What's After Church
What's After Church
Jason McBride
I was a pastor for 14 years. The church was great for me until it wasn’t. The church hadn’t changed, but I had. Since leaving the church, I have found that I am not alone. Leaving church does not mean abandoning God or spirituality. Many are discovering a profound experience of God separate from organized religion. What's After Church and WhatsAfterChurch.com supports those leaving the church and provides connection and resources for those reimagining their faith for the good of all!
How Your Words Reveal the Divine
We receive God’s goodness so that we can demonstrate God’s love. Our sharing of God’s kindness can take many forms, like giving money, gifts, or time. A simple yet powerful way to share life and love with another is through our words.
May 31, 2021
6 min
When Spiritual Practices Become Dangerous
One approach to faith or spiritual growth will not support your development for a lifetime. When you change, you will need additional support and new practices. A healthy evolution transcends and includes the previous stage. It consists of the best from the past while embracing a new and better reality. You do not need to abandon all that has gone before. Look for the value in your past journey and release what is holding you back. Take the best of what you currently have and combine it with the best of what is to come.
May 24, 2021
6 min
Reading for Spiritual Transformation, Not Just Information
There is a type of reading that informs the intellect as it shapes the heart. It requires the recovery of skills that are out of fashion: leisurely, meditative, prayerful, and repetitive reading. As we engage in this reading, we bring our mind and Spirit before the Divine so that the Infinite Presence has the opportunity to take us one step deeper into self-awareness and understanding.
May 17, 2021
4 min
What is Your Spiritual Wiring?
Every person is 100% unique, including how we connect with the Divine. There are no dittos among souls. Just as we have different personalities, we also have different ways of connecting spiritually. What resonates for one person may or may not resonate with another. Even though we are each wired differently, there are themes and patterns for how we experience God or the Divine. The key is understanding our specific spiritual personality and connection type.
May 10, 2021
4 min
Call No One Unclean
Growing up in a Christian family and attending church, I saw firsthand that Christians love to judge and classify everyone, just like the Pharisees. I became very adept at making these distinctions based on the club rules. Sadly, I find it easy to judge others. Peter learned the hard way that we should not call anyone impure or unclean. 2000 years later we need the same reminder.
May 3, 2021
8 min
Leaving Church and Entering the Wilderness
Leaving the Church is hard, and this comes as a shock to many. After feeling the anxiety of being in the Church, they stop attending, thinking the stress will go away and they will be free. Initially, there is a release of pressure and newfound freedom. A couple of weeks after leaving the Church, they say, “This feels great. I love my weekends, and I don’t miss the drama of the Church!” However, similar to the honeymoon period of a new relationship, the initial excitement begins to fade, and the reality of the changes and everyday life becomes apparent. A few months after leaving the Church, the excitement is gone, and they say, “I didn’t realize leaving would be so difficult. I am lonely, and I miss the routine of going to Church. I have lost touch with most people, and no one reached out to see how I am doing. I thought the relationships were stronger, but I guess I was wrong. I am hurt, and I am angry.” We seek to go around this wilderness, but the only way out is through this space. If we embrace this season, then we can grow through it and emerge transformed. There are treasures in the wilderness if we are open to its work in our life. But, if we are not careful, we may miss the gifts it offers. The wilderness is a place that will teach us about our self, strip us of false conceptions of God and Church, and uncover the hidden treasures in our souls.  So, how do we navigate this phase of the journey?
Apr 26, 2021
30 min
20 Things Not to Say to Someone Leaving the Church
When someone is leaving the church, church leaders and Christians create significant pain and heartache by what they say. Sometimes the most challenging part of leaving the church is living with the deep wounds from these interactions. If someone is leaving the church, consider how you respond and don't say these 20 things.
Apr 19, 2021
7 min
4 Ways to Experience the Divine in Your Day
How do we become more present to the moment, and engage the Divine? Many of us look at people who have the life we want, and we think they must have done something massive to achieve their results. But, it’s the small things that no one sees that make the significant differences that everybody wants. It’s the little things repeatedly done day-after-day that bring about the life we want. The key is to look for small habits to support our intention to stay connected with the Spirit. Here are 4 ways to experience the Divine in you.
Apr 12, 2021
9 min
The 3 Things Keeping You From God's Presence
The Spirit and Divine in you are the keys to experiencing the fullness of life and revealing all God has placed within you. When you live from your authentic and true self, you demonstrate God’s presence, power, and goodness to others. The challenge is maintaining the awareness of the Divine through each moment. Here are three obstacles to experiencing the Divine in your life. 
Apr 5, 2021
9 min
What I Wish I Knew Earlier About God's Presence
I struggle with fear: The fear of what others thought of me. The fear of looking foolish. The fear of disappointing my family. The fear of letting down my friends. As a kid, I hated that fear was holding me back from enjoying life. During a youth church service, someone mentioned that God said, “Don’t be afraid, for I am with you.” The word ‘afraid’ caught my attention, and I wanted to know if the Bible had more to say about my fear. What is the big deal about God's presence?
Mar 29, 2021
14 min
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