I can look at a situation and decide what it means and get it completely wrong!  Then, if I get it wrong, I react in the wrong way. 

I’m guessing you have done this too. 

Sometimes it’s because we are just not paying full attention, so we get half the facts, draw a conclusion, and its off target. 

Other times we get our conclusion wrong because we come to the situation with a perspective, like colored “lenses” that affect what we see. 

This episode gives you some tips to deal with this human tendency to get it wrong. 
We need to be more fully in the moment, with humility. 

And having the attitude of a learner makes you open to different information. That different information may change your perspective.