Your Daily Chocolate
Your Daily Chocolate
Patty Deutsche
Tired of all the negativity and bad news in the world? This brief weekly podcast will boost your mood. With funny stories, clean jokes and interviews with people who will inspire you — it’s like a bite of chocolate… feels good and it's good for you!
Ritz-Carlton Doorman Todd Foster on Leadership, Customer Service, and How Everybody Had Baggage
Today Patty welcomes Todd Foster, former Ritz-Carlton Chicago doorman and author of Everybody Had Baggage, who shares how three years observing guests—from celebrities to everyday people—shaped his work as a keynote speaker and executive coach. Todd explains how people reveal character by how they treat those they don’t need, why mindset drives behavior, and how leaders set the tone for everyone in the room. He recounts a pivotal moment when President Clinton told Secret Service to “Let the man do his job,” reinforcing respect and role clarity. Todd describes Ritz-Carlton systems for remembering names to create a luxury guest experience, admits mistakes around confidentiality, and tells stories involving entitlement, kindness, Harry Caray, Oprah, and Chris Farley. Episode Highlights:00:00 Meet Todd Foster01:32 Landing the Doorman Job02:14 First Day Fur Coat Chaos03:21 Why the Book Took Years05:03 Watching People Unmasked06:58 Celebrities and True Colors10:11 Mindset and First World Problems11:53 Let the Man Do His Job16:00 Leadership Sets the Tone18:23 Big Mistake and Redemption22:20 Concert Payback Story22:42 Pearson Street Standoff25:01 Spit Sparks a Punch27:59 Union Review Aftermath29:01 Harry Caray Name Lesson32:11 Ritz Carlton Name Game35:54 Chris Farley Kindness39:33 Book Plug Rapid Fire42:43 Host Takeaways Outro #Leadership #CustomerService #Hospitality #RitzCarlton #ExecutiveCoaching #KeynoteSpeaker #HotelManagement #LuxuryHotels #EmployeeExperience #GuestExperience #ServiceExcellence #WorkplaceCulture #EmotionalIntelligence #Mindset #Kindness #GoldenRule #PersonalBrand #Networking #Chicago #Celebrities #Storytelling #Management #NameRecognition #EverybodyHadBaggage #YourDailyChocolate
Sep 21
44 min
Neuroscientist & Boxer Amanda Alvarez on Free Youth Boxing + STEM in East Dallas
Today Patty welcomes Amanda Alvarez, a Puerto Rico–raised neuroscientist, salsa dancer, and founder of LaBori Boxing, a Dallas-based nonprofit offering free boxing training for youth 18 and under plus STEM education and career exposure. Alvarez shares how she began boxing at 17, studied neuroscience at NYU, earned a PhD at UT Dallas, and built Laboré to remove economic and geographic barriers for East Dallas kids after community-building salsa classes during COVID. The gym provides low-contact training, recently received a donated ring, partners with local nonprofits and schools, and has served 400+ students with about 150 weekly participants. She discusses brain benefits of boxing, safety compared with football, women’s self-defense classes, and student outcomes including nursing program connections and support for families. Connect with Amanda:laboriboxing.comDONATE HERE@labori_boxing@brainsandboxingEpisode Highlights:00:00 Meet Amanda Alvarez01:21 How Boxing Began04:42 Neuroscience Meets Boxing06:01 Brain Benefits and Safety09:23 Meaning of Labore10:51 Why She Started the Gym15:40 Funding and Growth18:10 Impact Stories and STEM Wins22:54 Self Defense for Women24:30 Kids Stress and Confidence29:34 Vision for the Future31:34 Rapid Fire Fun34:26 Wrap Up and Next Guest 
Sep 7
35 min
Retired Detective Dan Roman’s 5,000-Mile Solo Bike Ride for Parkinson’s Awareness
Today on Your Daily Chocolate, Patty talks with Dan Roman, a retired police detective, father of five, and grandfather of eight, who completed a 5,000-mile solo bicycle ride across the U.S. to raise awareness for Parkinson’s disease in honor of his father, who died after a 40-year battle. Dan explains why the timing mattered to him, including anniversaries connected to Route 66 and the TransAmerica Bike Trail, how he trained and planned his route and what he carried on a fully self-contained, heavily loaded bike. He shares challenges like extreme rain, wind, and repeated bike breakdowns, and highlights generosity from strangers and businesses, fundraising for the Michael J. Fox Foundation, and