Tender curiosities:

• Does it seem like everyone else knows the secret of how to “do this right”?
• “Getting grief right” has nothing to do with escaping it or fixing it.
• The six most common pieces of advice we are offered in the name of love and why they are actually hurting us.

Let’s acknowledge the elephant in the room. We have all judged someone else’s grief process. We might not say it out loud, but we are thinking it… Why is she still wearing her ring? She goes to the cemetary too much - or not enough. Isn’t it time she moved on? or She bounced back quickly! She must not have loved him very much. I didn’t know the extent to which I was judging others until I was living my own immense grief journey. This came back to bite me in the backside once I faced my own grief experience.