Send us Fan Mail The word “fatherless” gets thrown around online a lot—especially when people are criticizing women’s behavior. In this episode, I explore why childhood circumstances are so often used as adult insults, and why phrases like “fatherless behavior” and “your parents must be proud” seem to carry a particular stigma. Drawing from my own experience growing up without my biological father, I reflect on personal responsibility, dignity, family influence, and the tendency to reduce p...
May 29
20 min
Send us Fan Mail I didn't plan to start the episode this way...but I've been noticing a shift in myself lately. Not burnout. Not sadness exactly. Just a quiet feeling of being a little off--less motivated, less connected, not quite like myself. In this episode, I talk through what that's felt like, how adjusting my hormone therapy may be playing a role, and how even small internal shifts can affect everything--from creativity to confidence to how we show up online. I also share how heal...
Apr 23
16 min
Send us Fan Mail Sexual confidence is empowering...until it isn't. In this episode, I explore why some women are applauded for their openness while others are reduced, judged, or dismissed for the same thing. Looking at examples like Alex Cooper and Dakota Johnson, I break down the role of status, perception, and "protection" in how female sexuality is received. This isn't about morality--it's about why the same behavior gets labeled so differently. Support the show Th...
Mar 19
31 min
Send us Fan Mail In this episode of Unscripted: A Calm Take on the Double Standard, I explore the strange dynamic of the attention economy online—where some forms of visibility are celebrated while others are condemned. After seeing a viral post framing one woman as more “worthy” of attention than another, I started thinking about the deeper contradiction in how we talk about empowerment, objectification, and respect for women. Why do some expressions of visibility get applauded while ...
Mar 5
13 min
Send us Fan Mail WELCOME BACK! PART 2 WHAT WOULD YOU ASK A SUCCESSFUL 50 YEAR OLD ONLY FANS CREATOR? 1. HOW DO YOU REACT WHEN SOMEONE RECOGNIZES YOU OUT IN PUBLIC BECAUSE OF "THOSE" VIDEOS? 2. HOW DO YOU PLAN TO KEEP IT UP? 3. WHEN DID THIS BECOME A SERIOUS THOUGHT? 4. WHAT'S YOUR LEAST AND MOST FAVORITE THING ABOUT THE INDUSTRY? 5. HOW DO YOU DEAL WITH BURNOUT? 6. WHAT'S YOUR BEST ADVICE FOR A BRAND NEW CREATOR? 7. HOW DO I BREAK INTO SUCH A CROWDED MARKET AND STAND OUT T...
Jul 31, 2024
21 min
Send us Fan Mail ANSWERING YOUR QUESTIONS --PART 1 1. Any regrets doing your content? 2. Would you be offended if a follower said hello? 3. What has been your biggest challenge? 4. Who's more annoying to deal with--younger or older men? 5. Did you start off with boundaries or limits or did they manifest because of your subs? 6. Does a regular guy who isn't a creator have an actual chance at dating you? 7. Who comes up with your ideas for content? 8. Do you actually enjoy creating cont...
Jul 28, 2024
36 min
Send us Fan Mail Some of the questions: Pros? Cons? Drawbacks and/or negative experiences? Worth it? Any regrets? How do you think your future self with feel about today's actions on OF? Any nudity? Any fetish that you were surprised existed? The video portion of the podcast will include photos of the LueMelit designs invented by Melissa (she_can_and_she_will_ on social media channels). She explains that her patented switch is in the UL stage and hopes to soon see them on shelves at Ho...
Feb 14, 2024
45 min
Send us Fan Mail A large percentage of people believe that OF creators should not make as much money as they make. It's described as a talentless, no morals, no self-respect kind of occupation and as such should not be as lucrative as it is. I'd love to hear your thoughts and I'd talk to some male OF creators so if you know of one that would be willing, let me know! Support the show Thanks for listening to Unscripted: A Calm Take on the Double Standard. These conversations aren’...
Feb 7, 2024
35 min
Send us Fan Mail St. Louis teacher was put on leave after school district finds out about her Only Fans page. What is your opinion? Support the show Thanks for listening to Unscripted: A Calm Take on the Double Standard. These conversations aren’t about telling you what to think. They’re about slowing down and looking at things from a different angle. If you enjoyed the episode, follow the show and share it with someone who appreciates calm conversations in a loud world. And r...
Oct 12, 2023
26 min
Send us Fan Mail The comment section can be wild! And the video you least expect is gonna go viral...trust me! But seriously... why do people want the older generation to conform to society's definition of a granny? Support the show Thanks for listening to Unscripted: A Calm Take on the Double Standard. These conversations aren’t about telling you what to think. They’re about slowing down and looking at things from a different angle. If you enjoyed the episode, follow the show and share it...
Sep 6, 2023
34 min
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