In this friendship series episode, I sit down with one of my oldest friends, Katie DeLuca Arundel, to talk about our friendship over the years and how we’ve supported one another through it all. She clears the air about why so little of what she filmed for Bravo’s In The City made it to air, her friendship with Amanda, & what it felt like to be torn apart online before viewers had ever heard her speak. Katie also shares honestly about what she was navigating behind the scenes: two missed miscarriages, the physical and emotional toll it’s taken on her, and how she's holding grief and genuine happiness for her friends at the same time.
Key Takeaways / Points:
Our friendship origin story
Being a "friend of" vs. full-time cast member for In The City
Why her In the City scenes didn't air, and why she wasn't at the reunion
Honest friendship conversations she had with Amanda that we didn’t see on air
Navigating a miscarriage the same week the Summer House reunion audio leaked
What a missed miscarriage is, and why she had no idea it was possible
How two things can be true: grieving your own losses AND showing up for your pregnant friends
Follow me:
Instagram: @cameronoaksrogers
Substack: Fill Your Cup
Website: cameronoaksrogers.com
TikTok: @cameronoaksrogers
YouTube: Cameron Rogers
Visit Quiet Your Mind to shop Quiet Your Mind & Busy Your Hands journals.


