certification actually means
20:25 – Counterfeit supplements & buying safely
23:09 – The importance of randomized controlled trials
25:20 – Types of Hair Thinning
26:07 – Active Ingredients in Nutrafol
28:22 – Supplement stacking: helpful or harmful?
30:00 – Should you be getting blood work?
35:24 – Dr. Heather’s 3 supplement rules
37:10 – The psychological impact of hair thinning
38:38 – How can supplements fail us?
40:58 – Gray hair: is innovation coming?
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Feb 17
44 min

In this special episode, Valeria revisits some of her most powerful and revealing conversations with iconic women in modeling - going beyond the runway & behind the camera to explore identity, resilience, motherhood, and the experiences that shaped who they are today.
Kelsey Merritt opens up about growing up in the Philippines with a strict mother, navigating the modeling industry as a biracial woman, and how her immigrant family values gave her thick skin. Next, Jasmine Tookes reflects on being raised by a young single mother, always knowing she wanted to be a model, and building confidence in an industry where she was often the only Black woman in the room. Finally, Miranda Kerr joins Valeria for a deeply honest conversation about life after Victoria’s Secret. Her motherhood journey - as a mom of four boys, miscarriage, breastfeeding, aging, and more. Miranda shares how her priorities have shifted and tells us more about her brand, KORA Organics.
Together, these conversations peel back the layers behind globally recognized faces to reveal the real women underneath - their values, doubts, lessons, and quiet strength.
Follow The Women -
Kelsey MerrittInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/kelseymerritt/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@kelseymerritt
Jasmine Tookes
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jtookes/
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@jastookes
Miranda KerrInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/mirandakerr/KORA Organics: https://koraorganics.com
Valeria’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/valerialipovetsky/Valeria’s TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@valeria.lipovetsky
Not Alone’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/notalonepod/Not Alone’s TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@notalone.pod
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What we talked about:
0:00 – Introduction
1:57 – Kelsey Merritt: growing up Filipina & being scouted online
4:05 – Kelsey Merritt: Strict immigrant parents & modeling feedback
6:03 – Kelsey Merritt: Identity, representation & being “the first”
11:16 – Kelsey Merritt: Commercial vs high fashion modeling realities
14:49 – Kelsey Merritt: Discovering independence in New York
18:04 – Kelsey Merritt: Beauty standards in the Philippines
24:25 – Introducing Jasmine Tookes
26:13 – Jasmine Tookes: Dreaming of Victoria’s Secret from childhood
28:03 –Jasmine Tookes: Modeling young & having a protective mom
33:18 – Jasmine Tookes: Being the only Black model in the room
35:21 –Jasmine Tookes: Motherhood & identity shifts
39:23 – Jasmine Tookes: Daddy issues & family boundaries
42:52 – Introducing Miranda Kerr
45:34 – Miranda Kerr: Choosing not to return to Victoria’s Secret
47:06 – Miranda Kerr: Motherhood & breastfeeding
49:02 – Miranda Kerr: Miscarriage
52:17 – Miranda Kerr: Raising boys & navigating teen years
56:06 – Miranda Kerr: Wellness, skincare & aging with gratitude
1:00:49 – Final reflections
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Feb 10
1 hr 3 min

In this solo episode, Valeria shares why she’s intentionally choosing a quieter year, and what that really looks like in a world that constantly asks us to be louder, faster, and more visible. She reflects on her approach to 2026 - why she doesn’t want it to be a “bigger” year, and how focusing on less distraction has brought her more clarity and joy. She also recaps a recent trip to the Dominican Republic with her boys, opening up about how different traveling feels now that her kids are older. And how those slower, more present moments reminded her of what truly matters. Throughout the episode, she shares practical shifts she’s making - like using the Be Present app, protecting offline moments, and choosing opportunities that expand her life, not just her calendar. From living more offline and rethinking her relationship with social media, to finding balance as a creator whose work exists online, Valeria explores the tension between visibility and peace. And why not everything meaningful needs an audience while it’s forming? This is a good listen for anyone craving more calm, fewer distractions, and a slower, more intentional way of living.
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What I talked about:
1:00 - Living offline as a modern status symbol
1:55 - Traveling with older kids
4:00 - Reconnecting through simple moments
5:00 - Be Present App & & limiting social media
6:40 - It’s officially 2026
7:25 - Why 2026 is about quiet, not “more”
9:25 - Finding balance & cutting the noise
10:30 - Why not everything meaningful needs an audience
12:10 - Joy, hobbies, and staying in a student mindset
15:00 - Offline Living
20:40 - How we accomplish this
21:27 - The Art of Spending Money
24:08 - Thinking Outside the Culture Bubble
26:02 - Protecting your mind as a form of wealth
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Feb 3
28 min

