Men Respect Women When THIS Happens  Many women (not all) have fallen into the common pattern of blaming men for whatever is not going right in their lives. Everything from ‘there are no good men to date’ to ‘my boss has it out for me’. While it may feel good to have a scapegoat to blame things on, we need to dig deeper into ourselves to discover the true root causes of our unhappiness. WE are responsible for our own happiness, not our children, spouses, partners or friends. Yes, it’s wonderful to have these people in our lives but ultimately WE are in charge of what happens in our lives. If we don’t like a situation or circumstance, it’s up to US to take action to make a change. When you discover the power you have over designing your life, then you can build a healthy relationship with a man because you have respect for him instead of placing blame on his shoulders. Let’s explore the DEEPER ways we can all design the life of our dreams and how to gain respect from our partners instead of getting stuck in a blame game. Let’s talk about…Men Respect Women When THIS Happens Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

Red Flag Phrases Emotionally Unavailable Men Tell Women  If you have followed me for any length of time, you know that I talk about emotional availability quite often. What seems like a simple concept is actually quite complex and it can make or break a relationship. When a man is emotionally available or emotionally mature, he doesn’t shy away from sharing his feelings or having difficult conversations. He’s open to being vulnerable and he’s respectful of his partner/date/spouse when they share their own vulnerabilities. An emotionally UNAVAILABLE man is quite the opposite. He’s looking for fun, thinks he wants to be in a relationship (until the hard stuff hits), and he laughs off anyone who wants to address feelings, desires, or their life’s vision. Let’s explore the DEEPER signs that you might have an emotionally unavailable man on your hands and how you can adjust your own expectations for a long term relationship. Let’s talk about…Red Flag Phrases Emotionally Unavailable Men Tell Women Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

When He Misses You, It Means These 3 Things  I’m not gonna lie…men only hunt for their next sexual partner. Men are NOT hunting for a relationship. If they learn from others in their life how to have a monogamous relationship, then that’s the best of both worlds – finding a sexual partner who satisfies their needs who they also want to spend time with. So, is it any wonder why some men come on strong, fill your head with unicorns and rainbows, only to disappear? You know the reasons for that behavior are many but that’s why I also recommend holding off on a sexual relationship, so you can weed through the love bombing and beautiful accolades to get a feel if this guy really feels this way or is he just telling you what you want to hear in order to get into bed. Let’s explore the DEEPER ways to develop a meaningful relationship where your man will miss you instead of wanting to run away. Let’s talk about… When He Misses You, It Means These 3 Things Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

When He Pulls Away Then Comes Back, Keep This in Mind  Which group do you fall into: Group 1, where you lean back and enjoy your dating journey and see where things go. Or Group 2, where you worry about every little nuance of the dating process. There’s no right or wrong answer; it’s more of a self-exploration question. When you know how you handle the dating, mating, and relating process you’ll be better able to answer this question on your own about what it means when he pulls away and then comes back. If you’re in Group 1 and enjoying the journey, you may not even notice that your guy has pulled away. Or if you have noticed, you’ll likely not pay attention because you’re not fixated on the outcome. And if you’re in Group 2, you’ll definitely notice but you might not be so wrapped up in the reasons why because you’ll have confidence that you’re building a relationship. Let’s explore the DEEPER reasons why men pull away and how women can ease their own worries by focusing on the foundational building blocks of a solid relationship. Let’s talk about… When He Pulls Away Then Comes Back, Keep This in Mind! Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

He’ll Never Step Up or Choose You if You Keep Doing This  Do you ever get tired of making decisions? Between your work, friends, and children, I’ll bet by the end of the day you don’t want anybody calling your name or asking you to make one more decision. The same is true of guys, especially those who come on strong and believe that it’s the guy’s “job” to chase a woman he likes. Well, men get tired of chasing. Even thought that’s a popular gender role that women give to men, how do you think it feels when a guy is putting forth so much energy to ‘chase’ their love interest and she’s just sitting back, taking it all in? Let’s explore the DEEPER reasons why men get tired of chasing and why women give up their power too quickly. Let’s talk about… He’ll Never Step Up or Choose You if You Keep Doing This Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

