Dear Dr. Tracy
Dear Dr. Tracy
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Why Apologies Don't Land in Relationships
8 minutes Posted Jan 11, 2026 at 10:00 am.
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In this From the Couch episode, Dr. Tracy Dalgleish explores why apologies often don’t land in relationships and what keeps couples feeling stuck even after saying “I’m sorry.” She explains how performative apologies, over-focusing on intent, and rushing forgiveness can minimize hurt and block true repair. Drawing from clinical experience, Dr. Tracy breaks down the role of impact, accountability, and emotional presence in meaningful apologies.
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