Bo has lived with Dissociative Identity Disorder (DID) for years, but before her diagnosis she thought she had narcolepsy because she would regularly "black out" with no memory of what had happened. In this episode of Tea At Four, hosts Lauren and Billy sit down with Bo to unpack the reality of living with DID, from the trauma that caused different parts of her identity to form, to the misconceptions she faces every day online. She explains how many alters she lives with, and how some of her alters have their own names, memories, ages, accents and even beliefs. Bo opens up about how her alters helped protect her from traumatic memories, what dating is like when different alters have different relationships, and why the internet needs to stop "fake claiming" people living with the disorder.This is one of the most honest and eye-opening conversations we've had about Dissociative Identity Disorder, trauma, memory and what it's really like to share your mind with different parts of yourself.

Please Gamble ResponsiblyKelly Dighton went from a council house and recovering from addiction to winning an £11.5 million jackpot with her partner Arron, on a single £1.50 phone slot spin - the largest jackpot in 58 years. But the dream quickly turned complicated.In this episode of Tea At Four, hosts Lauren and Billy sit down with Kelly to discuss the reality of sudden, massive wealth: from receiving death threats and kidnap warnings to how her partner took his £5.5 million share and left for Colombia. Kelly shares her unfiltered story of staying sober through it all, dealing with family betrayal, and why she still stays humble and shops at Primark despite having millions in the bank. Follow the icon Kelly on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@kelly.dighton

What is the reality of going undercover with some of the world's most dangerous gangs? In this episode of Tea At Four, hosts Lauren and Christie sit down with award-winning investigative journalist and documentary presenter Tir Dhondy to uncover the shocking, behind-the-scenes truth of criminal organisations.From surviving death threats and having a SWAT team kick her door down, to sitting in a car with a machete-wielding Rolex thief, Tir shares the heavy, unfiltered realities of her career. We dive into her undercover work in Ayia Napa exposing modern slavery and sexual harassment, the dangerous logistics of British drug mules smuggling weed out of Thailand, and how her team traced a high-stakes sextortion scam all the way to Lagos, Nigeria.We also discuss what it is genuinely like to navigate a high-risk, male-dominated industry as a female journalist, how criminals are disarmed by women, and why the future of investigative journalism is shifting directly to digital spaces like YouTube.

What are the sides to grief that nobody talks about? Lauren and Christie find out this week on Tea At Four. Nicky joins us to share her experience of losing her husband, and how her grief changed her reality. She tells us about 'Widow's Fire', why grief makes you crave you life, and how she turned this experience into a dating app for widows. In a completely candid chat, we break the taboo on intimacy after death, sex life in your 50's, and being aware of your dead partner watching you have fun...You can find Nicky at @nickywakewidow, and if you looking for dating help after loss be sure to look into WidowsFire and Chapter 2.If you want to suggest a guest for us to have on Tea At Four, let us know at @[email protected], or DM us on Insta @teaatfourpod x

What really happens behind the red lights of one of Europe’s biggest legal brothels? This week on Tea At Four, Billy and Lauren sit down with Catherine De Noir, a psychology graduate turned manager of a massive, 100-room "ethical" brothel. From the strict “8-Second Rule” that keeps every woman safe, to the mind-blowing reality that top earners are making €50,000 per month, Catherine pulls back the curtain on an industry shrouded in stigma.Connect with Catherine:Instagram: @catherine_de_noire

In this unfiltered episode of Tea At Four, Mason shares how the "Chemsex" epidemic nearly cost him his life, the reality of "slamming" drugs, and the surprising way OnlyFans became his road to recovery and sobriety.We dive deep into the taboo side of the gay community that no one is talking about, from the "Tina" (crystal m*th) crisis to the dangers of GHB and the rise of breeder parties. Mason reveals the physical toll of a 4-year addiction, including the sepsis scare that changed everything, and how he retrained his brain to experience intimacy without substances.Follow Mason here: https://linktr.ee/masoncrossxxx

TRIGGER WARNINGWhat happens when your own mind becomes your worst enemy? Today on Tea At Four, Billy and Christie are joined by Molly Lambert (@mollambert) for an unfiltered conversation about the side of OCD the world rarely sees.Molly opens up about her journey with POCD (Paedophilic Obsessive Compulsive Disorder), a theme of OCD characterised by distressing, intrusive thoughts. At 15, Molly believed she was a "monster," leading to a terrifying spiral of "suicide or prison."In this episode, we break down:⭐️ The difference between OCD and General Anxiety.⭐️ Why OCD isn't just about "being clean."⭐️ How Molly moved from "mental torture" to recovery.⭐️ The stigma men and women face when speaking about intrusive thoughts.

What’s life really like as a woman in the Royal Navy for 33 years? From staying fit and navigating life at sea, what cabin life is like and the challenges of being a woman in a male-dominated environment, Warrant Officer Angie Cheal MBE joins Lauren and Christie to share her experience!In this episode, we explore:The truth about "Military Discipline"How the Navy unlocks huge travel & sporting opportunitiesThe "8% Woman" RatioFrom "Coddled" to MBE: How the Navy makes you resilient.Inside the cabins: Wi-Fi, makeup, and "suitcases."Find out more about the roles in the Royal Navy here: https://www.royalnavy.mod.uk/careers?utm_source=fournine&utm_medium=paidsocial&utm_campaign=+Burst_2_2025&utm_content=VT_Carousel

What happens behind the closed doors of a "Dungeon Boudoir"? Today on Tea At Four, Billy and Lauren sit down with Spicy Saurora, a sexologist and dominatrix who is redefining what it means to be a "healer."From navigating sex with spinal cord injuries and muscular dystrophy to the viral world of inflatable fetishes, Saurora shares the unfiltered truth about her work. We ask the question; should intimacy be considered a part of human care?

Why are celebrities suddenly looking "natural" again, and what exactly is "Ozempic Face"? We’re joined by London’s top aesthetic doctor, Dr. Motox, to spill the tea on celebrity filler secrets, the dangers of backstreet procedures like penile filler, and the skincare that actually works. In this episode of Tea At Four, Lauren and Billy sit down with Dr. Mo (Dr. Motox) for an unfiltered look into the world of cosmetic procedures in 2026. From debunking the myth that filler "dissolves" to revealing the truth behind Kylie Jenner’s Golden Globes look and Molly-Mae’s lip transformation, no topic is off-limits.We dive deep into:The "Clean Girl" Aesthetic: Why celebrities are lying about being "natural."Ozempic & Weight Loss Jabs: How rapid weight loss is changing the face of beauty.The Risks: From blindness to lip necrosis - what your injector isn’t telling you.Taboo Procedures: The wild reality of penis filler and why Dr. Moe refuses to do it.The Prescription: The exact skincare brands (Medik8, Sarah V, La Roche-Posay) that actually produce results.👇Follow Dr. Mo👇❤️ https://www.instagram.com/dr.motox/?h...⭐️ https://www.tiktok.com/@dr.motox?lang=en