Message me your 'Takeaways'. This morning at breakfast, I told my wife I'm locking in my next 45-day fitness challenge. I know how that sounds when you're running a business, married, and raising a young family. But that's exactly why most men never do the things they say they will. They wait for the perfect season. They say "one day." And quietly, that one day fades away. In this episode, I share the 3-step system I use to stop postponing the life I want, and how you can lock yours in witho...
Jul 5
14 min
Message me your 'Takeaways'. Dan Gillen grew up working cattle stations in the Northern Territory, a life of ringers, rodeos, and motorbikes. At 17, he accidentally ran over a man who had fallen asleep drunk in the middle of a dark road. At 25, he lost his sister Tiff to suicide. Out of both of those moments came a calling. Today Dan is a counsellor and equine-assisted therapist operating near Maryborough on the Fraser Coast in Queensland. He uses horses, who mirror their clients' emotions in...
Jul 2
1 hr 1 min
Message me your 'Takeaways'. You walk in the door. Your body's home, but your head is still at work, the invoices, the tough conversation, the subby who didn't show up. Your wife and kids can feel it, even if nothing's been said. In this episode, I break down why home feels tense after work, even when nothing's actually wrong, and the simple framework I use to make sure that when I walk through the door, I'm actually there. You'll learn: - Why your family can tell when you're mentally still...
Jun 28
9 min
Message me your 'Takeaways'. Are you always the one reaching out to your mates? Always the one organising the catch-up, making the call, keeping the friendship alive? In this episode, I break down why male friendships quietly fade as we get older, why it's not about your mates not caring, and the exact system to build relationships that actually last, even with a packed career, a family, and a busy life. You'll learn: - Why men become lonelier as they get older (and what the data says) - Ho...
Jun 21
14 min
Message me your 'Takeaways'. Boring marriages aren't broken marriages. Nobody's fighting. Nobody's unhappy enough to leave. You just feel flat, two people running the same household. And that's exactly what makes them dangerous. In this episode, I break down why the spark dies in long-term relationships, and more importantly, the exact system I use with clients to bring it back, even when life is full, the career is demanding, and the kids are running the show. This is the conversation most c...
Jun 14
14 min
Message me your 'Takeaways'. I put these 7 things on Instagram a few weeks ago. It hasn't stopped getting comments and notifications since. So I brought it here, because this is a conversation every man needs to have. If you want a successful life and a great marriage, most men are focusing on the wrong things. They're building the career, hitting the goals, ticking the boxes, and slowly letting the most important parts of their life slip away without even realising it. This episode covers th...
Jun 7
13 min
Message me your 'Takeaways'. If you're in your mid-30s or 40s and your fitness feels like it's slipping, this episode is for you. A strong body after 35 looks completely different to what it did in your 20s. Real life is pulling you in every direction: work, kids, mortgage, relationships. And the old approach, training hard, recovering fast, bouncing back,isn't cutting it the same way anymore. In this episode, I walk you through the 5 pillars of a strong body for men over 35, and why missing ...
May 31
18 min
Message me your 'Takeaways'. Ask 10 men what a good man actually is, and you'll get 10 different answers. Ask most of them to live it out, and they go silent. We've spent more than a decade arguing about what masculinity is, picking it apart, telling men what they shouldn't be. And somewhere in the noise, we forgot to give men something to aim at. In this episode, I walk you through the three-part framework I use with every man I coach: Define Him. Find the Gap. Vote Him Into Existence....
May 24
20 min
Message me your 'Takeaways'. You could be surrounded by people at a work party, at home with your family, at a barbecue with your mates, and still feel completely alone. That's not a weakness. That's what loneliness actually looks like for most men. And 43% of us are living it right now. In this episode, I break down why male loneliness is one of the most urgent conversations we aren't having, why the men most affected are 35–49 year olds, and, more importantly, exactly what you can do so you...
May 17
16 min
Message me your 'Takeaways'. When life gets hard, most people sacrifice the one thing they need most, their body. Sleep drops. Training stops. The habits that kept them going disappear overnight. In this episode, I share the nine-month period where I did exactly that, moved back from playing elite rugby in France, didn't know what I was doing with my life, and numbed it all with parties and alcohol instead of doing the work. I also break down the Strong Body Dashboard: the simple tracking sys...
May 10
14 min
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