Ready to master the subtle art of 'managing up' and effectively navigate everyday negotiations? This episode promises to elevate your professional communication skills. Our conversation begins with the unconventional yet essential topic of 'managing up'. This isn't just about your direct report, but everyone around the organization. We share enlightening insights on establishing trust, adapting to your boss's communication style, and bringing forward solutions instead of problems. It's time to revolutionize how you interact with your boss and organization!But that's not all. Our discussion takes an intriguing twist as we delve into the essentials of everyday negotiation minus the manipulative art. Ever felt jittery before a negotiation? I've got you covered. Learn how to assertively represent yourself, prepare adequately, understand the other party's needs, and articulate your objectives with crystal clarity. Let's bust those fears and boost your confidence and let's get started!Connect with Susie:https://susietomenchok.com/https://www.linkedin.com/in/susietomenchok/If you’re ready to continue your professional growth, commit to accelerating your career development, and say goodbye to that anxious feeling in your stomach anytime you ask for what you want to practice negotiation, then get my book The Art of Everyday Negotiation without Manipulation.

Ever wondered how the art of negotiation can propel your career to new heights? Grab a seat as we engage in an enlightening conversation with Todd Porch, president of Strategus, and learn how he harnessed negotiation skills to transform his professional journey. From pleasing people to learning from failures, Todd shares his leadership lessons, offering valuable insights into the art of giving and receiving feedback as well as the dynamics of leadership transitions.In today's episode, we also touch on the importance of self-awareness, the courage to admit mistakes, and the potential consequences of executives operating below their roles. This is an absolute must-listen for anyone looking to level up their leadership game and excel in their careers.Connect with Todd:https://www.linkedin.com/in/todd-a-porch-b25aa/Connect with Susie:https://susietomenchok.com/https://www.linkedin.com/in/susietomenchok/If you’re ready to continue your professional growth, commit to accelerating your career development, and say goodbye to that anxious feeling in your stomach anytime you ask for what you want to practice negotiation, then get my book The Art of Everyday Negotiation without Manipulation.

Do you feel like you're just a floating head on a screen during virtual meetings? Are you struggling with capturing the attention of your audience or team members during virtual presentations? Well, this episode throws light on how you can ace your virtual interactions by making minor modifications, like ensuring that your gaze is fixed on the camera and not at yourself on the screen. It's these tiny nonverbal cues that can make a huge difference in your online presence.Additionally, we delve into the fascinating world of negotiation - the art of understanding the needs of the other party, while clearly communicating your own. I share various strategies and techniques that can be your game changer, helping you transform into an effective self-advocate. Whether you're a seasoned leader or an aspiring one, the advice shared in this episode will equip you to overcome your negotiation apprehensions and confidently assert yourself when it matters the most. So buckle up and join me, as we lead with leverage.Connect with Susie:https://susietomenchok.com/https://www.linkedin.com/in/susietomenchok/If you’re ready to continue your professional growth, commit to accelerating your career development, and say goodbye to that anxious feeling in your stomach anytime you ask for what you want to practice negotiation, then get my book The Art of Everyday Negotiation without Manipulation.

Ever wondered how the undercurrent of negativity can stealthily sabotage your workplace? Buckle up, as Kelly Dillon and I, dissect the anatomy of negative influence and its damaging implications on trust and teamwork. We spotlight the different ways in which negativity can lurk beneath the surface, be it through direct or indirect behavior, and how insecurity and uncertainty can fan its flames. More importantly, we share practical insights into managing such situations, underscoring the need for direct feedback and collaborative efforts in building a healthy work atmosphere.Elevating the conversation, we delve into the intriguing dynamics of influence and leadership in the workplace. Ascending the corporate ladder brings with it a newfound authority that can be a double-edged sword. We discuss the dangers of individuals, particularly those freshly promoted, using their titles as a control mechanism without understanding their influence's breadth and depth. Constructive feedback emerges as the torchbearer, paving the path for mutual trust, respect, and thus creating room for positive influence. Listen in to arm yourself with our valuable tips to identify and neutralize the devastating effects of unchecked negative influence in your workplace.Connect with Kelly:https://www.linkedin.com/in/kellyldillon/Connect with Susie:https://susietomenchok.com/https://www.linkedin.com/in/susietomenchok/If you’re ready to continue your professional growth, commit to accelerating your career development, and say goodbye to that anxious feeling in your stomach anytime you ask for what you want to practice negotiation, then get my book The Art of Everyday Negotiation without Manipulation.

Do you ever feel like your voice is unheard in meetings or social settings because you're an introvert? This episode features a heart-to-heart with Kelly Dillon, a strategist at Remax, to explore the art of building influence as an introvert. Kelly generously shares her journey of cultivating meaningful relationships one-on-one and gaining confidence in larger groups. She dives into her personal strategies, like challenging herself to be the first to speak up in meetings and ensuring her voice commands attention when she does.But it doesn't stop there. This episode also explores the pivotal role of mentors in boosting our confidence and aiding our growth. Kelly opens up about how her mentors have encouraged her to navigate difficult conversations and advocate for herself. We delve into the preparation needed for any negotiation, understanding the other party's needs, and beating those negotiation jitters. So, tune in, glean some wisdom, and learn to leverage your leadership, influence skills, and everyday negotiation.Connect with Kelly:https://www.linkedin.com/in/kellyldillon/Connect with Susie:https://susietomenchok.com/https://www.linkedin.com/in/susietomenchok/If you’re ready to continue your professional growth, commit to accelerating your career development, and say goodbye to that anxious feeling in your stomach anytime you ask for what you want to practice negotiation, then get my book The Art of Everyday Negotiation without Manipulation.

