
📺 Watch & Subscribe on YouTubeJoin David Bayer's FREE Mindset Month: Get access to 30 days of transformational frameworks, personal growth practices, and AI-powered mindset tools to help you transform limiting beliefs, make more conscious decisions, and create meaningful change in your life. Plus, get a free spot at David's most important live training yet: the 2-Day Changed Mind Masterclass on December 4th & 5th.In 1944, a dancer from Barbados published a short book with one idea in it that has shaped how generations think about reality. To experience something different in your life, you first have to experience it within yourself.In this episode, we unpack Neville Goddard’s Feeling Is the Secret, and the question everyone eventually hits. How do you feel something you are not currently living?The answer is not more emotion. There is a two millimeter difference between manufacturing excitement about what you want and the quiet, effortless acceptance of someone who already has it, and those two feelings are miles apart.Discover why your circumstances were never the thing standing in your way, and how to give yourself permission to feel it now.What We Explored This Episode00:00 Neville Goddard and Feeling the Wish Fulfilled 06:00 Why Trying Too Hard Backfires 11:00 Relaxation and the Golden Equation 16:00 Thinking Fourth DimensionallyMemorable Quotes“Feeling like the person who already has a thing is very different than feeling like the person who’s trying to manifest a thing. It seems like a two-millimeter distinction, but those feelings are miles apart.”“The person who has a thing doesn’t try hard to get it. The person who is inhabiting the identity of someone who has something just has it.”“When you’re imagining something, you’re not making it up. You’re tuning into the field that is here right now. Yes, I’m pretending. I’m tending in advance to the reality that I’m creating.”Connect With DavidInterested in going deeper with us? Check out the following resources:👉 FREE MIND HACK BOOKJoin our newsletter and get David’s free Mind Hack ebook and training: https://mindhackprogram.com/acm👉 POWERFUL LIVING EXPERIENCECheck out our annual live event The Powerful Living Experience: https://powerfullivingexperience.com👉 NEED MORE SUPPORT?Interested in coaching programs and more support?https://davidbayer.com👉 DAVID’S NEW BOOKCheck out ‘A Changed Mind’ on Amazon:https://www.amazon.com/dp/1642939862Check us out on your favorite social platforms:LinkedIn - http://www.linkedin.com/in/davidrbayerTwitter - http://www.twitter.com/davidrbayerFacebook - https://www.facebook.com/coachdavidbayerInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/davidbayer33YouTube - / @davidbayer33🎙️🎙️🎙️Podcast Production Support by FullCast
Nov 2
19 min

📺 Watch & Subscribe on YouTubeTake the free Limiting Beliefs Discovery Assessment – a 5-minute experience that reveals the exact beliefs holding back your income, health, relationships, and personal growth — and gives you the proven tool to transform them https://www.wholehuman.com/decisionEveryone is talking about healing your nervous system, and almost all of it comes down to another protocol, another supplement, another practice to squeeze into a day that is already full.In this episode, we go the other way. The fastest way to heal your nervous system is to do nothing, which also happens to be the hardest thing in the world for a human being to do.We’ll go through the five things you are doing right now that keep your system switched on. The scrolling. The coffee. The food. The silence you keep filling. And the worry your body cannot tell apart from the real thing.Discover why healing your nervous system was never about what you add, and how much calmer life becomes when you simply stop doing the things keeping you wired.=======SPECIAL MIND HACK/WHOLE HUMAN FRAMEWORK PROGRAM BUNDLEhttps://mindhackprogram.com/bundle-acm=======What We Explored This Episode00:00 Healing Your Nervous System by Doing Nothing02:25 Stop Doom Scrolling06:50 Stop Caffeine: Blocking the Tired Molecule10:55 Stop Eating Poorly: The Gut-Brain Link13:30 Stop Filling Every Quiet Moment16:20 Stop Feeding Repetitive Worry21:25 Your Invitation: Pick One ChangeMemorable Quotes“Caffeine doesn’t actually give you energy. It suppresses the tired molecule. So you’re literally pouring gas onto the fire and burning the candle at both ends.”