Here's a fun, little, NEW coaching tool that I've found has massive, immediate results in all parts of life.This week we talk how to Neutralize a triggering situation.Here's how life often happens: Other people do and say stuff; Our very normal human brain sometimes makes those neutral words and actions mean something terrible and then we feel pain.There is nothing wrong with our brain, BUT these stories often don't feel great and they interfere with our ability to connect with the people we love (including ourselves).Before coaching, I would try to change the other person through extensive boundaries, requests, consequences-- so exhausting and it never worked!In this week's episode I teach you how to Neutralize the story so you can let go of the charged, prickly emotions, IF YOU WANT. Of course, you don't have to let go of anything. We just want to offer the brain the option of calm, peace, and connection.Once we neutralize the story in our brain, we free ourselves up to choose, create, and enjoy the best things in life.When we can put the story down, we open ourselves up to So.Much.More.We create love, possibility, and joy.It feels light.It feels right.It takes just 3 simple steps to neutralize:💡Step 1: Assume the other person respects, supports, appreciates, and loves you💡Step 2: Assuming he/she/they respect you, find neutral reasons why they may have said or done XYZ that have nothing to do personally with you💡Step 3: What if this is how the other person engages with the world and it has nothing personally to do with youOf course, this tool is to never become a doormat.  See prior shows on requests, boundaries, and manuals. And stay tuned on more on when a relationship is complete. No matter what, getting to neutral is the best next step to making the best next decision ♥️ Click the button below for your toolkit on how to Neutralize anything in 3 simple steps. PS. Psssst-- I saved SIX spots in the Founding members LIFETIME group coaching just for a few of you w Up to 50 CME (your boss might pay!) and payment planavailable ($100/mo x 10 mo). I saved these spots for people like me!!: folks who like a little more time or who wait for signs-- this is your sign! But this won't be open forever. The $1,000 price for LIFETIME coaching is a reward for founding members of the group. It is not a discount for a less than program. This is more than we've ever offered ever-- the most assets, the strongest MASTER-certified coaching, and the most results. My other program is $24,000/year and this program will be too. If you want in, this is the BEST time to join. Already in the program? If you share the lifetime 1k offer with a loved one/mentee/friend AND they join, let me know so that you both get a bonus private 1:1 session.Details and enrollment are here https://www.yourpathinfocus.com/feelbetter-lifetimegroup. Write me for the payment plan link at [email protected]. The link will inactivate when all 6 remaining seats are sold. podcast music credit to https://freemusicarchive.org/search?adv=1&music-filter-public-domain=1