Being able to help someone else out of their mess can feel empowering. When you're the used to being the person who fixes things, sometimes it's easy to try to step in to help others who don't want to be helped or rescued. In this episode, the host Iesha Grove, shares some personal lessons learned in trying to rescue other people who aren't wanting to be rescued. Naturally, as fixers, it's easy to want to come in to save the day for someone else, but this habit can be harmful not only to others, but to ourselves as well. It can cause tension in a relationship, and it can even create toxic behavior patterns like co-dependency. You can even start to neglect yourself and your needs to be there for everyone else- self sacrifice and love for others takes priority because you care and you don't want those around you to suffer so you're willing to do whatever it takes to support them. The issue is that the path to true love is loving yourself first, setting boundaries in your relationships, and taking care of yourself first physically, emotionally, spiritually, and mentally in order to have the capacity to support others. Listen in to learn the way that you can help someone without "helping" them so that you can protect your relationships and your own mental, emotional, and physical health. After all, you have to rescue yourself first before you can save anyone else. Please share this episode with someone who is a "fixer" and needs to hear this. Connect with Iesha Grove on other platforms here: https://linktr.ee/ieshag86 Be sure to leave a review if this message resonated with you. Have a great day, and stay encouraged!

Carrying shame in our lives doesn't help us accomplish more, it haults our progress and hurts our spiritual growth. If you want to combat thoughts or beliefs, or even the projections of others of shame to be who you're meant to be in Christ, then this episode is for you. Shame can't coexist with grace. It's no match for God's grace. Iesha Grove, reminds us to focus on what matters in our lives- thing like the fact that we're forgiven, chosen, set a part, and loved. Get rid of the shame today- release it and cling to God and His grace. It's sufficient today and everyday! Share this episode with someone who needs it, and don't forget to give yourself some grace today. Connect with Iesha Grove on other platforms here: https://linktr.ee/ieshag86

Have you ever found yourself feeling guilty over something that you didn't do as a Christian like not reading your Bible, or not spending an hour in prayer? If so, take a listen to this epsiode where, the host, Iesha Grove explains how we can trap ourselves into thinking that if we check off all right boxes in life, that somehow, we're earning favor with God. Instead, we can be free of the weight of what if's and put the focus on God and His grace. It's a process to break free from legalism, and it's a hard one. It requires investigation and decision making to truly live in God's grace and not cultural/traditional chains. When we truly live in God's grace, it's not an excuse for us to sin, but it becomes the reason why we make the choices we make each day and continue to be in relationship with God. Let us know what you see differently after listening to this episode. We can't wait to hear from you! Connect with Iesha for more suport here: https://linktr.ee/ieshag86

Have you ever felt that God's grace is too good to be true? Do you think there are strings attached as a child of God, or that you have to do certain things in order for Him to bless you, protect you, or hear your prayers? What about feelings that you're not enough, or you're not doing enough? Those are thoughts or beliefs that Christians battle constantly. I n this episode, the host, Iesha Grove, explains how we should think about God's grace, as well as how it can be dangerous when we add things on to God's grace. It's God's grace, and God's grace alone. We don't need to add on to that. But how do we embrace God's grace fully and realistically into our lives? You'll find out exactly that, in this episode because the truth is that God's grace is for you! If this episode was meaningful to you, then we want to hear from you. Be sure to leave a review and share this with someone who is tough on themselves and needs a dose of God's grace today. If you enjoyed this, then you won't want to miss the next episode: part 2 of this series: Legalism Versus Grace. Have a great day, and stay encouraged! You can connect with the host, Iesha Grove, here: https://linktr.ee/ieshag86

Imagine being 17 at the peak of your athletic career, when all of a sudden, the world feels like it's caving underneath you. You lose some of your family members, your home, and even get into a car accident that leaves you within inches of your life. If you've ever felt discouraged about a situation going on in your life, or gone through something and thought, "This isn't fair," OR you just aren't sure how much longer you can hold on, then this episode is for you. Timothy Alexander (Also known as TA) shares his powerful testimony on the show. His message is one of perseverance, faith, mercy, grace, and the glory of God. TA is a Best Selling writer, award-winning speaker, and life coach who excels in the realm of character development, growth mindset, and mentorship. TA's testimony reminds us not to take any day or anything for granted. It reminds us to prepare to face adversity instead of running from it or becoming a casualty to it. His message reminds that the mind is so powerful, and that if we hold on to God's promises instead of the words of the "nay sayers," then we can overcome life's toughest battles. Our goal is for you to walk away from this message feeling encouraged and inspired to take aligned action in your life and walk in your purpose. Timothy Alexander lives by the quote, "We don't need it to be easy: we just need it to be possible." For some added encouragement, listen to the song, Optimistic by Sounds of Blackness, that TA reference's on the show, just copy and paste this link https://youtu.be/TEtVfQNTs2I?si=J5P2YFo6gzUjnuTC To hear more Timothy Alexander's story, watch his TedX video: https://youtu.be/Q8ncQdtGAj8?si=-Dhd7GjcYheBzibv Connect with TA and his team here: https://www.inspiredbyta.com Follow him on Instagram: @InspiredbyTA Connect with The Encouraged Overcomer Podcast host, Iesha Grove here: https://linktr.ee/ieshag86 Let us know what you think about this episode, share it with a loved one, and don't forget to leave a review. We'd love to hear from you!

