
What is wrong with healthcare in our society? Like most problems, the issues are systemic and require systemic solutions. Paul and Steve discuss how to make sure you and your kids get the right care when you can't rely on the system to operate in the best interest of the patients.
Sep 28, 2022
36 min

Paul and Steve take up the serious topic of how to keep your kids safe and how to teach them to keep themselves safe in an unsafe world.
Reminder: if you feel like saying something to my son in a truck stop bathroom, you always have the option of keeping your mouth shut. One MAGA trucker found out the hard way that speaking vile filth in real life has consequences. He went full on snowflake faster than I could turn my cap backwards.
Sep 28, 2022
44 min

Working to Live or Living to Work? How to raise our kids with an abundance mindset in an increasing scarce world. Or, how many avocados does rent cost?
Sep 21, 2022
57 min

Part 2: Power Dynamics. Previously, we talked about the academic part of school. This time, we are talking about the uneven and useless power dynamics. Why does the school-to-military pipeline only happen at poor schools? How to deal with security guards in school (and at State Fair active shooter incidents) and bully teachers.
And a challenge this week: Change our minds. We say some controversial stuff that might make you mad. And we would love for you to set us straight. Tell us your side of the story and your ideas for making school work better.
But what do we know? We're just trying to do the right thing when things are hard. AND IT SHOULDN'T BE THIS HARD!
Sep 21, 2022
38 min

Our kids spend more time in school than almost any place else. So why does school still suck after all these years. It will come as no surprise that Paul and Steve have some thoughts on the matter. From Springfield Township to the MIT of the Midwest and from weeding carrots to heading up the most powerful D&D party of all time, these guys have some genius (and hilarious) ideas about what's wrong with education in this country.
Steve has been heavily influenced in his ideas on education by Seth Godin (ever hear of him?). Seth's podcast is here: This is Akimbo
Here's the recipe for a Geometry Sandwich: Freakonomics Radio: America’s Math Curriculum Doesn’t Add Up
Sep 21, 2022
46 min

What are parents concerned about these days? Paul and Steve run through their top 10 list this week (which includes at least 16 things). Changing diapers, social media, school, violence, work, money...well, how about I just put the list down below.
Also, for expecting parents, here's a couple book recommendations.
From Steve: Be Prepared: A Practical Handbook for New Dads by Gary Greenberg | Goodreads
From Paul: She's Having A Baby and I'm Having A Nervous Breakdown
And now the 16 item top 10 list:
Changing diapers (both parents taking care of the kids)
Online relationships
Screen time/phones
Social media
Bullying
Guns
Bigotry, racism, violence against BIPOC, LGBTQ, and other marginalized groups
Leading a fulfilling life while making a living
Education versus training
Raising them to be anti-racist
Dating when you have kids
Being a single parent
Keeping our own identity beyond being a parent
Empty nest syndrome
figure out our Sunday night back-to-school groove.
Self check out
Aug 24, 2022
48 min

Nobody Wants to Work!! Paul and Steve respond to this tired old statement with facts, but more importantly with logic and ridicule. From low unemployment, to lingering pandemic problems, to late stage capitalism, and unwillingness to subject our youth to undignified wage slavery, we break down the real reason why Arby's still hasn't opened their lobby/dining room.
Facts don't care about your feelings, so here they are:
Current Employment Statistics - CES (National) : U.S. Bureau of Labor Statistics (bls.gov)
Jobs_and_quits_rate.webp (1468×417) (wikimedia.org)
Millennials became the largest generation in the labor force in 2016 | Pew Research Center
Share of working U.S. teens increases in summer, but less so than in past decades | Pew Research Center
Long COVID or Post-COVID Conditions | CDC
Aug 17, 2022
40 min

Introducing another regular talker from Big Broccoli Studios. It's Better off Dad with Paul and Steve. Just two dads trying to figure out how to do the right thing when things are hard. In Episode 1, we cover the history of the Don't Panic Radio Show, try not to swear (while swearing a lot), and try to describe what Better off Dad is all about. We also touch on school sports, mental health care, and parenting in general.
If you or someone you know needs legal help for queer issues, check out this free resource: Lambda Legal
Aug 14, 2022
35 min

Ukrainians might be pushing back the Russians in some areas. The Russians are blowing up bridges. Why? Russian spies in Poland. Western spies in Russia. Russian spies in the US. Still no No Fly Zone. Humanitarian corridors in the most inhumane of circumstances.
Mar 24, 2022
21 min

We have all fallen for the misleading video or the headline that turns out to be false. In this episode, Paul and Steve work through a few recent stories about the war in Ukraine that turned out to be not so accurate. They also give some pointers and share examples of how they sniff out the fake stuff. U.S. sponsored Biolabs in Ukraine? Ukraine biggest donor to Clinton Foundation? Rothschild family connection to invasion of Ukraine? Biden selling Alaska back to Russia? Babylon Bee: Satire or thinly veiled conservative shitposting? Fact check: What's true and what's false about the invasion of Ukraine (usatoday.com)
Mar 22, 2022
29 min
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