“A lot of times we think about resting as resting the physical body, but really, rest is resting our attention. You can be physically still but neurologically hyperactive.”“Your brain doesn’t know the difference between imagination and reality. So when you’re sitting in the living room worrying about your bank account and imagining you’ll end up living under a bridge, your nervous system experiences that as real.”Connect With DavidInterested in going deeper with us? Check out the following resources:👉 FREE MIND HACK BOOKJoin our newsletter and get David’s free Mind Hack ebook and training: https://mindhackprogram.com/acm👉 POWERFUL LIVING EXPERIENCECheck out our annual live event The Powerful Living Experience: https://powerfullivingexperience.com👉 NEED MORE SUPPORT?Interested in coaching programs and more support?https://davidbayer.com👉 DAVID’S NEW BOOKCheck out ‘A Changed Mind’ on Amazon:https://www.amazon.com/dp/1642939862Check us out on your favorite social platforms:LinkedIn - http://www.linkedin.com/in/davidrbayerTwitter - http://www.twitter.com/davidrbayerFacebook - https://www.facebook.com/coachdavidbayerInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/davidbayer33YouTube - / @davidbayer33🎙️🎙️🎙️Podcast Production Support by FullCastMentioned in this episode:SPECIAL MIND HACK/WHOLE HUMAN FRAMEWORK PROGRAM BUNDLE
Oct 29
21 min

📺 Watch & Subscribe on YouTubeTake the free Limiting Beliefs Discovery Assessment – a 5-minute experience that reveals the exact beliefs holding back your income, health, relationships, and personal growth — and gives you the proven tool to transform them https://www.wholehuman.com/decisionAffirmations are one of the oldest tools in personal development, and most people dismiss them because they misunderstood what an affirmation actually is.In this episode, I share the distinction that changed the practice for me, that we are all affirming all day long, and that “nothing ever works out for me” is just as much an affirmation as anything you say in the mirror.We’ll explore the neuroscience and the metaphysics of the power of speech, the work of Louise Hay, and why your own voice penetrates the subconscious mind in a way nobody else’s can.Discover the six word affirmation I use almost every day to calm my nervous system, and a simple seven day challenge to become intentional about what you’re declaring to be true.=======Available on Amazon: A Changed Mind: Go Beyond Self Awareness, Rewire Your Brain & Reengineer Your RealityDownload the Audiobook: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0DCKF721M=======What We Explored This Episode00:00 Why Affirmations Haven’t Worked for You06:25 The Power of Speech and Powerful States10:30 The Affirmation Walk and “All Is Well”14:10 Hearing Your Own Voice and the 7-Day ChallengeMemorable Quotes“To affirm something, by definition, is to declare something to be true. So an affirmation doesn’t have to be positive. ‘Nothing ever works out for me’ is an affirmation. ‘I’m tired’ is an affirmation.”“We can catch our speech and change our speech much more easily than we can catch and change our thoughts. Your words are a powerful lever for change, and they are the leading indicator of what you’re creating in your reality.”“When someone else says something to you, you may or may not agree with it. But when you say something, you believe it a hundred percent of the time.”Connect With DavidInterested in going deeper with us? Check out the following resources:👉 FREE MIND HACK BOOKJoin our newsletter and get David’s free Mind Hack ebook and training: https://mindhackprogram.com/acm👉 POWERFUL LIVING EXPERIENCECheck out our annual live event The Powerful Living Experience: https://powerfullivingexperience.com👉 NEED MORE SUPPORT?Interested in coaching programs and more support?https://davidbayer.com👉 DAVID’S NEW BOOKCheck out ‘A Changed Mind’ on Amazon:https://www.amazon.com/dp/1642939862Check us out on your favorite social platforms:LinkedIn - http://www.linkedin.com/in/davidrbayerTwitter - http://www.twitter.com/davidrbayerFacebook - https://www.facebook.com/coachdavidbayerInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/davidbayer33YouTube - / @davidbayer33🎙️🎙️🎙️Podcast Production Support by FullCastMentioned in this episode:Now Available: A Changed Mind Book
Oct 26
17 min