lessons about faith, support, and resilience. Episode Highlights:00:00 Meet Dan Roman01:13 Why Ride Cross Country02:34 TransAmerica Trail Explained04:09 Route Choices and Direction04:40 Training and Cycling Background06:21 Fueling with Junk Carbs08:51 Mapping and Water Stops11:48 Gear Load and Bike Weight13:29 Weather Challenges on the Road16:14 Bike Breakdowns and Repairs18:36 Kindness of Strangers Begins19:17 Kindness on the Road19:58 Six Hours of Downpour21:45 Carol’s Rain Jacket24:23 Donations and Discounts26:31 Faith and Godwinks30:01 Prayers from Strangers31:35 Rapid Fire Favorites32:00 Route 66 and Vermont34:38 Next Ride and Chocolate35:35 Final Thanks and Wrap #ParkinsonsAwareness #ParkinsonsDisease #MichaelJFoxFoundation #BikeAcrossAmerica #SoloCycling #EnduranceCycling #BikeTouring #TransAmericaBikeTrail #Route66 #AdventureCycling #CyclingLife #CyclingPodcast #InspirationPodcast #Fundraising #GoFundMe #CharityRide #LongDistanceCycling #BikePacking #GarminCycling #StravaCycling #TennesseePodcast #RetiredPolice #FaithAndResilience #HumanKindness #YourDailyChocolate
Aug 24
36 min
Hope Filled Cafe: Inclusive Employment for Young Adults with Autism with Andrea Ratfield
Today on Your Daily Chocolate, Patty interviews Andrea Ratfield, a Delta pilot, single mom, and founder/executive director of Hope Filled Cafe, a biblically rooted nonprofit in Minneapolis creating meaningful, sensory-friendly employment for young adults with autism and cognitive disabilities. Andrea shares how her son’s diagnosis and a Delta airport tour program for families and adults with special needs revealed the “falling off the cliff” gap after age 22 and the 80–85% unemployment/underemployment rate for this population. She explains launching the nonprofit in late 2023, raising over $75,000, and operating a colorful, non-motorized mobile cafe serving organic smoothies, cold brew lattes, and simple treats staffed by team members with autism, cognitive disabilities, Down syndrome. Andrea discusses hands-on training, the biggest need being fundraising, hopes for a future brick-and-mortar cafe, and how faith, determination, and Lean Startup principles guide her work.Episode Highlights:00:00 Meet Andrea Ratfield02:07 Hope Filled Cafe Mission02:53 Airport Tours to Advocacy04:14 The 22 Cliff and Jobs Gap06:28 Calling and Launch Story08:13 Mobile Venue Menu09:53 Hiring Training Funding12:05 Heartwarming Impact Stories16:16 Faith and Resilience Roots19:06 From Government to Skies19:49 Post 9/11 Pilot Push20:35 Faith Driven Balance21:22 Co Parenting Logistics22:35 No Regrets FBI CIA23:01 Dark Times Stronger Faith24:18 Scaling the Cafe Mission26:05 Rapid Fire Favorites29:10 Chocolate Talk and Farewell31:16 Host Wrap Up 
Aug 3
32 min
NASA Astronaut Butch Wilmore on Faith and Perseverance
Today Patty interviews NASA astronaut and retired US Navy Captain Butch Wilmore about his book ‘Stuck in Space’ and the Boeing Starliner’s first crewed test flight that became a 10-month stay on the International Space Station instead of 9–10 days. Butch describes facing closed doors in football and naval aviation, relying on determination, prayer, and scripture, and how being assigned the A-7 Corsair—despite not wanting it—led to Desert Storm, test pilot school selection, and a NASA application that stood out. He recounts a spacewalk moment seeing his reflection and the awe of Earth from orbit. Wilmore explains Starliner thruster failures near docking, the risk of not docking, intensive simulator training, and how his faith removed fear and provided contentment. Website: https://www.butchwilmore.com Episode Highlights:00:00 Meet Butch Wilmore01:17 Determination and Faith04:08 Football Setbacks04:34 Navy Training Curveball06:22 A-7 Lesson in Trust08:05 Steady Emotions and Purpose09:57 Becoming an Astronaut13:02 NASA Interviews and Selection14:46 Spacewalk Mirror Moment18:32 Stuck in Space Book20:51 Starliner Thruster Crisis23:28 Thrusters Failing Fast24:45 Backup Mode Decision25:12 Faith Under Pressure28:06 Truth Over Feelings30:52 Leadership for Crew31:32 Leaving NASA Next Steps35:36 Why He Published Book36:38 Where to Get Book37:29 Rapid Fire Fun40:49 Host Wrap Up 
Jul 13
42 min
Life-Saving Sea Search and Rescue With Dr. Dr. Rob Yonover
