I was in a place, " a hopeless place, and I found a love." Thank you Rihanna for that happy dance song. Not sure what meaning she has for the lyrics, and I'm always rewriting their lyrics anyway.  When you can't forgive, when you can't let it go, there is a way! You can get to forgiveness so you can "go on and live your life." You can do it, I'm proof that it CAN be done!  No matter what dark valley you're walking through, or maybe it's the black freaking forest. Whatever, you can come through!

Forging Forgiveness is going on to live your life without the effects of any type of past abuse, abuse no longer allowed.  After removing yourself from abuse and maintaining healthy, immaculate boundaries, STAND and create a life where the effects of past abuse no longer affect you. Stand. Stand! STAND!  Big NOTE: For everyone who is not a Christian, don't get all offended, I don't consider myself a Christian, and I'm not an asshole. So avoid putting meaning to nothing. What it means is that Christianity has made a lot of people in this world better people, bc maybe they wouldn't have found your belief system. They found Christianity instead, and anything that makes anyone a more loving and kind human being, well, we can all be happy for that!

More questions I would like to have asked. Coping tools, grief models and toning the vagus nerve!  Get a free Ayurveda Dailys pdf on my website and connect with my FB group, you true with danae https://www.danaendelaney.com/ or connect with me in other way.  Here's my https://linktr.ee/danaendelaney

Three C's that marked the beginning of my journey to come through. You CAN move through, YOU TRUE!

All about what I would like someone to ask me about scapegoating, Part 3. My Support & Advocate Review. You can do one for you. It's a top five life affirming look back on all the people in your life who were there, big and small, during difficult times. Write it down, close your eyes and remember them, the way they smiled, they way they looked at you or tilted their head. This could be a family member, a teacher, a friend, a colleague, a boss. Remember their care and consideration of you because they gave you the blueprint for how to come through the scapegoating experience and any grief or loss associated with it. Last, a little bit for healthcare professionals, a thank you, and what it feels like to be in the scapegoat experience, before you know what's going on.    https://linktr.ee/danaendelaney Photo on Unsplash by Shalom de Leon.

This is where the family of origin went haywire, and I became the all the time goat, maaaaahahahaaaa, of the family I was born into. Thank God for miles between us or it could have been worse. While there are still some violins that I could play, I also had a lot of advocates. Some, whose names I can't remember, and others, who are in my life today. God bless them all!  I answer more questions that I would like to be asked to give a little understanding and hope to scapegoats just beginning the grief process and moving through what feels like the "valley of death." If you are a family scapegoat that is just beginning or maybe you've always known, and you're in the throws of feeling lost, confused, broken and tired, just know that there is a way; there is a path to healing. It is NOT your fault. It is not what you deserved, and I want you to know that YOU are Scapegoat Strong, wholly unnecessary, and Scapegoat Strong!   https://linktr.ee/danaendelaney Photo on Unsplash by Will Myers

It's a little sad. This journey is all about the things I would like someone to ask me about my experience as a family scapegoat, my unique perspective of being both a golden child and a family scapegoat in my family of origin, the gems along the way, and how I have healed and how I'm a healer, continuing on to learn, grow, play and enjoy this life experience. There's also a lot of hope and healing along the way and back into living a life of balance and ease. I want to share that with others who may feel lost on the way to healing.  Note: May contain a few mild curse words, a** and da*n.  https://linktr.ee/danaendelaney