Searching for answers, trying to figure out where the relationship failed and how one should move forward. Do you want the truth, or are you looking for support? 

• Do you want the truth, or are you looking for support? 
• It's tough for a friend to help you make a change unless you want the harsh truth.
• When we lose honesty, we lose truth.
• When we want to be supportive and agree.
• The next time you have a problem, ask yourself if you want support or honesty.
• Think about the five people you're around the most.
• When they don't want to be called out.
• Some people are brutally honest.
• Why do younger people think we have time for the nonsense?
• The best thing you can do now
• You can choose to take responsibility for what you've created and change it.
• Once you get your body in order, you feel better and more powerful.
• It sometimes takes a good friend or mentor to explain that harsh truth, and hear that you need to fix your own life.

Key Quotes

"We've gotten to a point where we don't want to be honest with people anymore. We don't want to tell the truth, because we fear people saying, 'You're judging me.'"

"We have to ask ourselves: do we want support or do we want truth? Do we want someone who will enable us, or someone who will help us by giving us clarity? What do we want?"

"You are the average of the five people you spend the most time with." -- Jim Rohn