Why Not?
Why Not?
Chrissy Hawkins
#189 Alone, Not Lonely: A New Chapter in France
29 minutes Posted Apr 14, 2025 at 8:01 pm.
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It’s been a while since I’ve done a solo episode – and even more mad that I’m recording this one from France 🇫🇷

In this episode, I’m giving a bit of a life update and chatting through everything from why I moved, to how I got here (with my guinea pig, Spud, in tow), and what I’ve learned along the way.

Here’s what I cover:

  • Why I finally made the move to France – something I’d dreamed of for years but had nearly written off

  • How a big breakup led me to therapy, which completely changed my life

  • Wanting to run away at first… then realising I actually wanted to move for me

  • Travelling the hard way (because of course I did), including a very unplanned “well-planned” journey

  • Having just 10 days to rethink everything and settling on Perpignan

  • The emotional toll of putting yourself first when you’re not used to doing it

  • Bringing Spud across countries while my amazing parents carried the suitcase

  • Learning to settle into a new place, without speaking the language

  • The reality of social anxiety when you don’t have the words

  • Choosing to have a beginner’s mindset when it comes to speaking French

  • The joy of making your own schedule and not having to adjust for anyone else

  • A little challenge for you to try putting yourself first — or spend some time alone and see how it feels

  • And a reminder: just be yourself, and stop worrying about what anyone else thinks

Whether you’re thinking about a big change, working on yourself, or just curious about life abroad — this one’s a personal one, and I hope you enjoy it.


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