
Summary
In this episode, hosts Rachel Oster and Parshawn Behestian explore the concept of freedom and how people often mistake stages of bondage for freedom. It delves into the journey towards authentic freedom, which involves reflecting on past experiences and challenging assumptions. The importance of bringing light to the darkness and embracing discomfort is emphasized. The conversation also highlights the significance of finding support through groups and coaching. Ultimately, the key takeaway is that being human, messy, and vulnerable is essential for personal growth and serving others. In this conversation, Parshawn and Rachel explore the importance of authentic expression, the connection between the heart and mind, the oneness of human experience, embracing nuance and personal truth, and reflecting on the journey.
Chapters
00:00 The Illusion of Freedom
03:14 The Journey Towards Freedom
10:50 Pursuing Freedom
14:53 Bringing Light to the Darkness
21:46 Shifting Mindsets and Letting Go of Expectations
25:23 The Process of Healing and Finding Freedom
32:22 Sitting with the Unknown
36:35 Shifting Mindsets and Seeking Help
45:23 Embracing Messiness and Vulnerability
51:59 Being Human and Serving Others
52:20 The Importance of Authentic Expression
53:20 The Connection Between Heart and Mind
54:09 The Oneness of Human Experience
Takeaways
People often mistake stages of bondage for freedom.
The journey towards authentic freedom involves reflecting on past experiences and challenging assumptions.
Bringing light to the darkness and embracing discomfort is crucial for personal growth.
Finding support through groups and coaching can aid in the pursuit of freedom. Authentic expression allows us to connect with others and our true selves.
The heart and mind are interconnected, and freeing one can lead to the freedom of the other.
We are all connected and share a wave of consciousness as part of the human experience.
Embracing nuance and personal truth allows for a more authentic and fulfilling life.
Reflecting on our journey can bring a sense of grounding and growth.
Feb 1, 2024
56 min

Summary
In this episode, Parshawn and Rachel reflect on their learnings and growth in 2023. They discuss themes of shedding and reclamation, stepping into purpose and authenticity, and the importance of trust and holding space. They share their achievements and manifestations, as well as the challenges they faced in letting go and practicing self-devotion. Parshawn and Rachel also explore different healing modalities and the power of prayer and connection with the divine. They discuss the skills they developed, such as sitting in discomfort and confronting their shadows. Finally, they share their words for 2024: devotion and movement.
Show Notes:
00:00 Reflecting on 2023 and Lessons Learned
02:17 Stepping into Purpose and Authenticity
03:46 Achievements and Manifestations
06:11 Committing to Purpose and Letting Go
08:41 Reclaiming and Letting Go
11:09 Following Intuition and Reclaiming Purpose
13:17 Building Confidence and Trust
15:46 Reclaiming Purpose and Shedding Fear
17:33 Exploring Different Healing Modalities
19:57 Practicing Self-Devotion and Connecting with Benefactors
26:22 Creating a Higher Threshold and Committing to Self
32:11 Committing to Coaching and Letting Go of Expectations
36:13 Developing Trust and Holding Space
43:50 Sitting in Discomfort and Confrontation
52:01 Strengthening Body, Mind, and Spirit
54:28 Deepening Devotion and Speaking from the Heart
55:25 Embracing Movement and Growth
Takeaways
Reflect on your learnings and growth from the past year
Embrace shedding and reclamation as part of your journey
Step into your purpose and authenticity
Practice trust and holding space for yourself and others
Set intentions and manifest your desires
Let go of fear and embrace self-devotion
Explore different healing modalities and connect with benefactors
Commit to your own growth and development
Embrace discomfort and confront your shadows
Speak from the heart and deepen your devotion
Jan 18, 2024
57 min

