Pleasing often looks beautiful from the outside. Attentive. Devoted. Which is exactly why so many women mistake it for love. It's often painfully to come to the realization that what was once believed to be love was also shaped by something else... Fear. Fear of conflict. Fear of disappointing others. Fear of losing connection. Fear of being experienced as difficult. In this episode, I explore why people pleasing can look deeply loving from the outside, and why it often develops as a brillian...