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Dear Dr. Tracy
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Why “I’m Sorry” Isn’t Enough and What Accountability Really Looks Like
39 minutes Posted Jan 8, 2026 at 10:00 am.
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In this episode, Dr. Tracy Dalgleish and her husband Greg explore why accountability is so difficult in relationships and how blame quietly breaks connection. They unpack the difference between intent and impact, why apologies often fall flat, and how defensiveness shows up even when partners mean well. Through real-life examples and practical language, Dr. Tracy explains what true accountability sounds like, how it supports repair, and why it creates emotional safety and closeness.
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