
From Jordans to $580K: Teaching Kids Ownership with Wall Street With Wallace
On the Dear Son Show, host Jey Blac welcomes financial analyst and chief market strategist Wallace Fisher (“Wall Street With Wallace”), a husband, father in a blended family of seven, and Christ follower, to discuss fatherhood through financial literacy. Fisher shares how his investing journey began with Home Depot’s employee stock plan and 401(k), how a spiritual advisor inspired him to give assets instead of big Christmas gifts, and how consistently buying his son stocks in companies he used helped build a portfolio that reached $580,000—leading the son to quit football due to CTE concerns and pursue portfolio management. They discuss starting early with kids, routines for learning the market, the dangers of internet “tips,” the value of mentorship and accountability, and beginner approaches like disciplined saving, ETFs, and researching fundamentals. Follow the channel, subscribe, and leave a review.
00:00 Gifts Into Stocks
01:29 Show Intro And Guest
03:03 Meet Wallace Fisher
05:20 Family And Athletes
07:50 Finance Origin Story
10:00 Home Depot To 200K
12:35 Christmas As Assets
16:00 Quitting Football Shock
19:48 Parenting Evolves Over Time
24:21 Kids Learn By Watching
26:32 Internet Investing Warnings
29:17 Routine First Steps
31:30 Daily Reading Habit
33:59 Mentorship Over Ego
39:07 Class Structure Accountability
43:27 Starting With Small Money
48:50 Portfolio Basics ETFs
51:55 Research Beats Cheap Stocks
55:10 Contact Info Wrap Up
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Sep 4
58 min

Every father should have honest conversations with his son. In this episode of The Dear Son, Show, we explore the lessons fathers must teach their sons before adulthood.
Dear Son: Tomorrow Isn’t Promised — Condensing the Lessons, Health Wake-Ups & Dating vs. Marriage Energy
Hosts D Johns and Jey Blac open the Dear Son Show by reflecting on health wake-up calls, accountability, and support Jey has received while chronicling his fitness and recovery journey. They emphasize that tomorrow isn’t promised and urge parents to “condense” key conversations with their kids rather than delaying important lessons. They discuss how children can misread a parent’s communication, reinforce that love and frustration can coexist, and argue that correction shows belief in a child. The conversation shifts to relationships: distinguishing lust, love, sex, and long-term consequences, warning against applying “marriage energy” in dating, and advising sons to understand value, phases, and self-awareness. They also defend having practical talks about protection without “letting the streets” educate kids, encouraging listeners to stop leaving critical conversations to chance.
00:00 Cold Open Banter
00:51 Welcome to Dear Son
01:31 Health Scare Update
02:58 Fitness Accountability Plan
04:37 Tomorrow Isn’t Promised
07:43 Condense the Lessons
10:58 Love Not Performance
15:54 Correction Means Belief
19:25 Dating vs Marriage Energy
24:19 Commitment Clocks
26:20 Environment Shapes Love
27:38 Fixer Fantasy Trap
29:26 Value Over Hope
33:16 Sex Love Decoupling
35:32 Real Talk Protection
38:33 Talk Before Streets
42:55 Conversations Cost
44:51 Final Thanks Goodbye
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Aug 31
46 min

Every father should have honest conversations with his son. In this episode of The Dear Son, Show, we explore the lessons fathers must teach their sons before adulthood.
From Gangs to Purpose: Louie McClain II on Fatherhood, Identity, and Building Pathways
On The Dear Son Show, host (D Johns) converses with Louie McClain II from Arlington, Texas, who recounts getting involved in gangs, hiding violence and drug activity from his Liberian immigrant mother, and a pivotal school incident caught on camera that devastated her. Louie explains how seeking protection, acceptance, clout, and a father figure drew him deeper into that life amid a diverse, volatile environment, while his biological father was largely absent after moving to Delaware and later kicked him out. After college in Pensacola studying criminal justice, he found purpose helping at-risk young men and worked in juvenile justice for seven years. Now a father of two, he discusses being unprepared for parenting, challenges of having hard conversations with kids, and building a clear vision through entrepreneurship, including Melanin Origins, The Meditative Coach, and leading the nonprofit Building Pathways to connect disadvantaged people to high-paying construction careers.
00:00 Caught on Camera
00:22 Purpose From Pain
00:57 Welcome to Dear Son
01:53 Optimism and Enthusiasm
02:48 Leaving Home and College
03:48 Arlington and Gang Life
04:47 Why Criminal Justice
06:35 Drawn to the Streets
08:55 Home Life and Hiding It
11:32 School Fight Intervention
13:25 Acceptance and Father Figures
16:32 Identity as African American
17:38 Biological Father Story
23:15 What a Father Absence Costs
25:26 Needing Dad at Any Age
26:54 Custody And Ages
27:29 Unprepared Fatherhood
29:01 Choosing To Be Present
30:24 Learning A New Blueprint
32:13 What To Tell The Kids
34:45 Timing Hard Conversations
38:20 Work Versus Family
41:30 Becoming This Version
44:01 Building Melanin Origins
45:05 Vision And Identity Shift
50:38 Building Pathways Mission
55:20 Where To Find Him
56:00 Closing Thoughts
#fathersonrelationship #adviceformen #modernfatherhood #adultchildren #lifelessonsformen #raisingmen #raisingkids #mantalk #DearSon #Fatherhood #JuvenileJustice #SecondChances #Mentorship #FatherSon #YouthMentoring #Redemption
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Aug 28
57 min