Today Patty welcomes Dr. Rob Yonover, a Hawaii-based PhD geochemist and volcanologist, big-wave surfer, and inventor of the See Rescue Streamer, a long, segmented orange visual marker designed to make people easier to spot during ocean and wilderness search and rescue. Rob explains the 1985 origin of the idea after a tense flight over open water, his biomimicry-inspired design, and why the streamer is battery-free, continuous, and redeployable compared with flares, smoke, or dye. He discusses military approvals and real-world rescues in Afghanistan and a local diving incident, plus features like reflectors, chem lights, and FLIR visibility for night and covert use. He shares lessons from Shark Tank, media outreach, consumer pricing, and mentions other survival inventions, volcanology interests, books, and caregiving experience.Connect with Rob:Web: www.SeeRescueStreamer.comX: https://x.com/seerescueFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/SeeRescueStreamerIG: @SeeRescueStreamerEmail: [email protected]: [email protected] Highlights:00:00 Survival Stories Setup00:27 Meet Dr Rob Yonover01:36 Origin of the Streamer02:43 Biomimicry Design Breakthrough04:27 Military Testing and Approval07:34 Shark Tank Reality Check09:52 Media Hustle and Outreach13:24 Consumer Market and Pricing15:26 Covert Tech FLIR and SpaceX18:52 Auto Deploy and Mandates21:48 Volcano Passion and Adventures23:41 Explosive Volcanoes and Caldera Facts24:33 Survival Inventions Rundown24:59 Gore-Tex Desalinator Explained26:08 Surface Area Breakthrough27:21 Weird Everyday Fixes28:41 Chocolate Coconut Oil Hack32:00 Books Caregiving and Health34:01 Inventor Advice and Mindset36:14 Rapid Fire Surfing Stories38:21 Fishing Ethics and Big Catches
Jun 8
44 min
Bringing Positivity via Chart-Topping Music with Christian Rapper David Paul Brooks
Today on Your Daily Chocolate, Patty interviews Christian rapper and motivational speaker David Paul Brooks, whose single “Undefeated 3.0” hit #1 on the National Radio Hits AC40 chart. Brooks shares his mission to give youth positive, faith-based alternatives to negative music, shaped by raising two sons and by his mother’s church foundation. He discusses his Grammy- and Dove-winning group DOC splitting due to life changes, rebuilding as an independent artist, and collaborating with Bootsy Collins’ circle. Brooks explains his singles-first strategy leading to multiple #1 songs and the Undefeated album tied to a book and upcoming three-song mini-movie addressing child trafficking, the Me Too movement, and peer pressure. He describes the animated film “Power in the Name Of,”  Party in the Park outreach honoring first responders with giveaways, and his “No Bad Days” book and TikTok show.Episode Highlights:00:00 Meet David Paul Brooks01:29 Mission for Youth02:57 Role Models and Roots04:07 From Group to Solo05:30 Starting Over Indie07:27 Chart Topping Breakthrough09:37 Why Release an Album10:32 Undefeated Book and Movie12:07 Power in the Name Of16:57 Faith in Music Today19:07 Accountability Matters20:12 Party In The Park22:42 Giveaways That Change Lives24:00 Concert Ministry Impact26:10 Leading With Love28:18 No Bad Days Mindset30:54 Rapid Fire Questions34:04 Closing And Next Episode 
May 11
35 min
Mark Steven Porro on Caregiving Humor and His Memoir “A Cup of Tea on the Commode”
Today Patty welcomes Mark Steven Porro, a New Jersey native who spent 28 years in Hollywood, to discuss his bestselling, award-winning debut memoir, A Cup of Tea on the Commode, The book is about caring for his mother during the final three and a half years of her life after a near-death experience in 2011. He explains the title’s origin from a daily bedside commode routine that included his mother’s favorite tea, and shares how hospice taught him hands-on caregiving tasks such as treating bed sores, changing diapers, sponge bathing, and managing stress. Porro describes using humor to handle difficult moments, recounts stories about both parents, and notes a caregiver health crisis that led to emergency surgeries. He also talks about creating the organic snack brand Grandpa Po’s Originals, life in the south of France, and an upcoming second book focused on his father.Find out more about Mark below:Choose your favorite bookstore to orderOur websiteOur Facebook pageInstagramTikTokOur YouTube channelEpisode Highlights:00:00 Meet Mark Porro01:04 Title Meaning Explained01:54 From Notes to Memoir02:38 Hospice Care Lessons04:46 Not a How To Book06:32 Humor as Medicine09:14 Dad Stories and Dignity12:58 Why Mark Became Caregiver16:47 Caregiver Burnout Warning18:37 Third Emergency Recovery18:58 Wild Hospital Meds20:16 Accidental Nonprofits Story21:11 Grandpa Poes Origins23:11 Flavors And Factory25:03 Mantras And Burnout25:35 Screenplay And Next Book27:08 Awards And Reader Letters28:24 Life In France30:15 Wine Actor Chocolate Picks32:56 Wrap Up And Next Guest
