Not Alone
Not Alone
Valeria Lipovetsky
Comfort to Chaos: Still Risking After 12 Years of Marriage
1 hour 17 minutes Posted Jul 30, 2024 at 7:10 am.
Intro
The mesh shoes at the airport
Real couple interactions
Triggering the deep-seated wounds
Healthy conflict resolution
Have you ever hated your partner so much?
Gift giving
Would you buy me a gift?
Taking risks as a couple
A sense of urgency
Meeting my biological dad
Are you defined by your past?
Not being defined by how much you spend
Luxury brands marketing strategies
Trust is crucial in marriage
Take care of each other
Sitting down and talking with your kids
Kids and exposure on social media
Putting value on metrics
The Anxious Generation
Where are the flowers?
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Today is a special day for Gary and Valeria as they celebrate their anniversary with a sweet and heartfelt conversation. They laugh about their audience's reactions to funny and controversial topics from past episodes, and how they enjoy showing their real, sometimes differing, opinions. They emphasize the importance of good communication and understanding each other's boundaries to keep their relationship strong. 
They also discuss their feelings about gifts, preferring meaningful gestures over material things. Gary talks about taking risks and seizing opportunities, and Valeria appreciates how he has helped her grow. They reflect on what it means to be a power couple and the importance of being authentic. Valeria opens up about embracing her past and sharing her story to connect with others. Overall, it’s a genuine and heartfelt look into their life together.
Mentioned: 
Mesh shoes clip: https://www.instagram.com/p/C8zlO4oJhne/ 
Feather tickling clip: https://www.instagram.com/p/C8KxrblOmLO/ 
Feather episode full video: https://youtu.be/0dppdPulrhY 
Jake podcast clip: https://www.instagram.com/p/C7rVE1qxfif/ 
Viola Davis quote: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2J0l8_prEbo 
Valeria meeting her biological dad vlogs: https://youtu.be/Ho_5YisGHyU | https://youtu.be/FYhdTvyavoU | https://youtu.be/9_6xEEjH3bw 
The Anxious Generation: How the Great Rewiring of Childhood Is Causing an Epidemic of Mental Illness by Johnathan Haidt https://a.co/d/gP3BDL5 
Shop my look from this episode: https://liketk.it/4LWtl 
Gary is on:
https://www.instagram.com/garylipovetsky
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCKHLJJd07IhT9DPhxsY-EYg 
https://www.tiktok.com/@garylipovetsky 
https://www.linkedin.com/in/garylipovetsky/ 
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