📺 Watch & Subscribe on YouTubeTake the free Limiting Beliefs Discovery Assessment – a 5-minute experience that reveals the exact beliefs holding back your income, health, relationships, and personal growth — and gives you the proven tool to transform them https://www.wholehuman.com/decisionBehind Neville Goddard’s teachings was a mysterious mentor named Abdullah, and one unforgettable encounter reveals the heart of what he taught.In this episode, I share Neville’s extraordinary account of wanting to return to Barbados with no money, a looming deadline, and a teacher who refused to entertain his doubts.We’ll explore the difference between imagining what you want and experiencing life from the identity of someone whose desire is already fulfilled.Discover how to apply this distinction to your relationships, finances, and dreams, and return to your decision when your circumstances haven’t caught up.=======POWERFUL LIVING EXPERIENCEhttps://powerfullivingexperience.com/acm=======What We Explored This Episode00:00 The Mystery of Abdullah06:45 Neville’s Desire to Go Home to Barbados13:00 “Who Told You That You Traveled Third Class?”19:30 What Is Your Barbados?Memorable Quotes“There’s a difference between imagining something that you want and experiencing yourself as the person for whom it is already fulfilled.”“What happens when you imagine your desire? Are you experiencing its fulfillment, or are you experiencing yourself wanting it? It seems like a two-millimeter distinction, but that’s everything.”“You don’t need to turn this into another reason to criticize yourself because you’re not doing it perfectly. You can notice the doubt and return to the experience you’ve chosen, to the place from which you want to live.”Connect With DavidInterested in going deeper with us? Check out the following resources:👉 FREE MIND HACK BOOKJoin our newsletter and get David’s free Mind Hack ebook and training: https://mindhackprogram.com/acm👉 POWERFUL LIVING EXPERIENCECheck out our annual live event The Powerful Living Experience: https://powerfullivingexperience.com👉 NEED MORE SUPPORT?Interested in coaching programs and more support?https://davidbayer.com👉 DAVID’S NEW BOOKCheck out ‘A Changed Mind’ on Amazon:https://www.amazon.com/dp/1642939862Check us out on your favorite social platforms:LinkedIn - http://www.linkedin.com/in/davidrbayerTwitter - http://www.twitter.com/davidrbayerFacebook - https://www.facebook.com/coachdavidbayerInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/davidbayer33YouTube - / @davidbayer33🎙️🎙️🎙️Podcast Production Support by FullCastMentioned in this episode:POWERFUL LIVING EXPERIENCE
Oct 22
22 min

📺 Watch & Subscribe on YouTubeTake the free Limiting Beliefs Discovery Assessment – a 5-minute experience that reveals the exact beliefs holding back your income, health, relationships, and personal growth — and gives you the proven tool to transform them https://www.wholehuman.com/decisionIn this episode of A Changed Mind, David Bayer takes you through one of Alan Watts’ greatest speeches, and the part of it almost nobody talks about.Watts described the phone in your pocket fifty years before it existed. Then he kept going. He said the network would eventually vanish, and that what it was training us to do, we would one day learn to do without it.Meanwhile the loudest voices on the future have money, influence, and a vision involving chips in your brain and a second planet. They are allowed to want that. You are allowed to want something else.By the end you will know where your attention is being spent, which beliefs about the future you accepted without choosing them, and what to do today instead.=======SPECIAL MIND HACK/WHOLE HUMAN FRAMEWORK PROGRAM BUNDLEhttps://mindhackprogram.com/bundle-acm=======What We Explored This Episode00:00 Alan Watts and the Future Nobody Has Decided04:30 Technology as Our Nervous System and the Telepathy Question07:30 What Does It Mean to Become More Human?14:30 Attention Is the Creative Force17:00 Why I’m Not Done With EarthMemorable Quotes“There’s nothing inherently wrong with answering a message, but it’s worth noticing how easily access becomes obligation.”“I’m excited about creating a world that is not less human, but more human. About becoming more connected to each other, not less.”