Not Alone
Not Alone
Valeria Lipovetsky
Life Lessons at 35: What I Know (and What I Still Don’t)
42 minutes Posted Sep 16, 2025 at 7:00 am.
Start of the conversation
Turning 35
Sharing the things Valeria knows now
Life is all about evolution and contradicting yourself
Learning how to be more present
The importance of putting yourself first
Pausing
Most things don’t need a reaction
Being “okay” with not being liked by everyone
Choosing your own lens on life
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“The Hero’s Journey” Breakdown
Things she may never figure out
The idea of time
Feeling success instead of chasing the next goal
How to age in a world obsessed with youth
Being kind vs. being nice
Taking more time to process emotions
Leaving behind having answers for everything
Overexplaining my boundaries to get approval
Moving away from sharing too much, too fast online
Sharing things that took a long time to process
Admiring Pamela Anderson
Igniting Awareness
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In this special solo episode of Not Alone, Valeria reflects on turning 35 and what this milestone means to her. She opens up about the lessons she’s carrying forward, the habits and pressures she’s choosing to leave behind, and the aspirations guiding her next chapter. From learning to be more present and putting herself first, to accepting that not everyone will like you, Valeria shares the mindset shifts that have shaped her growth. She talks about aging in a culture obsessed with youth, embracing contradictions as part of evolution, and the importance of pausing before reacting. With honesty and vulnerability, she explores her own “hero’s journey,” reflects on her children and mother getting older, and why success is about feeling, not chasing. It’s an intimate, thoughtful conversation on awareness, boundaries, and stepping into your mid-thirties with clarity and confidence.  
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