Dear Son,
Dear Son,
Derek Johns
I've Had Enough | Dads Are Tired | Ep 215 | The Dear Son, Show
47 minutes Posted Sep 25, 2026 at 11:00 am.
Setting New Priorities
Show Intro and Catch Up
Feeling Spread Too Thin
Consideration and Reciprocity
Breaking Point and Cutting Ties
Health First and Letting People Fall Off
Hard Lessons Build Grit
Red Flags and Emotional Suppression
Frustration Spilling Over
Selfishness For Survival
Speak Up Before You Snap
Career Goals And Boundaries
Marriage Needs Clarity
Corporate Burnout Story
Birthday Email Blowup
Dependability Gets Exploited
Stop Spoiling People
Real Friends Check In
Trust And Proximity
Signs And Confirmation
Episode Wrap Up
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Every father should have honest conversations with his son. In this episode of The Dear Son, Show, we explore the lessons fathers must teach their sons before adulthood.
Stop Being Everyone’s Fixer: Protect Your Health, Family & Purpose | Dear Son Show
In this episode of The Dear Son Show, hosts D Johns and Jey Blac open up about feeling spread too thin, frustration from a lack of reciprocity, and how being dependable can lead others to exploit your time and energy. They discuss setting firm boundaries, prioritizing health, family, and the platform, and learning to be “selfish” for self-preservation without becoming a selfish person. D. Johns shares lessons from his corporate past about overextending, how unaddressed stress can spill into other relationships, and why communicating needs matters before resentment builds. The conversation also touches on letting people fall off if they don’t fit your priorities, and the value of trusted friends who genuinely ask how you’re doing.
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