Young Man: You Must Train People How to Treat You | Setting Boundaries | Ep 208 | The Dear Son, Show
Every father should have honest conversations with his son. In this episode of The Dear Son, Show, we explore the lessons fathers must teach their sons before adulthood.
Dear Son: Which Side of the Process Are You On? Boundaries, Criticism & Real Growth
On The Dear Son Show, hosts Jey Blac and D Johns discuss how society treats disagreement and criticism, arguing that always “taking the high road” can enable disrespect if boundaries aren’t set and enforced. They explore “which side of the process” you’re on—waiting for outcomes versus doing the work—using an orange vs. fresh-squeezed juice analogy, and connect it to parenting, public perception, and social media clips shaping opinions. They emphasize training people how to treat you, defending your name when boundaries are breached, and teaching children awareness, environment-reading, and how behavior communicates value—especially in risky social settings. The episode closes with announcements of a docuseries and live event, and a personal doc-style segment beginning August 15, 2026, following a 90-day health journey after a dangerous blood-pressure reading and a commitment to lifestyle and nutrition changes.
00:00 Disagreeing Feels Forbidden
00:59 Meet Dear Son Show
01:23 Texas Heat Warmup
01:49 Which Side of Process
02:26 Orange Juice Mindset
03:23 Critics and High Road
04:50 Parenting Under Scrutiny
05:53 Kids Pushback Dialogues
08:32 Dishes Lesson Boundaries
10:41 Clips and Misjudgment
11:08 Stop Taking High Road
15:36 Training Treatment Boundaries
16:56 Defending Your Name
18:22 Knowing Your Worth
19:10 Value Shown Not Said
19:38 Common Denominator Check
20:23 Dump Truck Or Jewel Box
22:21 Teaching Kids Awareness
24:43 Environments Shape You
29:00 Twenties Are Theory
29:38 Consequences Lag Lesson
31:33 Elders Were Right
33:26 Network Updates And Events
34:56 High Road And Gratitude
37:42 Docuseries Day One
38:30 Health Wake Up Call
39:35 Assessment And Lifestyle Plan
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Aug 24
37 min

Every father should have honest conversations with his son. In this episode of The Dear Son, Show, we explore the lessons fathers must teach their sons before adulthood.
NéAndré Broussard on Fatherhood, Vulnerability & Building Blac Menswear | Dear Son Show
On The Dear Son Show, host D Johns talks with NéAndré Broussard—child of God, husband, father, and visionary entrepreneur—about how his Marine father’s disciplined presence shaped his approach to parenting, structure, and being a dad who’s not a friend. Broussard shares how corporate travel and the loneliness of hotel life pushed him toward full-time entrepreneurship, and how his wife Erica’s support, therapy, and better communication helped him lead through a difficult transition while learning to be vulnerable. He explains Blac Menswear’s mission to change narratives about Black men through content, storytelling, experiences, service, and global brotherhood, including navigating early backlash and defining excellence as aspirational. Broussard credits the vision’s origin to Philando Castile’s killing and describes goals to become a destination platform for Black men. Subscribe and comment with the moment that resonated most.
00:00 Backlash and Criticism
01:00 Show Welcome and Guest Intro
03:00 Roots in Houston and Dallas
03:47 Marine Dad to Softer Side
07:14 Presence Is Production
11:33 Hotel Door Turning Point
15:45 Wife as the Rock
20:04 Rough Transition and Therapy
26:46 Modeling Conflict for Kids
28:57 Nonverbal Damage Lessons
30:36 Raising Boys Presently
34:07 Travel Mindset Lessons
35:51 Father Not Friend
37:52 What Is Blac Menswear
42:05 Excellence As Standard
45:27 Backlash And Staying Ten Toes
51:34 Vision Sparked By Philando
57:31 Essence For Men Dream
01:01:34 Vulnerability Advice To Sons
01:04:34 Where To Find Him
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Aug 21
1 hr 6 min

