In this episode, we are diving into the power of quarterly self-questioning to help you stay aligned with your goals and to feel more intentional and present with your time. As we enter the second quarter of 2024, I encourage you to pause and reflect on the past few months through the concept of "self-inventory," a practice of checking in with yourself to evaluate what's been happening in your life, how you feel about it, and where you want to go next. Through honest self-reflection, I'...

On today's episode, we're discussing the transformative power of "Glimmers", and the practice of finding those tiny moments of joy, awe, peace, or serenity. Drawing from the insights of licensed clinical social worker Deb Dana, this episode dives into the significance of noticing and appreciating these small but powerful moments. From savoring the perfect sip of morning coffee to witnessing acts of kindness from strangers, "Glimmers" send signals of safety to our nervous system, and hel...

Let's talk about discovering your authentic self and unlocking the potential for personal growth in an all-new season of Tessa Talks: Purposeful Lifestyle Development! After 2 months of working behind the scenes, I'm back with a slight rebrand of my own, and this episode is the beginning guide through the art of intentional rebranding, without the need to uproot everything all at once. We're focusing on the little shifts that can dramatically influence how we align with our big dreams, and...

It is an absolutely transformative path we take when we unlock the potent blend of self-love and discipline needed to craft a purposeful lifestyle. This episode is a deep dive into the world of SELF boundaries, where I share how my own personal boundaries and guidelines have revolutionized my life, giving you the tools to do the same. Learn the difference a simple shift in language can make, as we move from the passive 'I will' to a commitment that resonates to our core. Plus, discover th...

Ever feel like you're at the mercy of others' expectations, especially during this bustling holiday season? This episode is a guide through the empowering process of setting boundaries that will forever change the landscape of your relationships for the better. This week's episode peels back the layers of why personal inventory is pivotal and how we can take charge of the way we're treated and respond to others. It's not just about being treated right; it's about responding right. We'll dis...

This is my FAVORITE approach for creating personal growth or change, no matter what is it you want to achieve, and no matter what the heck is going on around you. If you are pulled in 100 different directions but want to put more focus on your personal development and goals -- I am SO proud of you and I am here to make it so much easier. I use this method with myself and nearly every client I work with. In this episode we will be talking about a realistic three-tier approach to lasting chan...

You know the drill - what you think creates what you feel, what you feel drives what you do, what you do becomes your lifestyle, and your lifestyle IS your reality. But what about when we are feeling... blah... unmotivated... stuck... discouraged... unable to stick to our plans... or life is just really taking it out of you? The part of this cycle that we are focusing on in today's episode is this, the driving factors that cause how we ACT. To do so, we're tapping into a highly succes...

Have you heard of the concept of co-creation of your reality? You can think of this like switching from the role of an actor who has little control over the script, to moving into the director's seat in terms of your life. This is about intentionally creating luck, and creating a space for luck and serendipitous little happenings to come to you! This episode explores a new framework for looking at our perceived roadblocks, insights to help you navigate them, and the potential to tr...

This is THE episode!! If you want to have a massively transformational 2024 then YOU NEED TO HEAR THIS! If you are tired of your current routine, need a change, if you are tired of setting the same goals and same New Year's Resolution over and over -- this episode will give you the cheat code. Did you know? - 23% of people quit their resolution for the new year by the end of the first week - 43% of people quit by the end of January - Only 9% of people claim to stick to their resolutions all...

This week's conversation outlines exactly how to keep tabs on where your energy and focus is going, and how to harness the power of inspired action. In this episode, I am giving you a set of 4 simple but incredibly powerful questions that you can ask yourself to take some monthly (or honestly, whenever you need it!) inventory. This is an insightful practice designed to align your actions with your big dreams and goals. (Remember - Idenentiy Alignment*) This is a quick but impact...