Vivian Tu, aka Your Rich BFF, is back on Not Alone to talk about her new book, Well Endowed, and what it really means to build a life that’s financially aligned, intentional, and values-driven. In this conversation, Valeria and Vivian break down the idea of “optimization” in everyday life, from money habits shaped by childhood lessons (including her now-famous Chinese buffet analogy) to understanding your personal value system and learning how to resist the constant pull of targeted marketing. They dive into media literacy, why spending money feels easier than ever, and how to decide what’s truly worth it. Vivian also gets personal about building a strong financial foundation, getting financially honest with your partner, navigating prenups as a form of choice (not mistrust), and why women need to deeply understand their finances. The episode closes with a thoughtful look at teaching kids about money, estate planning basics, and how to leave behind more than just dollars - plus a peek at Vivian’s new financial platform, Ask Dolly.
Follow Vivian Tu on Social Media
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/your.richbff/?hl=en
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@yourrichbff?lang=en
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/yourrichbff
Listen to Her Podcast: https://www.yourrichbff.com/podcast
Get Financial Advice from Vivian: https://askdolly.com/
Shop Her New Book HERE: https://www.harpercollins.com/pages/wellendowed
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TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@valeria.lipovetsky?lang=en
Not Alone TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@notalone.pod?lang=en
What we talked about:
0:25 - Setting up the episode
1:00 - Introducing Vivian Tu
2:37 - Start of interview
3:00 - What’s new with Vivian
4:23 - Inspiration behind “Well Endowed”
7:37 - Optimization in your life
7:49 - Lessons from the chinese buffet
10:33 - Figuring out your value system
12:50 - The importance of media literacy
14:25 - The ease of marketers targeting you
16:05 - Deciding if the purchase is worth it
18:35 - Not enough friction in the purchasing process
24:35 - Building your financial house
24:57 - Why women need to understand their finances
27:24 - Getting financially naked with your partner
30:00 - Social media setting unrealistic relationship standards
33:51 - Early days with her husband
35:44 - Falling in love with his generosity
37:40 - Prenups are about choice, not mistrust
41:53 - Teaching kids financial literacy
44:06 - Not leaving your children every dollar you have
47:29 - Telling your children “Yes, if…”
48:50 - Estate planning basics
53:44 - Leaving impressions for the readers
54:42 - New financial platform “Ask Dolly”
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Jan 27
58 min

In this episode of Not Alone, Valeria sits down with one of the original social media influencers and SAME founder & CEO Shea Marie, for a candid conversation about evolution, personally, publicly, and professionally. Shea opens up about entering a new season of life, from ringing in the New Year in Aspen and sharing her engagement story to navigating what it really means to keep a relationship both public and protected. Together, they talk about dating in the spotlight, why Shea has intentionally chosen to share less online, and how her relationship with the internet has changed over time. Shea reflects on her early move to LA, her first tough job in PR, and the lessons that ultimately led her to start blogging at a time when influencers weren’t taken seriously. She dives into the realities of being an OG in the space, from doing unpaid campaigns and being underestimated, to learning how to separate herself as a creator from the brand she built. Shea also talks about the journey of building and scaling SAME, what the future holds for the brand, and the one belief she had to unlearn along the way. This episode is about growth, boundaries, and building something that lasts.
Follow Shea Marie on Social Media
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sheamarie/?hl=en
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@sheamarieofficial?lang=en
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What we talked about:
0:29 - Valeria’s 2026 energy
2:53 - Introducing Shea Marie
3:52 - Start of interview
4:29 - Shae’s New Year’s in Aspen
7:07 - Engagement story
8:13 - Making your relationship public vs private
11:05 - Dating as a public figure
12:45 - The shift to sharing less online
18:15 - Her move to LA and terrible first job
19:50 - Lessons learned from PR job
20:45 - Starting her blog
24:00 - No respect for early-day influencers
24:55 - Separating the influencer from the brand
27:27 - Creating SAME
29:15 - Highs and lows as an OG influencer
32:53 - Doing a free campaign for Forever21
35:55 - Running and growing a brand
40:47 - The future of SAME
44:01 - One belief she had to unlearn
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Jan 20
47 min

In this special episode of Not Alone, Gary and Valeria sit down with beloved creator and entrepreneur Camila Coelho and her husband Icaro - who, for the first time ever, steps up to the mic beside her. The four of them talk about bonding during their trip to Brazil, celebrating Carnival, what it’s really like being the husband behind a social media powerhouse, and the early days of Camila’s YouTube career when she had no idea what she was doing. Camila and Icaro share the highs and growing pains of becoming business partners, from figuring out their roles to navigating the pressure that success places on their relationship. The conversation goes deep on identity shifts, the messy days when you don’t see eye to eye, and why being recognized for the work you do, even behind-the-scenes, matters. Plus, how they stay grounded in gratitude, and their hopes for the future as entrepreneurs and parents raising a son in the social media age. A rare and intimate look at love, life, and building something real together.
Follow Camila on Social Media:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/camilacoelho/?hl=en
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@camilacoelho?lang=en
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCDl9AK32Xzr_2UOxjt03f6w
Website: https://camilacoelho.com/
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Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/icarobrenner/?hl=en
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What we talked about:
0:29 - Setting up Camila & Icaro’s episode
1:20 - Start of interview
1:30 - Connecting in Brazil
2:50 - Celebrating Carnival
3;44 - Behind-the-scenes husbands
5:58 - Icaro’s first podcast with Camila
6:35 - How Icaro & Camila met
11:00 - Their love for Brazil
13:31 - Camila’s start on social media
15:05 - Early days posting on YouTube
19:54 - Going into business together
24:00 - The challenge of dividing the roles
27:57 - Learning how to work with each other
29:05 - Advice for getting husbands and partners on board
33:35 - Icaro & Gary on perception & recognition
35:51 - Career pressures affecting your personal relationship
42:24 - Not getting along
44:40 - Identity changes within the relationship
49:35 - What’s next for them
52:04 - Gratitude & contentment
54:42 - Social media moms raising sons
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Jan 13
1 hr