“Your attention is the creative force of the universe. Human beings have the unique, exclusive capacity to create their reality.”Connect With DavidInterested in going deeper with us? Check out the following resources:👉 FREE MIND HACK BOOKJoin our newsletter and get David’s free Mind Hack ebook and training: https://mindhackprogram.com/acm👉 POWERFUL LIVING EXPERIENCECheck out our annual live event The Powerful Living Experience: https://powerfullivingexperience.com👉 NEED MORE SUPPORT?Interested in coaching programs and more support?https://davidbayer.com👉 DAVID’S NEW BOOKCheck out ‘A Changed Mind’ on Amazon:https://www.amazon.com/dp/1642939862Check us out on your favorite social platforms:LinkedIn - http://www.linkedin.com/in/davidrbayerTwitter - http://www.twitter.com/davidrbayerFacebook - https://www.facebook.com/coachdavidbayerInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/davidbayer33YouTube - / @davidbayer33🎙️🎙️🎙️Podcast Production Support by FullCastMentioned in this episode:SPECIAL MIND HACK/WHOLE HUMAN FRAMEWORK PROGRAM BUNDLE
Oct 19
22 min

📺 Watch & Subscribe on YouTubeTake the free Limiting Beliefs Discovery Assessment – a 5-minute experience that reveals the exact beliefs holding back your income, health, relationships, and personal growth — and gives you the proven tool to transform them https://www.wholehuman.com/decisionIn this episode of A Changed Mind, David Bayer clears your money block in under seven minutes.Seven minutes, done with him in real time. Not an explanation of money blocks, the actual work, the same process he’s taken tens of thousands of people through.The way money felt in your house growing up is probably how it still feels now. Your parents handed it to you the way theirs handed it to them. And whatever shape it took, the fear at the bottom is always the same one: that there won’t be enough.By the end you’ll have checked that fear against everything that’s actually happened in your life, and decided something different.=======Available on Amazon: A Changed Mind: Go Beyond Self Awareness, Rewire Your Brain & Reengineer Your RealityDownload the Audiobook: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0DCKF721M=======What We Explored This Episode00:00:00 Transforming a Money Block in Seven Minutes00:02:15 Finding the Belief Behind the Belief00:04:45 Questioning the Fear of Not Having Enough00:07:00 Stepping Into an Identity of EnoughnessMemorable Quotes“What money was for you as a child is usually how money is for you as an adult.”“Whether money is hard to make, hard to keep, or causes arguments, ultimately what you’re afraid of is that you won’t have enough. And that fear is the one thing that prevents you from actually having more.”“They’re waiting for their circumstances to change to justify their abundance, rather than seeing the prosperity and enoughness that always is.”Connect With DavidInterested in going deeper with us? Check out the following resources:👉 FREE MIND HACK BOOKJoin our newsletter and get David’s free Mind Hack ebook and training: https://mindhackprogram.com/acm👉 POWERFUL LIVING EXPERIENCECheck out our annual live event The Powerful Living Experience: https://powerfullivingexperience.com👉 NEED MORE SUPPORT?Interested in coaching programs and more support?https://davidbayer.com👉 DAVID’S NEW BOOKCheck out ‘A Changed Mind’ on Amazon:https://www.amazon.com/dp/1642939862Check us out on your favorite social platforms:LinkedIn - http://www.linkedin.com/in/davidrbayerTwitter - http://www.twitter.com/davidrbayerFacebook - https://www.facebook.com/coachdavidbayerInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/davidbayer33YouTube - / @davidbayer33🎙️🎙️🎙️Podcast Production Support by FullCastMentioned in this episode:Now Available: A Changed Mind Book
Oct 15
10 min

📺 Watch & Subscribe on YouTubeTake the free Limiting Beliefs Discovery Assessment – a 5-minute experience that reveals the exact beliefs holding back your income, health, relationships, and personal growth — and gives you the proven tool to transform them https://www.wholehuman.com/decisionIn this episode of A Changed Mind, David Bayer examines miracles through the lens of neuroscience.Christ performed them and then told us we would do greater. Yogananda documented the same abilities in the Himalayas less than a hundred years ago. The question worth asking is not whether it happened, but what mechanism inside a human being makes it possible.Reality is not what your senses report. Your brain holds a fixed version of it together through the default mode network, built since birth out of everyone else’s beliefs, and it can be taken offline.By the end you will understand why your nervous system may be the portal, and what it would take to raise your limit.