Every father should have honest conversations with his son. In this episode of The Dear Son, Show, we explore the lessons fathers must teach their sons before adulthood.
Dear Son: Where Did That Come From? Why Examples, Culture, and Honesty Matter
Hosts D Johns and Jey Blac open The Dear Son Show with light family updates, then center the episode on the question, “Son, where did that come from?”—a prompt for understanding the roots of a child’s emotions, choices, and hesitation to communicate. They discuss why examples matter in learning decency and relationship skills, how cultural norms shape expectations and conflict, and why authenticity—rather than sending a “representative”—is crucial in dating and marriage. The conversation stresses sharing age-appropriate real-life stories and lessons, addressing red flags and abusive behavior early, and not covering for harmful actions to avoid consequences. They emphasize checking children’s reactions in sports and life, being intentional about trade-offs, and using honest dialogue to equip sons beyond what they observe at home.
00:00 Fatherhood Reference Point
00:42 Show Intro and Hosts
01:05 Back to School Pickup Chaos
02:09 Grandbaby Turns Two
03:47 Where Did That Come From
06:19 Comment Sparked the Topic
08:58 Why Examples Matter
11:53 Decency vs Relationship History
14:52 Cultural Norms and Ethnocentrism
18:29 Family Culture Inside the House
19:14 Kids Growing Up and Parenting Shifts
20:59 Authenticity in Relationships
22:23 Safety Nonnegotiables
23:52 Tell The Whole Story
25:50 Drop The Representative
33:43 Dating Without Attachments
35:29 Modeling Is Not Enough
37:43 Checking Aggression Early
41:17 Stop Covering Abuse
46:45 Tradeoffs And Farewell
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Aug 17
47 min

Every father should have honest conversations with his son. In this episode of The Dear Son, Show, we explore the lessons fathers must teach their sons before adulthood.
Dear Son: Who Do You Think You Are? | Lessons vs. Examples, Ego, and Receiving Wisdom
In this episode of The Dear Son Show, hosts Jey Blac and D Johns discuss identity and the question “Who do you think you are?” through fatherhood, focusing on how people—especially younger generations—often discredit advice by “considering the source” rather than the lesson. They debate whether someone with failures (like multiple divorces or an overweight doctor) can still offer valid wisdom, and warn against seeking to invalidate others, getting stuck on word choice (like “universe” vs. God), or creating echo chambers. They explore how God’s answers may come in unexpected “packaging,” how disregarding guidance can become self-sabotage, and how imposter syndrome and feeling undeserving can undermine growth. The hosts share personal reflections on parenting, missed opportunities, and staying open to learning from anywhere, then preview upcoming Dear Son Network projects including a series with Jey Blac’s dad and a health documentary.
00:00 Lessons for My Kids
00:51 Welcome to Dear Son
01:55 Episode Theme Identity
03:27 Parents Get Dismissed
05:00 Consider the Source
06:59 Invalidation Culture
10:48 Doctor Example Marketing
13:36 Universe vs God Wordplay
17:50 Don’t Worship People
20:14 Sports Coach Breakthrough
23:47 Adult Children Advice
24:09 Lessons for My Kids
25:06 Consistency Beats Hype
26:23 Shortcut Wisdom Story
30:03 Dad’s Missed Opportunities
32:07 Beyond Your Bubble
34:46 Stop Asking Why Me
38:14 Imposter Syndrome Trap
40:15 Fatherhood Second Chances
43:10 Network Projects Update
46:00 Closing Thanks
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Aug 11
46 min