3 Feminine Traits a High Value Man Finds Irresistible  Let’s talk about masculine and feminine energy for a moment. If you’re a longtime follower of mine, you know I don’t like the typical rhetoric surrounding these words when it comes to ‘energy.’ That’s because these different energies are often portrayed as being negative. However, let’s reframe how we think of masculine and feminine energy. In my world, I think of masculine energy as DOING and feminine energy as RECEIVING. All of us as humans have the capacity to DO and RECEIVE and there’s nothing wrong with either of those things. We can do things to show our partners or children how much they mean to us while also receiving their love in return. That doesn’t make us any less male or female. If anything, it makes us a more balanced human being. Let’s explore the DEEPER ways men and women can embrace ‘masculine’ and ‘feminine’ traits to make our relationships strong and balanced! Let’s talk about… 3 Feminine Traits a High Value Man Finds Irresistible Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

5 Secret Thoughts a High Value Man Has When He’s Totally Into You  I tend to give men a hard time when it comes to dating because many men (not all!) are just bad dates. This tends to come from the way they were raised, often with the understanding that “boys don’t cry” or “men are rocks; they don’t show their emotions.” In this current world, we all KNOW those are falsehoods but we also know that changing that programming in our midlife years is very difficult. So, when it’s time to build a relationship with a woman they like, they are often clueless about open communication and how to express those feelings. And sometimes they’re paired with women who feel the same way, so you end up with a case of both people feeling vulnerable and self-conscious about expressing themselves. Let’s explore the DEEPER thoughts men have about the woman they love and how to help them express those feelings. You might discover that some women have these same thoughts about the guys they like! Let’s talk about… 5 Secret Thoughts a High Value Man Has When He’s Totally Into You Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

Make Him Miss You (You’ve Never Heard this Before) Get ready…you might not like what I have to say on this topic. If two people genuinely like each other and have respect for each other’s values, there’s no need to play the game of “making” him miss you. This strikes me as very manipulative, whether it’s the man or woman playing this game. Being manipulative is VERY different from working on your own behavior that you don’t like or that you think is a turn off to others. Personal development is always a good thing; dating games where you’re trying to sway the other person into feeling a certain way are not. Let’s explore the DEEPER reasons people feel the need to “make” someone do something or feel a certain way instead of just being their authentic selves and earning the respect and admiration of their love interest. Let’s talk about… Make Him Miss You (You’ve Never Heard this Before) Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

Obvious Signs He’ll Never Commit…Even if He Loves You I’m going to make a generalization here that I find to be true based on my own dating experiences and with coaching clients: Women tend to view love from the fantasy or soap opera perspective. They think the man will ride in on a white horse, ready to scoop her away from her life of drudgery. Or their man will say just the right words at every moment or they will know what she’s thinking simply from a look. While these romantic movies can be fun, getting lost thinking about this as real life is detrimental. Men are NOT mind readers. Often we are not good at picking up subtle hints. And we certainly don’t say the right words all the time. This is reality, plain and simple, but I want to talk about this topic because some women really get lost in the fantasy and have difficulty knowing when they’re being strung along. Let’s explore the DEEPER signs that your man will never commit to you. We’re breaking through the fluff and fantasy and giving you some straight talk so you don’t waste any more of your precious time. Let’s talk about… Obvious Signs He’ll Never Commit…Even if He Loves You Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends

When is the Right Time to Sleep with a Guy? This seems to be an age-old question that never has a good or right answer. And it really depends on which perspective you have. If you enjoy the hook up or one-night stand culture, then you’ll argue it’s perfectly fine to have sex on the first or second date because it’s just casual. Neither party wants a steady relationship so why not? I get it. However, if you’re following me, then I’ll guess you’re past the hook up culture and are looking for a stable relationship instead of a friend with benefits. In this case I’ll argue that it takes quite a bit longer than 2 dates to build trust before sleeping with someone. In the end, it’s up to YOU to determine which camp you fall into, what your core values are, and what you’re comfortable doing without feeling bad the next day. Let’s explore the DEEPER debate between waiting to sleep with someone versus jumping into bed right away. Let’s talk about…When is the Right Time to Sleep with a Guy? Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends