What happens when outward attention comes from love… instead of fear? In this episode, I respond to a recent social media trend: Mom...What were you like in the 90s? With reflects on a video, from that period, with sitting on the floor with my three young children. What the video reveals to me about presence, motherhood, and the difference between attunement and self-abandonment. Because not all outward attention is people-pleasing. Sometimes presence is love in action. Sometimes ...