Values Based Living
Values Based Living
Values Based Living
Two inner-conflict resolution practitioners who turn conflict skills and techniques inward to help people who want to get into alignment with their values. Ali and Coreen are Qualified and Chartered mediators, respectively, and have mediated disputes between parties for over 25 years collectively. Read more about VBL at www.values-basedliving.com. Values Based Living support is not meant to replace therapy or advice from health care professionals.
Navigating Tough Transitions Using Values
Coreen is moving! So we talk about how to use values to navigate life's tough transitions. Tips, tricks, and stories abound. Check out the Values Based Annual Planner referenced in this episode. Join us on ⁠Patreon⁠ for episodes that go even deeper.
Jun 1, 2023
54 min
Finding Purpose Using Values
Our monthly Zoom Q & A recorded as a podcast. We talk about how knowing your values helps us to live our purpose. Watch this episode on our Youtube channel.  Join us on Patreon for more podcast episodes that go even deeper. Take our free ⁠Values Quiz⁠. 
May 15, 2023
57 min
How Learning to be Assertive Changed our Lives
As mediators, we love assertiveness! Coreen and Ali share what it was like for us before we learned these skills, and tips we learned along the way towards becoming more assertive. Want more? Take the Values Based Assertiveness course. Watch this episode on our Youtube channel.  Join us on Patreon for more podcast episodes that go even deeper. Take our free ⁠Values Quiz⁠. 
May 1, 2023
40 min
How to Invest Using Values
A Zoom Q&A focused on how to make values-based decisions about money and investing. Watch this episode on our Youtube channel.  Join us on Patreon for more podcast episodes that go deeper.
Apr 15, 2023
56 min
3 Signs You're Disconnected from Your Values
We explore 3 ways we can be disconnected from our values, and how to find the path back to them. Join us on Patreon for more podcast episodes that go even deeper. Take our free Values Quiz.
Apr 1, 2023
34 min
Assertiveness and Values
Coreen and Kristina host a free Zoom call to talk about the 2 types of Expectations at Values Based Living: Standards and Boundaries. One of our favourite topics!  Make this topic relevant for your own life by taking the Values Based Assertiveness Course.  Join us on Patreon for more podcast episodes that go even deeper. 
Mar 15, 2023
35 min
Juggling Parenting and Work with Values
Warning: this episode is for parents! Complete with a 9 month old playing in the background, this episode truly embodies what it means to be a multi-tasking parent. Ali interviews Kristina, VBL's Social Media Coordinator and dedicated values enthusiast, about what it's been like as a new mom with 2 kids and an otherwise full life.  Kristina shares her challenges and learnings, and how values have helped her find common ground with her 4 year old when they seem to want totally different things.  Watch this episode on our Youtube channel.  Join us on Patreon for more podcast episodes that go even deeper.
Mar 1, 2023
45 min
6 Ways to Make a Good Decision
Coreen and Ali talk in their monthly Zoom Q&A about 6 Ways to Make a Good Decision, and answer questions from participants.  Free handout of the 6 Ways to Make a Good Decision Reverse Goal Setting Workshop
Feb 15, 2023
53 min
Love and Values
We gush about our love for LOVE! Love is a top value for both Ali and Coreen, who explore how developing their own standards, boundaries, and general assertiveness allowed them to get into healthier relationship with their value of love. We refer to our Values Based Assertiveness course And our Exploring Shadow Values workshop Join us on Patreon for more podcast episodes that go even deeper. We also reference The Little Love Book, by Elise Poppers And the 8 Types of Love According to the Ancient Greeks
Feb 1, 2023
30 min
5 Tips to Setting Manageable Goals
This is a bonus episode to acknowledge the new year. We have some tips to share when it comes to setting manageable goals. What better time to share them than the time of new year’s resolutions! Here's a sneak peek of the 5 tips to Setting Manageable Goals:  Identify how you currently set goals. What gets in your way about your current process? What works? Instead of diving right into your goals, try starting with your values. Identify a value that has been present for you lately and THEN come up with a goal that might satisfy it.  List all of the things you can do to meet this goal. No step is too small.  Identify what other values might be at play in achieving your goal. Are there any that could get frustrated? Others that might get satisfied? Notice your thoughts, emotions, and behaviour as you're completing this exercise (and when you're taking steps to achieve this goal). As you’re writing down or imagining your goal, what’s coming up? Use this information to let you know how 'hot' or 'cold' you are in coming up with a goal that you will actually want to achieve.  Want more? Learn about our Reverse Goal Setting workshop that dives more deeply into this process. Join us on Patreon for more podcast episodes that go even deeper.  Resources: Free Values Based Goal Setting Handout
Jan 11, 2023
21 min
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