On Attachment
On Attachment
Stephanie Rigg
#268: When You're Not Attracted to Healthy Partners (Ask Steph)
8 minutes Posted Jun 24, 2026 at 2:01 pm.
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In today's Ask Steph episode, I'm answering the question of "How long to keep pursuing a connection with someone who's great and ticks all my boxes — except that I'm not physically attracted to them?"

I share some thoughts on why this can happen — particularly if your attraction template has historically gravitated towards inconsistent and unpredictable connections — and how long you should wait and see before calling it.