You're functioning. You're getting it all done. But somewhere along the way, life started to feel like a five out of ten. In this episode of The Shift Show, ShiftGrit founder and registered psychologist Andrea McTague is joined by Kai Ongaro, a psychology student and member of the ShiftGrit client experience team, to unpack living on autopilot, the "life meh's," and why high-functioning numbness is so common. Autopilot rarely means you are lazy or you do not care. It is usually chronic stress...

Decision paralysis isn't really about the decision. It's about the identity-level beliefs running underneath. In this episode of The Shift Show, ShiftGrit founder and registered psychologist Andrea McTague is joined by Kai Ongaro, a fourth-year psychology student at the University of Alberta and a member of the ShiftGrit client experience team, to unpack why choosing can feel so high-stakes, especially for younger generations navigating school, careers, and relationships. When the threat brai...

Most people can't tell whether their therapy is working until they've spent months and a lot of money finding out. In this episode of The Shift Show, ShiftGrit founder and registered psychologist Andrea McTague sits down with Brendon Braithwaite, who came up through ShiftGrit's internship program and is now a staff mental health therapist. They get candid about what actually separates effective therapy from spinning your wheels, and the concrete signs you can look for, starting before you eve...

Entrepreneurial struggle isn’t really about strategy. It’s about the identity-level beliefs running underneath. In this episode of The Shift Show, Andrea McTague is joined by Claire Goddard, Registered Provisional Psychologist at ShiftGrit, to explore why so many capable, intelligent founders hit an invisible ceiling — even when their business is objectively succeeding. Entrepreneurs often assume burnout, anxiety, or stagnation means they need a better plan, more discipline, or sharper execut...

Relationship struggles aren’t really about communication. They’re about the patterns running underneath. In this episode of The Shift Show, Andrea McTague is joined by Geneviève Malena, Registered Social Worker at ShiftGrit, to explore relationship dynamics — the emotional and nervous-system patterns that shape how partners connect, argue, withdraw, pursue, and repair. Many couples believe they’re fighting about chores, parenting, intimacy, time, or effort. But as this conversation unpacks, t...

Money stress isn’t really about money. It’s about the identity-level beliefs running underneath. In this episode of The Shift Show, Andrea sits down with Jenae White, Registered Provisional Psychologist at ShiftGrit’s Calgary studio, and Crystal Taylor, Financial Planner and Wealth Management Consultant. Together, they explore why smart, capable people still feel overwhelmed by money—overspending, shutting down, avoiding statements, over-saving, or never feeling “ahead.” You can’t discipline ...

Endless scrolling, compulsive clicking, and dopamine-driven distraction—sound familiar? In this episode, Andrea McTague and Alberto Medeiros unpack the reality of internet addiction and how modern tech subtly hijacks our minds. They explore how screen time disrupts sleep, relationships, emotional health, and productivity—often without us realizing it. Drawing from neuroscience and real-life therapy insights, they examine the psychological mechanics behind our digital habits and offer actionab...

Summary In this episode, Andrea McTague and Mateo Sestito explore the complexities of trauma, its impact on the brain, and how early experiences shape our responses to life. They discuss the difference between disturbances and trauma, the role of limiting beliefs, and the importance of social connections in coping with trauma. The conversation emphasizes the potential for trauma to be transformed into strength and resilience through understanding and therapy. Listeners are encouraged to embr...

Summary In this episode, Andrea McTague and Sharilyn Theriault explore the complexities of parenting, emphasizing the importance of parental well-being, emotional resilience, and intentionality in parenting practices. They discuss common challenges such as tantrums, the significance of co-regulation, and effective strategies for bedtime routines. The conversation also highlights the importance of scaffolding children's learning and the three C's of parenting: Calm, Connection, and Correction...

Summary In this episode of The Shift Show, Andrea McTague and Amy Gale discuss the unique mental health challenges faced by veterans and first responders, including the impact of trauma, the importance of social connections, and the transition to civilian life. They explore strategies for resilience, the role of humour in healing, and the significance of finding purpose after service. The conversation emphasizes the need for support systems and the potential for trauma to be integrated into ...