Show notes
In this short “From the Couch” episode, Dr. Tracy talks about a common relationship moment: you’re about to head out for the night, and your partner is clearly struggling. Bad mood, stressed, kids melting down, the whole thing. And suddenly you’re standing there in your jacket wondering if you’re allowed to still go.Dr. Tracy explains why staying home can feel like the easier choice in the short term, but becomes a problem over time when it turns into a pattern of self-abandonment. She reframes guilt as values bumping into each other (supporting your partner vs. nurturing yourself), and reminds listeners that guilt isn’t proof you’re doing something wrong.LINKS FROM EPISODE:My book: I Didn't Sign Up For ThisMental Load: The Unpaid Invisible Work of Motherhood with Eve RodskyRESOURCES:Get Relationship Support Inside Be ConnectedOrder my new book! You, Your Husband, and His MotherWant your questions answered on the show? Submit them here! Discover your relationship negative cycle with my free quiz: Take it hereReady to deepen your connection? Download my 100 QuestionsBuild better connection and feel close starting today. Join the 30 Days to Us ChallengeFOLLOW DR. TRACYSubscribe to the podcast https://www.youtube.com/@drtracydFollow on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/drtracydFollow on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/DrTracyD/Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