It's easy to think that God will give us everything we pray for so long as we wait on Him. However, in today's episode, the host, Iesha Grove, challenges that idea. When we operate in a limited mindset, we also put limits on God. God invites us to actively participate in His plan and partner with Him. A deep connection with God isn't transactional, it's relational. It's about connection, alignment, surrender, faith, and action. Today is the day that we stop sitting on the sidelines of our lives, waiting for God to do all the work and using excuses to justify our inaction. Iesha discusses the affects of relying on signs from God as confirmation that we're doing the "right" thing. Explore the truth that everything you're looking for is within you. If you're wanting to read a story to help you connect with this on a deeper level, we recommend the book, The Alchemist, by Paulo Coelho: https://www.amazon.com/Alchemist-Paulo- https://www.amazon.com/The-Alchemist-Paulo-Coelho-audiobook/dp/B000BO2D3C/ref=tmm_aud_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=&sr= You can connect with Iesha Grove here: https://linktr.ee/ieshag86 Please be sure to leave a review and share this episode with a friend or loved one. We can't wait to hear from you! Have a great day and stay encouraged!

Sometimes we think that prayer doesn't matter and that there's no need when God is just going to do His thing and His plan is already in place. In this episode, Iesha Grove shares why we should pray, why it matters to God, what happens when we don't pray, and how we can add prayer into our day to day life without making it complicated. Prayer is not only communication, but it's a partnership and tool that we can use to align with God's plan. Prayer is powerful and life-changing. Prayer matters and prayer works. Please be sure to leave a review if this episode resonates with you, and let us know what you will be incorporating in your prayer life moving forward. We'd love to hear from you! Have a great day, and stay encouraged! Connect with Iesha here: https://linktr.ee/ieshag86 If you want to take a deeper dive into this topic, then we recommend listening to the following episode on another amazing podcast called the Verity Podcast, by Phylicia Masonheimer https://veritybyphylicia.libsyn.com/117-why-pray-if-god-is-sovereign?_ga=2.53706920.1865797082.1691589097-106291107.1690754436

Living on Purpose is about living life with intention that aligns with God's plan for your life. In this episode, the host, Iesha Grove, shares tips and strategies that will help you live life on purpose and maximize the next 24 hours of your life. Aligning with God's purpose is more than prayer, meditation, and scripture. Be ready to learn how to do the following and more: Prioritize Spiritual Practices Practice Gratitude and Mindfulness Practice Generosity and Service Don't forget to listen to episode 7, "Are You a Dreamer?" If you're wanting a process on how to find your purpose. https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ieshagencourage/episodes/Ep--7-Are-You-A-Dreamer-e1tqi6p Stay until the end to learn the 3 bonus tips from the book Commanding Your Morning by Cindy Trimm: https://www.amazon.com/Commanding-Your-Morning-Unleash-Power/dp/1599791773/ref=sr_1_1?crid=GXSBFY5FZV0Y&keywords=commanding+your+morning&qid=1691523002&sprefix=commanding+your+morning%2Caps%2C99&sr=8-1 Connect with Iesha here: https://linktr.ee/ieshag86

Vulnerability has a bad reputation. At times it's thought to be a sign of weakness or being messy. Vulnerability is necessary for our spiritual, emotional, and mental growth. In this episode, the host Iesha Grove discusses how you can be vulnerable, why it’s so hard to be vulnerable, and the role it plays in personal growth and healing. We encourage you to walk away after listening to the episode, knowing how vulnerability can create true connection, as well as how bravely sharing personal stories of how you overcame challenges leads to inspiration, belonging, and impact. Vulnerability is hard. Especially if we get used to keeping our "sword" up. The challenge is for you to think back to a time when you were truly vulnerable with someone and recall what happened. Now, think about how can you take what you learned from that experience along with the encouragement from this episode, and apply it to your life today. Let us know your story- we want to hear from you! Here is the link to Episode 34: How are you Showing up for Yourself Today? https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/GotF0E28WBb Here are the links to two of Brene Brown's books and a quiz that was mentioned in today's episode Daring Greatly: https://a.co/d/1aIWetW Gifts of Imperfection: https://a.co/d/eVgSvCt Here is the link to the Wholehearted Inventory Quiz (Click begin at the bottom of the page): https://brenebrown.com/wholeheartedinventory If you're looking for more support, please connect with me here: https://linktr.ee/ieshag86 Get out there today and be brave, be real, be vulnerable. No regrets- you got this!

Do you ever feel like you struggle between whether or not you need to push yourself to keep going towards your goals, or take the time to slow down and rest and give yourself some grace? It's a hard thing to try to figure out, especially when you're tough on yourself already. Sometimes it's not clear if what you're experiencing moment to moment is a fleeting feeling or a signal from your body and spirit telling you it's time to take a break and rest from the constant pursuit of going after your goals/dreams. If you feel like you start out strong when trying to get things done or lock in new habits whether it be for your business, your health, work, or your personal life, but then it's only a matter of time for when things go back to the way they were before you got started, then this episode is for you. The Encouraged Overcomer Podcast host, Iesha Grove shares the insight she mentioned to a friend who had the question, "When is it time to have grit and push past my feelings or show myself grace when it comes to getting things done?" The truth is that sometimes we need to suck it up, and sometimes we need to give grace. The trick is figuring out what is what and how to respond in a way that benefits you and your efforts to get you to that goal/dream without the burnout. Stay until the end to get the answer to this important question, (in Iesha's opinion) and let us know if this episode is helpful to you in your life's journey. Connect with Iesha here: https://linktr.ee/ieshag86