=======POWERFUL LIVING EXPERIENCEhttps://powerfullivingexperience.com/acm=======What We Explored This Episode05:40 Reality as Vibration and Frequency09:30 The Gideon Bible Story14:40 Kriya Yoga and Rewiring Beliefs18:45 Ayahuasca and the Default Mode NetworkMemorable Quotes“Your thoughts and your emotions are vibrational phenomena that occur within your nervous system. We begin to calibrate the reality around us through our presence, through our state of being, which is the collective sum total of what we believe, what we think, and what we feel.”“Miracles, perhaps, are a byproduct of unbroken conviction.”“None of this is new age or requires a leap of faith. That’s why I say your nervous system is a portal to miracles. The only question is, what’s your limit? And my offering to you is that there may be no limit at all.”Connect With DavidInterested in going deeper with us? Check out the following resources:👉 FREE MIND HACK BOOKJoin our newsletter and get David’s free Mind Hack ebook and training: https://mindhackprogram.com/acm👉 POWERFUL LIVING EXPERIENCECheck out our annual live event The Powerful Living Experience: https://powerfullivingexperience.com👉 NEED MORE SUPPORT?Interested in coaching programs and more support?https://davidbayer.com👉 DAVID’S NEW BOOKCheck out ‘A Changed Mind’ on Amazon:https://www.amazon.com/dp/1642939862Check us out on your favorite social platforms:LinkedIn - http://www.linkedin.com/in/davidrbayerTwitter - http://www.twitter.com/davidrbayerFacebook - https://www.facebook.com/coachdavidbayerInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/davidbayer33YouTube - / @davidbayer33🎙️🎙️🎙️Podcast Production Support by FullCastMentioned in this episode:POWERFUL LIVING EXPERIENCE
Oct 12
23 min

📺 Watch & Subscribe on YouTubeTake the free Limiting Beliefs Discovery Assessment – a 5-minute experience that reveals the exact beliefs holding back your income, health, relationships, and personal growth — and gives you the proven tool to transform them https://www.wholehuman.com/decision.In this episode of A Changed Mind, David Bayer covers all 12 universal laws in 16 minutes.Ancient principles, passed down through spiritual and esoteric traditions for thousands of years, that describe how reality actually works. None of us were taught them in school.Understand them and you start seeing why certain patterns keep repeating, why your inner state matters, and why even the circumstances that look permanent can change.By the end you will have a new way to read what is happening in your life, and a practical way to start creating what happens next.=======SPECIAL MIND HACK/WHOLE HUMAN FRAMEWORK PROGRAM BUNDLEhttps://mindhackprogram.com/bundle-acm=======What We Explored This Episode00:02:15 Oneness, Vibration, and Attraction00:06:40 Correspondence and Inspired Action00:11:00 Cause and Effect, Compensation, and Karma00:15:00 Polarity, Rhythm, and GenderMemorable Quotes"A lot of people who get into personal growth think they can just sit on the sofa eating Cheesy Poofs and watching Netflix and manifest a million dollars into their bank account. That's not the way it works.""Every challenge you've ever experienced has transformed, at some point, into something we would call a solution. The problems that show up in our lives come to pass, not to stay.""Personal growth is not a do-it-yourself project. It's a do-it-with-others project."Connect With DavidInterested in going deeper with us? Check out the following resources:👉 FREE MIND HACK BOOKJoin our newsletter and get David’s free Mind Hack ebook and training: https://mindhackprogram.com/acm👉 POWERFUL LIVING EXPERIENCECheck out our annual live event The Powerful Living Experience: https://powerfullivingexperience.com👉 NEED MORE SUPPORT?Interested in coaching programs and more support?https://davidbayer.com👉 DAVID’S NEW BOOKCheck out ‘A Changed Mind’ on Amazon:https://www.amazon.com/dp/1642939862Check us out on your favorite social platforms:LinkedIn - http://www.linkedin.com/in/davidrbayerTwitter - http://www.twitter.com/davidrbayerFacebook - https://www.facebook.com/coachdavidbayerInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/davidbayer33YouTube - / @davidbayer33🎙️🎙️🎙️Podcast Production Support by FullCastMentioned in this episode:SPECIAL MIND HACK/WHOLE HUMAN FRAMEWORK PROGRAM BUNDLE
Oct 8
18 min

