How To Stop People-pleasing: Are You Making Their Feelings Too Important? People-pleasing drives us to over-prioritize and emphasize people's negative feelings towards us and towards other things. This can motivate us to try to fix their feelings, which blinds us to important realities about what is happening, including: 1) Incompatibilities between you and that person 2) Boundary violations that you've done or they've done 3) Ignoring of your intuition and sense of the situation 4...