When you’re so open about you’re relationship, people will ask about it. I get it. One thing I can say, as a woman and friend, is that your “picker” isn’t off. You don’t have a knack for choosing assholes. For too long we’ve chalked up habits as mistakes. This person has shown us who they are time and time again. Yet we somehow still convinced ourselves to settle for breadcrumbs. I’m not at that point in my life right now, but trust me when I say I get it. The “buts” always get you. But he has so much going on. But I was being kind of dramatic, and it triggered him. Also, news flash, if he has to call you “crazy” after you merely asking for the bare minimum- RED FLAG. Full stop, sis!! You’ve already heard me say this shit- relationships are hard. The bottom line is you are a choice. You, and your time, are so incredibly valuable. If someone isn’t valuing you from the beginning stop the fucking “buts”. But nothing. A man that values these things, will show up. They will consistently choose you and actively change. PERIOD. Stop being a Mom to a grown ass man. Everyone has baggage at this point in their lives. Show the fuck up or get out!! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/carissa-oswald/support