This episode is brought to you by Little Saints, a zero-sugar, non-alcoholic cocktail and spirits brand created for people who love the ritual of drinking but not the aftermath. Use code VALERIA for 15% off at https://littlesaints.com
In this episode of Not Alone, Valeria sits down with Megan Klein, founder of Little Saints, a non-alcoholic cocktails and spirits brand, for a candid conversation about sober curiosity, reinvention, and building a business that challenges the way we socialize. Megan shares her unconventional career path and what she discovered after testing nearly every non-alcoholic drink on the market. They dive into betting on yourself, her Shark Tank experience (and why she walked away from the offers), and her complicated relationship with the word “sober.” The conversation goes deeper into the physical and emotional effects of alcohol, why so many of us drink to numb, and what dating without alcohol can look like. Megan also opens up about how her personal experiences, including extensive work with ayahuasca, shaped her outlook on wellness, presence, and connection. It’s a thoughtful, honest episode about choosing clarity, building something meaningful, and redefining what it means to feel good.
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Megan’s Book Recs:
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A Court of Thorns and Roses by Sarah J. Maas - https://amzn.to/44QVHys
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What we talked about:
0:20 - Dry January & Sober Curiosity
2:35 - Introducing Megan Klein
4:19 - Start of interview
6:55 - Her common thread through careers
9:55 - Pivot from farming to a food brand
12:04 - Birth of Little Saints during Covid
13:18 - Testing all the non-alcoholic drinks
15:03 - Explaining Little Saints
16:50 - Decision to invest her own money
17:28 - Selling Little Saints out of a trailer
19:18 - Megan’s Shark Tank experience
21:57 - Why she didn't take the deal
22:40 - After the tank
23:40 - Why she dislikes the word ‘sober’
27:30 - The side effects of drinking alcohol
31:30 - Drinking to numb ourselves
33:00 - Personal benefits from not drinking
35:54 - Doing Ayahuasca 60 times
38:16 - Lessons learned from Ayahuasca
39:42 - Data about the impact of alcohol
41:14 - Dating without alcohol
43:50 - What’s next for Little Saints
48:10 - Megan’s book recommendations
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Jan 6
53 min

This week, we’re rolling out some of Gary’s most iconic moments on Not Alone with a compilation of his most memorable conversations. We’re starting with the story of how Gary and Valeria’s age gap shaped their relationship from day one, how their mothers reacted, the moment Gary asked for Valeria’s hand in marriage. Then, we shift into a raw and revealing conversation about infidelity, why men cheat, the role of emotional maturity, the importance of communication, and why working on yourself is essential to building a lasting relationship. Finally, we dive into marriage and money: power dynamics, childhood beliefs around wealth, business wins and losses, spending freedoms in marriage, and the decisions that shaped their future together. This is the ultimate “Gary Edition,” full of vulnerability, humor, and the kind of perspective you can only get from Mr. Lipovetsky.
Listen to the full episodes here:
Bridging the Gap: Age Differences and Marital Challenges with Gary Lipovetsky:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0hCykGJXAgE&t=1153s
Why Do Men Cheat? Understanding Infidelity in Relationships & Marriage:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f0FlLiQmsxI
Money and Marriage: An Honest Conversation About Our Finances with Gary Lipovetsky:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UOzQ6arTX44
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What we talked about:
0:28 - Setting up Gary’s compilation episode
2:52 - What their moms thought of their age gap
7:10 - Asking Valeria’s mom for her hand in marriage
8:02 - Gary’s relationship with Valeria’s mom
10:13 - Advice for couples with an age gap
12:36 - The mentality difference when it comes to age
15:34 - Gary uplifting Valeria’s career
16:37 - Meeting Kris Jenner
19:00 - Gary’s proudest moments
20:35 - Theories on why men cheat
27:13 - Why men in their 20s cheat
30:19 - Gary was a ghoster
35:00 - The golden cage
35:50 - Communication is key
36:24 - Being satisfied with your marriage
38:10 - Importance of working on yourself in marriage
39:35 - Valeria never feeling poor as a child
41:43 - Gary’s deal that didn’t go through
45:20 - Wives needing permission to spend money
49:44 - Best money Gary has ever spent
50:50 - Valeria’s nutrition diploma
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Dec 30, 2025
57 min
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