📺 Watch & Subscribe on YouTubeTake the free Limiting Beliefs Discovery Assessment – a 5-minute experience that reveals the exact beliefs holding back your income, health, relationships, and personal growth — and gives you the proven tool to transform them https://www.wholehuman.com/decisionIn this episode of A Changed Mind, David Bayer uses cymatics, the study of how vibration organizes matter into visible patterns, to answer a practical question: what have you been practicing energetically that is holding your current reality in place?He opens with the classic demonstration. Scatter sand on a metal plate, run sound through it, and the sand organizes into complex geometric patterns. Change the frequency and the pattern reorganizes into something entirely different. David traces the lineage from Ernst Chladni, who made plates vibrate with a violin bow centuries ago, to Hans Jenny, who documented the phenomenon across sand, powders, pastes and liquids and coined the term, to Masaru Emoto and the water crystal experiments with labeled jars. The principle underneath all of it: vibration organizes a material, the quality of the frequency determines the structure, and the structure holds as long as the vibration persists.Then he makes the translation. What if reality is a field of potential, and your energy is the influence shaping it? You have thousands of thoughts a day, each triggering emotions, all of it electrical activity through your brain and nervous system, plus the 12,000 to 16,000 words the average person speaks. David's framing is memorable: you are the violinist, and the pattern you are holding in place is called your life. Which raises the question he spends the episode on. What label are you putting on the jar?This is where the Two States of Being come in. In a primal state you are running thoughts like I'm behind, nobody cares, this will never work, and David makes the sharper point that only your thoughts move you there, not your bank balance or your circumstances. He shares a live example from that morning, the pressure to get something right, and what it actually costs him: less patience, less presence, pressure on the people around him when what the situation needed was room to think.He also handles the health question with real care, acknowledging what it is like to be told you caused your condition by thinking wrong, and keeping the physical condition real while asking whether a daily battle with your body is itself a label. He shares his own ten years single, two homes in foreclosure, failed business, credit card debt, and what actually changed, which was not a financial strategy or a dating app profile. The episode closes with the Decision Matrix run live: find the worry, name the belief, choose the opposite label, then build evidence for it until the new belief becomes the predominant one.=======POWERFUL LIVING EXPERIENCEhttps://powerfullivingexperience.com/acm=======What We Explored This Episode00:00 Sand, Sound, and Shaping Reality03:20 Cymatics from Chladni to Emoto07:05 Primal vs. Powerful States14:05 Water, Your Body, and Cellular HearingMemorable Quotes"What have you been practicing at an energetic level that's creating or holding this pattern in place? And what can you do differently to transform and reshape that pattern? I believe that question can fundamentally change your life.""Your thoughts are the only contributors to the way that you feel. It's not the circumstance or the situation. The only thing causing you to feel that way is what you're thinking, not the experience you're having.""Tomorrow, you may notice the old thought again. That doesn't mean you failed. It means you caught the pattern. We don't transform ourselves by having one perfect thought. We change as we recognize what we've been repeating and begin repeating something different."Connect With DavidInterested in going deeper with us? Check out the following resources:👉 FREE MIND HACK BOOKJoin our newsletter and get David’s free Mind Hack ebook and training: https://mindhackprogram.com/acm👉 POWERFUL LIVING EXPERIENCECheck out our annual live event The Powerful Living Experience: https://powerfullivingexperience.com👉 NEED MORE SUPPORT?Interested in coaching programs and more support?https://davidbayer.com👉 DAVID’S NEW BOOKCheck out ‘A Changed Mind’ on Amazon:https://www.amazon.com/dp/1642939862Check us out on your favorite social platforms:LinkedIn - http://www.linkedin.com/in/davidrbayerTwitter - http://www.twitter.com/davidrbayerFacebook - https://www.facebook.com/coachdavidbayerInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/davidbayer33YouTube - / @davidbayer33🎙️🎙️🎙️Podcast Production Support by FullCastMentioned in this episode:Now Available: A Changed Mind Book
