The Midlife Feast
The Midlife Feast
Jenn Salib Huber RD ND
#173 - How To Age Without Apology with Deb Benfield RDN
30 minutes Posted Dec 1, 2025 at 7:00 am.
Welcome And Episode Set-Up
Why Looking “Older” Feels Threatening
Meet Deb And Her Mission
What Internalized Ageism Really Is
Fear, Patriarchy, And Appearance Pressure
Separating Facts Of Aging From Stories
Ableism, Bias, And Unlearning
Relapse Risks In Wellness Culture
Autonomy, Values, And “Aging Well”
Unapologetic Aging: The Book Framework
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What if the fear of “looking older” isn’t really about wrinkles at all, but about relevance, visibility, and power? I welcome registered dietitian and author Deb Benfield to dig into internalized ageism and the subtle ways culture teaches us to distrust our future selves. We walk about how it gets tangled up with diet culture, wellness trends, and perfectionism. Together we unpack why compliments like “you haven’t aged a bit” keep youth on a pedestal, how patriarchy and ableism shape appearan...