Becoming You Again
Becoming You Again
Karin Nelson
Four Lies That Keep Divorced Women Stuck
21 minutes Posted Jun 15, 2026 at 8:00 am.
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Naming The Brain Lies
All Or Nothing Thinking
Mind Reading And Assumptions
Catastrophizing The Future
Shoulds And Self Judgment
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Your brain can turn divorce into a courtroom where every thought sounds like evidence and every feeling becomes a verdict. We’re slowing that whole process down and letting you know what’s really going on: cognitive distortions, or in other words, “brain lies” that spike divorce. I break down four patterns that show up for so many divorcing and divorced women: all or nothing thinking (I’m either winning or failing), mind reading (everyone definitely hates me), catastrophizing (one hard...