Not Alone
Not Alone
Valeria Lipovetsky
Speaking My Truth: Brittany Xavier on Online Hate, Her Faith & Her Family
55 minutes Posted Oct 28, 2025 at 7:28 am.
Valeria’s upcoming trip to Peru
Introducing Brittany Xavier
Start of interview
Brittany’s start on social media
The business behind the posts
Brittany’s early motherhood days
The decision to keep her baby
Being a young mother
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Balancing school, work and motherhood
The decision not to pursue law school
Trusting her faith in God and his plan for her
Her custody battle
Signs from God
Her community
Her daughter and social media
Children and technology
Teaching her daughter the business side of TikTok
Brittany’s shift in content
The shifting of priorities
The decision to leave California
Backlash on their move to Tennessee
Dealing with the online hate
Being her most authentic self online
Bringing faith to the forefront
Brittany’s book recommendations
Her biggest regret
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In this revealing episode of Not Alone, Valeria sits down with an OG digital creator, entrepreneur and mom Brittany Xavier, for an honest conversation about faith, motherhood, and staying grounded in a rapidly changing online world. Brittany opens up about her early start on social media, the business behind her brand, and the journey from being a young single mother to one of the most recognizable figures in the influencer space. She shares how trusting in God’s plan guided her through life’s biggest turning points, from choosing to keep her baby and balancing school, work, and motherhood, to navigating a difficult custody battle and ultimately finding her voice through content creation.
Together, Valeria and Brittany explore what it means to live authentically online, the lessons she’s passed down to her daughter about social media and technology, and how her family’s move from California to Tennessee brought both public scrutiny and peace. It’s a conversation about growth, resilience, and choosing faith and family over everything, and a reminder that the most powerful influence comes from being true to who you are.
📱Follow Brittany:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brittanyxavier/?hl=en
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@brittany.xavier?lang=en
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/brittanyxavier
Website: https://brittanyxavier.com/
Brittany’s Book Recommendations:
The Case for Christ: A Journalist's Personal Investigation of the Evidence for Jesus:
https://amzn.to/4o4sZ4B
I Don't Have Enough Faith to Be an Atheist: https://amzn.to/4ob6B9S
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Follow me: https://www.instagram.com/valerialipovetsky/ 
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