Oct 5
22 min

📺 Watch & Subscribe on YouTubeTake the free Limiting Beliefs Discovery Assessment – a 5-minute experience that reveals the exact beliefs holding back your income, health, relationships, and personal growth — and gives you the proven tool to transform them https://www.wholehuman.com/decision.In this episode of A Changed Mind, David Bayer unpacks Ho'oponopono, the four phrase Hawaiian practice millions have encountered online, and answers the question that kept him skeptical of it for years: if someone else hurt you, why are you the one saying I'm sorry?He starts by correcting the biggest misconception. Ho'oponopono did not begin as four phrases repeated alone in a bedroom. The word roughly means to correct or make right, and traditionally it was relational: families coming together, often with an elder facilitating, bringing a rupture into the open and restoring the relationship. David contrasts that with how most of us actually handle resentment. We replay the conversation in the car. The event happened five years ago and the other person has forgotten it, but inside us it is still happening.He traces how the modern version emerged through Hawaiian teacher Morrnah Simeona, who removed the requirement that everyone involved participate. That change matters more than it sounds. What if the person will not speak to you, or died 20 years ago? Your healing cannot depend on their willingness. From there he explains Dr. Hugh Len's concept of 100 percent responsibility, with a line he is careful about: responsibility and culpability are not the same thing. Someone else can be entirely responsible for what they did, and you can still work with what it produced in you.David is also explicit about where the historical teaching ends and his own interpretation begins. He retells the famous Hawaii State Hospital story and states plainly that he has not found documentation supporting it, so it should be treated as lore. Then he reads the four phrases through the belief work he has taught for 15 years, and closes with a practice you can run on your next trigger: ask what it is revealing, follow the emotion down to the belief underneath, run the phrases, then ask what you choose to believe now and who you would be if that were true. Forgiveness does not make you passive. You may still confront the person or set the boundary. It means you act from choice rather than from the wound.=======POWERFUL LIVING EXPERIENCEhttps://powerfullivingexperience.com/acm=======What We Explored This Episode00:06:00 - Exploring traditional ho' oponopono00:12:00 - The modernization of ho' oponopono00:18:00 - Decoding the four phrases00:24:00 - Examining the lore00:30:00 - A practical guideMemorable Quotes"The problems appearing in your external reality are actually revealing something that needs to be healed within your own consciousness." "Forgiveness doesn't change what happened. Forgiveness changes whether or not you allow what happened to continue to exist in your current reality." "You change the scenery without changing the pattern... Forgiveness isn't saying what happened was okay. It's saying what happened no longer gets to determine who I am." Connect With DavidInterested in going deeper with us? Check out the following resources:👉 FREE MIND HACK BOOKJoin our newsletter and get David’s free Mind Hack ebook and training: https://mindhackprogram.com/acm👉 POWERFUL LIVING EXPERIENCECheck out our annual live event The Powerful Living Experience: https://powerfullivingexperience.com👉 NEED MORE SUPPORT?Interested in coaching programs and more support?https://davidbayer.com👉 DAVID’S NEW BOOKCheck out ‘A Changed Mind’ on Amazon:https://www.amazon.com/dp/1642939862Check us out on your favorite social platforms:LinkedIn - http://www.linkedin.com/in/davidrbayerTwitter - http://www.twitter.com/davidrbayerFacebook - https://www.facebook.com/coachdavidbayerInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/davidbayer33YouTube - / @davidbayer33🎙️🎙️🎙️Podcast Production Support by FullCastMentioned in this episode:POWERFUL LIVING EXPERIENCE
Oct 1
19 min
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