Apr 27
34 min
Tenacity, Fear of Failure, and His New Book Tenacious with Scott Scovill
Today Patty welcomes Nashville-based country singer, award-winning videographer, and video director Scott Scovill to talk about his new book, Tenacious, which features Scovill’s stories and insights from 17 notable collaborators including country artists, an astronaut, and an Olympian. Scott defines tenacity as the inner fortitude to keep going despite obstacles in front of and inside you, emphasizing overcoming fear of failure by taking the first step toward a dream. He discusses mentorship, surrounding yourself with supportive people (including authors through books), and lessons like “there’s more than one way around the barn,” illustrated by a detour job that led to touring opportunities. Scott also shares surprising contributor moments, his late-start singing career that led to opening for Brad Paisley internationally, and his early involvement helping Paisley and Kim Williams-Paisley launch The Store, a dignity-centered free grocery store model in Nashville.Find out more and connect with Scott below:www.tenaciousbook.comwww.scottscovill.comwww.mootv.comwww.thesteelmill.comwww.moocreativemedia.comwww.centerstaging.comFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/scott.scovill/IG: https://www.instagram.com/scottscovillX: https://x.com/scottscovillYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@scottscovillcreativeEpisode Highlights:00:00 Meet Scott Scovill01:15 Defining Tenacity02:28 Fear of Failure04:09 Why Write Tenacious06:22 Mentors and Your Team09:31 U2 Tour Hustle12:23 More Than One Way13:14 Detours to Success17:09 Quotes From Contributors19:17 Astronauts and Awe23:18 Finding Your Voice25:43 Touring With Brad28:26 The Store Charity34:14 Rolling Off the Board35:17 New Songs and Dark Times37:57 Rapid Fire Round
Apr 13
44 min
Escaping a Family Cult and Reclaiming Faith, Fatherhood, and Freedom with Peter Young
Today Patty interviews author and former sports broadcaster Peter Young about his memoir, Stop the Tall Man, Save the Tiger, detailing how he married into a small, hidden cult led by “Uncle Robert” (Robert Booty). Over two decades, Robert used secrecy, isolation, and spiritual manipulation—claiming to be a gatekeeper to salvation—to control Paige, her parents, and eventually Peter, fueling parental alienation and a divorce in which Peter was portrayed as “the devil.” Peter describes how family support, faith, and a court-appointed guardian's report identifying severe parental alienation and cult influence helped expose the abuse, leading to the three youngest children returning to live with him. He shares key lessons: keep Christ at the center of marriage, maintain strong fellowship and communication, and remember salvation precedes sanctification, plus warning signs of cult leaders. Peter also talks about his basketball-themed novels The Blue Team and Wardrobe of the Wolf, with East of Ashton forthcoming.website: www.authorpeteryoung.comFacebook page: Author Peter YoungInstagram: peterbyoungEpisode Highlights:00:00 Meet Peter Young02:21 How He Married In04:53 Red Flags After 9 1106:37 Gatekeeper To Salvation09:19 Isolation And Secrecy11:31 What The Cult Leader Wanted13:56 Legacy And Surrogacy15:20 Divorce And Rock Bottom17:09 First Steps Toward Clarity18:18 Breaking Free and Reaching Out18:56 Robert Rewrites the Marriage20:24 Kids Turned Against Dad21:27 Guardian Ad Litem Turning Point23:30 Shunning Rebecca the Warning Sign24:41 Single Dad and Hope for Healing26:51 Book Lessons and Cult Red Flags30:23 Other Books and Where to Buy31:46 Rapid Fire Q and Closing34:51 Host Wrap Up and Next Season
Mar 30
36 min
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