Not Alone
Not Alone
Valeria Lipovetsky
Divorce, Prenups, Daddy Issues & Healing: Real Talk with My Girls Martha, Vita, Isabela, and Camila
51 minutes Posted Dec 9, 2025 at 8:00 am.
Setting up the “Miami Besties” Episode
Introducing friend Vita Sidorkina
Start of Vita
Bringing back honest communication with children
People being too soft
Russian values Vita holds on to
Not growing up with childhood trauma
Daddy issues & marital age-gaps
Introducing friend Isabela Grutman
Start of Isabela
Wasting people’s time
Marrying young vs. later in life
Modeling at a young age
Women looking for high-value men
Lessons from marriage
Not taking everything personally
Renegotiating the marriage terms
Introducing friend Martha Graeff
Start of Martha
Early days with her ex-husband
Prioritizing mental health
Financial aspect of leaving your marriage
Importance of a prenup
Introducing friend Camila Coehlo
Start of Camila
Getting diagnosed with epilepsy as a child
Managing her type of epilepsy
The stigma around epilepsy
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In this special “Miami Besties” episode of Not Alone, Valeria brings together the most memorable, honest, and vulnerable moments from her conversations with the women closest to her. The episode begins with friend Vita Sidorkina, whose conversation dives into raising resilient kids, the value of honesty with children, and the Russian cultural principles she still carries. Plus, an open conversation about how “daddy issues” can shape who we choose to marry and life with a husband who is 20 years older. Next, Isabela Grutman reflects on what marrying young taught her, navigating the early modeling world, and the reality of “high-value” men. We also get into long-term partnerships, and what it means to renegotiate your marriage as you evolve. Then, Martha Graeff opens up about her first marriage, the courage it took to prioritize her mental health, and the financial realities of leaving, including why she believes prenups are empowering, not limiting. Finally, Camila Coelho shares her deeply personal experience growing up with epilepsy, from getting diagnosed as a child to managing her condition as an adult, and the stigma that still surrounds it. 
Together, these conversations reveal the raw, real, and resilient sides of womanhood, friendship,and the stories that shape us.
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