Becoming You Again
Becoming You Again
Karin Nelson
How To Make The Holidays Yours Again After Divorce
26 minutes Posted Nov 24, 2025 at 9:00 am.
Setting The Stage: Holidays After Divorce
Why The Season Feels So Heavy
Performance Mode Versus Centered Mode
Practical Boundaries And Saying No
Letting Traditions Die Without Guilt
Pre‑Regulation: Support Before Stress
Daily Orienting Steps You Can Use
You Don’t Have To Do It Alone
What The Holiday Course Includes
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The holiday season can feel like a pressure cooker after divorce: new custody schedules, money stress, old traditions that no longer fit, and the unspoken rule that you must make it magical for everyone else. In this episode I’m offering you a different way forward. It’s one where you center yourself, protect your energy, and create a simpler, calmer season that actually feels like you. I’ll break down the difference between performance mode and centered mode and why so many of us mist...