Summary
In this episode, Rachel and Parshawn explore the topic of alignment and the difference between readiness and alignment. They discuss the importance of being in your power and trusting your intuition. They also emphasize the need to slow down and practice mindfulness in order to cultivate alignment. The conversation highlights the significance of the how in everything we do and the power of gratitude in creating a sense of alignment.
Timestamps
00:00 Introduction and Oracle Cards
03:00 Being in Your Power
06:48 The Difference Between Readiness and Alignment
10:37 Using Markers to Discern Truth
13:32 Building Intuition and Trust
16:26 Slowing Down and Practicing Intuition
20:23 The Importance of Slowing Down
25:14 The How of Alignment
27:41 Slowing Down and Being Present
31:57 The Foundation of Embodiment: HOW
36:23 The Journey of Remembering
41:31 Expressing Gratitude
Takeaways
Being in your power means trusting yourself and taking control of your destiny.
There is a difference between being ready and being aligned. Being aligned means asking if something serves your highest good.
Markers can help discern what is true and what is not, allowing you to make decisions from a place of alignment.
Slowing down and practicing mindfulness is essential for cultivating alignment and trust in your intuition.
Expressing gratitude for the journey and being present in the how of your actions can lead to a greater sense of alignment.
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Rachel Oster - @life_coach_roach
Parshawn Beheshtian - @parshawn.b
Jan 4, 2024
46 min

Summary
In this episode, Rachel shares her journey of self-discovery and personal growth. She discusses how her journey began with facing her truths and taking steps towards living from her heart. Rachel talks about working with a mentor who pushed her to her breaking point and the profound transformation she experienced. She also explores her reclamation of religion and the challenges she faced in integrating her learnings into her daily life. Rachel concludes by reflecting on the possibilities that lie ahead and the importance of self-expression and self-love.
Timestamps:
00:00 Rachel's Journey Begins
06:02 Working with a Mentor
09:01 The Dark Night of the Soul
18:14 Reclaiming Religion
26:01 Integration and Continued Growth
34:36 The Priestess Training
55:09 Advice to the Past Self
57:29 What is Possible
58:26 Reflection on the Conversation
Dec 20, 2023
1 hr

Summary
In this episode, Parshawn shares his journey of overcoming grief, hitting rock bottom, and finding his authentic self. He emphasizes the importance of listening to your heart and not externalizing your path. Parshawn discusses the power of questions, the practice of journaling and meditation, and the need to trust your inner wisdom. He encourages listeners to let go of assumptions and appreciate themselves. The episode serves as a beacon of hope and a reminder that everyone's journey is unique.
Timestamps
00:00 - Introduction
04:31 - Starting with Grief
09:25 - Hitting Rock Bottom
19:16 - The Power of Questions
25:24 - Practices and Tools
48:10 - Trusting Your Inner Wisdom
51:33 - Conclusion
Takeaways
Listen to your heart and trust your inner wisdom.
Practice journaling and meditation to connect with your feelings and find presence.
Challenge assumptions and stories you tell yourself.
Appreciate yourself and take time for self-care.
Don't let others dictate your path; trust your own journey.
Dec 13, 2023
52 min

In this episode of the Bridge to the Heart podcast, hosts Parshawn Beheshtian and Rachel Oster discuss the fear and vulnerability of love. They explore the concept of love in various contexts, including relationships, family, and society. Rachel shares her personal experiences with her Priestess training and what's helped her form deep connections with people. The conversation delves into the process of grief and acceptance, as well as the importance of breaking down walls and expressing vulnerability. They also discuss the power of communication and holding space for others. The episode concludes with an invitation to open the heart and embrace the journey to love.
Timestamps:
00:00 Introduction and Setting the Tone
01:30 Exploring Priestess Training and Deep Connections
06:22 Overcoming Barriers to Love and Receiving Love
07:21 Expanding the Definition of Love
17:32 The Fear and Vulnerability of Love
23:16 The Process of Grief and Acceptance
27:38 Breaking Down Walls and Expressing Vulnerability
34:17 Communicating Needs and Holding Space
39:14 The Power of Awareness and Challenging Stories
46:20 The Journey to Love and Trust
51:41 Closing Thoughts and Invitation to Open the Heart
Key Takeaways:
Love is a powerful force that can be accessed in all aspects of life.
Facing fear and staying open are essential for experiencing love.
Grief is a natural process that can lead to a deeper appreciation of love.
Communicating needs and holding space for others can enhance relationships.
Challenging stories and beliefs can lead to a greater capacity for love.
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Rachel Oster - @life_coach_roachParshawn Beheshtian - @parshawn.b
Dec 6, 2023
52 min