Every father should have honest conversations with his son. In this episode of The Dear Son, Show, we explore the lessons fathers must teach their sons before adulthood.
Carlton Young (CY) on PTSD, Fatherhood, and Leading From Clarity | Dear Son Show
On the Dear Son Show, host D Johns talks with guest Carlton Young (CY, “Mr. 8020”) about fatherhood, identity, and healing through faith and self-awareness. CY shares his background growing up in Birmingham, being adopted by his stepfather, and learning discipline and work ethic from a stern but present dad. He explains how trauma—including being shot at Fort Hood, multiple surgeries, lasting numbness, and an unrecovered bullet near his spine—contributed to PTSD, anxiety, and damaged relationships, including the collapse of his first marriage and strain in his second. CY describes confronting “survival scripts,” improving communication, forgiving himself, and renewing his mind through daily time with God. He discusses writing The Discipline to Finish, leading Mindset U, and his goal to impact a million men by helping them lead from clarity, not chaos.
00:00 Surviving the Shooting
00:38 Welcome to Dear Son
01:52 How’s Your Heart
02:19 Communication and Leadership
04:41 Roots and Survival Scripts
07:29 Growing Up Overseas
09:18 A Stern but Present Dad
12:29 Learning to Say I Love You
13:37 Parenting and Hard Feedback
15:06 Shot at Fort Hood
16:23 Joining the Army Fast
23:20 Leaving the Military
23:44 Starting Over in Dallas
24:54 Work Hustle and Uncertainty
26:41 Career Pivots
28:00 Sales Inspiration
28:45 Fatherhood After Trauma
29:38 Faith Awakening
33:24 PTSD And Healing
35:36 Repairing Family Bonds
39:21 Self Forgiveness
42:01 Writing The Book
45:04 Stewarding The Calling
47:19 Mission For Men
53:21 Where To Find Him
54:42 Final Reflections
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Aug 9
58 min

Every father should have honest conversations with his son. In this episode of The Dear Son, Show, we explore the lessons fathers must teach their sons before adulthood.
Dear Son, I’m Disappointed: How Fathers Can Communicate Disappointment Without Damaging Trust
In this episode of The Dear Son Show, hosts D Johns and Jey Blac discuss how fathers can communicate disappointment in ways that teach growth without harming a child’s identity. They open with life updates, then frame the topic around being disappointed in one’s parenting approach—especially not exposing children to enough early on and later trying to overcorrect. Using seven research-based prompts, they explore separating identity from behavior, how tone and nonverbal cues can wound, turning disappointment into a conversation instead of a verdict, aiming for growth over guilt, regulating emotions before addressing issues, offering reassurance after accountability, and focusing on what lesson a child will remember long-term. They share personal examples about sarcasm, facial expressions, escalation, consequences, and the importance of revisiting conversations to repair trust.
00:00 Exposure Both Sides
00:57 Show Intro And Hosts
01:18 Conclave Week Talk
02:42 Back To School Reset
04:18 Family Health Updates
05:11 Dear Son Im Disappointed
07:41 Separate Identity Behavior
12:43 Consequences And Accountability
00:12 Tone Speaks Loudest
22:17 Car Wash Teachable Moment
27:20 Conversation Not Verdict
32:31 Breaking Trauma Reactions
33:27 Dad Brain Fence Moment
35:56 Guilt Versus Growth
38:44 Stuck in Guilt Debate
40:47 Calm Teachable Moments
46:56 Reassurance After Accountability
51:17 Lessons Kids Remember
58:35 Closing Intentional Parenting
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Aug 2
1 hr

Every father should have honest conversations with his son. In this episode of The Dear Son, Show, we explore the lessons fathers must teach their sons before adulthood.
Leon Brown on Fatherhood, Marriage Storms, and Breaking Generational Cycles | Dear Son Show
On the Dear Son Show, host D Johns talks with special guest Leon Brown (itsrevleon) about growing up in East Oakland raised by his praying grandmother and supported by his older brother, while navigating life without an active father. Leon shares how faith in Jesus Christ grounded him, how he now views his father with grace while still acknowledging the lack of effort, and why he’s intentional about giving his own children what he didn’t have—presence, guidance, and affection. The conversation explores learning manhood and marriage without a model, the impact of pornography and lust, marrying at 19 after sensing God’s direction, and practical marriage preparation like self-awareness, communication, and weathering storms. Leon also shares metaphors about God’s timing, and invites men to “Breaking Bread With Brothers” on August 29 in DeSoto, Texas.
00:00 Provider Pressure
01:02 Show Intro Guest
01:49 Faith Foundation
02:16 Raised By Grandma
03:50 Oakland Roots
04:48 Called From Childhood
06:31 Grandma Kept It Real
07:52 Big Brother Mentor
09:47 Absent Father Impact
12:32 Grace And Cycles
16:03 Present Dad Mission
21:12 Marriage Lessons
23:37 Porn Exposure Begins
25:05 Lust Without Guidance
27:01 Why Lust Feels Normal
28:15 Married at Nineteen
29:53 Waiting and Temptation
33:11 Preparing for Marriage
35:23 Friction and Change
37:13 Family Models and Aging Parents
40:03 Ego and Real Feedback
41:41 Provider Pressure Seasons
45:31 Enjoy the Ride
48:38 Gods Protective Delays
51:36 Where to Find Leon
53:44 Closing Blessing
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