What if the imposter syndrome you've been battling isn't a curse, but an opportunity? The intriguing idea is what Maika Leibbrandt, an executive coach with a passion for abundance and service, and I dissect in our enlightening chat. Maika unveils a fresh perspective on imposter syndrome, suggesting it's not a condition to be "suffered", but rather a chance to dig deeper and bridge the gap between self-doubt and self-belief.Maika and I delve into the delicate balancing act of coaching others while also pinpointing your unique skillset. We share insights on how focusing on serving others instead of self can lead to a liberating self-realization, and how observing your conduct can help understand your true value. This conversation leads us to discuss the importance of credibility, self-reflection, and their roles in overcoming imposter syndrome, advocating for oneself, and taking charge of one’s career growth.In this episode, we underscore the importance of stepping back, observing ourselves, and understanding the role we play in the world. Additionally, we shed light on the importance of credibility and how it plays into overcoming imposter syndrome. So, tune in, dive deep, and let's transform that self-doubt into self-belief!Connect with Maika:https://www.linkedin.com/in/maika-leibbrandt/https://www.hellomaika.com/Connect with Susie:https://susietomenchok.com/https://www.linkedin.com/in/susietomenchok/If you’re ready to continue your professional growth, commit to accelerating your career development, and say goodbye to that anxious feeling in your stomach anytime you ask for what you want to practice negotiation, then get my book The Art of Everyday Negotiation without Manipulation.

Ever wondered how to build real influence within your team? How to make transparency and trust a reality rather than just buzzwords? Today I'm joined by Jacob Warwick and James Capps to embark on a mission to illuminate the often-overlooked aspects of leadership, delving into the art of effective communication and the power of authenticity. Navigating the challenges of leadership, we dissected the role of cascading information in building trust and highlighted the importance of replication in communication. We also peeled back the layers of the complexities of the organizational middle ground, a space often neglected despite a leader's best efforts. In this episode, Jacob and James opened up about their leadership journeys, emphasizing the role of active listening and goal-setting beyond titles. Rounding out the discussion with a deep dive into negotiation, we shared insights on maintaining relationships while negotiating and the vital role of character and integrity. Tune in for an enriching exploration of leadership dynamics.Connect with Jacob:https://www.linkedin.com/in/jacobwarwick/https://www.thinkwarwick.com/Connect with James:https://www.linkedin.com/in/capps/Connect with Susie:https://susietomenchok.com/https://www.linkedin.com/in/susietomenchok/If you’re ready to continue your professional growth, commit to accelerating your career development, and say goodbye to that anxious feeling in your stomach anytime you ask for what you want to practice negotiation, then get my book The Art of Everyday Negotiation without Manipulation.

What if you could transform your communication skills into a powerful tool for effective leadership? Get ready to step into a fresh perspective on communication as we delve into a fascinating chat I had with one of my clients. We explore the magic of questions and how they can be leveraged to understand others better, make them feel heard and valued, and build stronger relationships.In this episode, I invite you to learn about the art of structuring thoughts and messages to grab attention, convey your ideas clearly, and successfully elicit responses. Understanding the role of a headline in your communication, be it in meetings or emails, can make an unforgettable impression. Tune in for an enlightening episode on leading with leverage through effective communication.Connect with Susie:https://susietomenchok.com/https://www.linkedin.com/in/susietomenchok/If you’re ready to continue your professional growth, commit to accelerating your career development, and say goodbye to that anxious feeling in your stomach anytime you ask for what you want to practice negotiation, then get my book The Art of Everyday Negotiation without Manipulation.

What if there was a way to amplify your presence at work, leaving you feeling less underutilized and more influential? In this episode, we'll navigate the art of internal advocacy - exploring how to increase exposure and leverage positivity in your self-representation, regardless of your personality type. It’s not just about boardrooms and contracts, negotiation is an everyday tool, and I'm here to give you a masterclass.Negotiation isn’t about manipulation, it's about understanding and meeting needs. Our journey heads into the heart of everyday negotiations, exploring techniques to surge your confidence and dissolve fear. So, whether you're a rising executive feeling unseen or someone simply wanting to grow personally and professionally, this episode holds the keys to transforming your career trajectory and interpersonal relationships. It's time to emerge from the unseen, step into the light, and take charge of your narrative. Tune in and let's ignite that spark together!Connect with Susie:https://susietomenchok.com/https://www.linkedin.com/in/susietomenchok/If you’re ready to continue your professional growth, commit to accelerating your career development, and say goodbye to that anxious feeling in your stomach anytime you ask for what you want to practice negotiation, then get my book The Art of Everyday Negotiation without Manipulation.

Ever wondered what it's like to be an auctioneer? Join us for a fascinating chat with Kevin Gilbert, a seasoned auctioneer from the UK, and discover the many layers of the auctioning world. From working auctions for cars and livestock to navigating the realms of real estate, Kev shares his diverse experiences and insights, starting from his early days with his antique-dealer father to his now pivotal role in his current firm. We delve into the shift from in-room to online auctions, that happened after the pandemic, which has exponentially increased the potential buyer base. Kev also gives us a glimpse of how virtual bidding works and the differences in real estate perceptions in the UK. We round off our captivating conversation with Kev by revealing the art of leveraging relationships. This episode is a goldmine of insider insights and practical advice from an auctioneer.Connect with Kevin Gilbert:https://www.linkedin.com/in/kevinlgilbert1/http://www.cliveemson.co.ukConnect with Susie:https://susietomenchok.com/https://www.linkedin.com/in/susietomenchok/If you’re ready to continue your professional growth, commit to accelerating your career development, and say goodbye to that anxious feeling in your stomach anytime you ask for what you want to practice negotiation, then get my book The Art of Everyday Negotiation without Manipulation.