In this episode of the ‘Bridge to the Heart’ podcast, hosts Parshawn Beheshtian and Rachel Oster explore the topics of discomfort and resistance. The hosts share personal experiences and coaching sessions related to stepping out of comfort zones and facing resistance. They discuss the importance of shifting perspectives and asking empowering questions. The conversation also highlights the need for support and the practice of relaxation and surrender in the face of discomfort. The chapters cover various aspects of discomfort, including internal and external environments, trust, and the stages of growth and embodiment. In this conversation, Parshawn and Rachel discuss the process of personal growth and self-discovery. They explore the addictive nature of shadow work and the importance of not getting stuck in the darkness. They also emphasize the need to embody the lessons learned and live in the light. The conversation provides a roadmap to personal growth, highlighting the importance of awareness, radical honesty, and shifting beliefs. They discuss the significance of working through triggers and leaning into discomfort. Surrendering control and allowing magic to flow into one's life is emphasized, along with the choice to evolve and take small steps towards personal growth. The conversation concludes with a reminder to relax into discomfort and continue the journey of self-discovery.
Timestamps
00:00 Introduction: Exploring Discomfort and Resistance
03:00 The Importance of Stepping into Discomfort
08:43 Building Trust and Driving Through Discomfort
13:20 Transitioning from Avoiding Discomfort to Embracing It
18:16 Personal Experiences with Discomfort and Resistance
24:29 Relaxing into Discomfort and Embodying the Lessons
32:54 The Practice of Embodying Discomfort and Trust
36:17 The Role of Support in Facing Discomfort
41:35 Practicing Discernment and Finding the Right Support
46:52 The Addictive Nature of Shadow Work and Embracing the Light
50:10 Summary and Key Takeaways
54:33 Stepping into Authenticity
55:31 Feeling the Transformation
56:01 External Validation and Trust
56:30 Relaxing into Discomfort
57:00 Continuing the Journey
Takeaways
Shifting perspectives and asking empowering questions can help navigate discomfort.
Support from coaches or mentors is crucial in facing discomfort and expanding oneself.
Relaxing into discomfort and surrendering can lead to growth and transformation.
The stages of growth include seeking discomfort, practicing, and embodying the lessons learned. Shadow work can be addictive, but it's important to not get stuck in the darkness and to also embody the lessons learned.
The roadmap to personal growth involves building awareness, practicing radical honesty, and shifting beliefs.
Working through triggers and leaning into discomfort can lead to insights and personal growth.
Surrendering control and allowing magic to flow into one's life is key to personal evolution.
Taking small steps and being consistent in personal growth practices yields incredible results over time.
Nov 29, 2023
58 min

Join co-hosts Rachel Oster and Parshawn Behestian on 'Bridge to the Heart' as they embark on a fascinating journey to explore the depths of human emotion and awareness. This thought-provoking episode delves into the enigma of 'feeling' and 'feelings' from various perspectives, challenging conventional notions. The candid conversation touches upon the complexities of emotions and how we understand them. With a genuine and inquisitive approach, they navigate through the subjective and often elusive nature of feelings, offering fresh insights that keep you engaged in the present moment. Dive in and join their exploration of living a heart-centered life.
Nov 8, 2023
48 min

Join Rachel and Parshawn as they venture through the question of “how to BE love?”. Explore the intricate balance between pain and pleasure, self-criticism, and self-acceptance. They delve into the paradoxes of our existence, from light and dark to yin and yang, unveiling the interconnectedness of these seemingly opposing forces. In each episode, expect insightful discussions that challenge your perspective and leave you with a thirst for meaningful conversations. "Bridge to the Heart" promises to reveal the wisdom hidden within the dualities of life, emphasizing the profound reciprocity between giving and receiving. Tune in for an engaging journey toward a more fulfilling and enriched life.
Nov 2, 2023
55 min

Welcome to the 'Bridge to the Heart' podcast, where Parshawn and Rachel explore the transformative journey from the mind to the heart. This podcast is all about embracing a heart-centered life, rooted in love and authenticity. It's a journey of self-discovery, where awareness, consciousness, and pure intentions play a vital role. Through candid conversations, Parshawn and Rachel share their personal experiences and epiphanies, creating a sense of community for those seeking to live more authentically. This podcast is not about teaching but about walking the path together, as we navigate the transition from the mind to the heart, fostering mindfulness and helping others do the same.
Oct 25, 2023
28 min
