Click here to send us a message!!! Dealing with society if you are ENM can be a tough, especially when others have intention of listening or opening their mind. Lizzie and Nash tackle some of the obstacles and "what if" situations on this episode! Have a story or a question? Email us at [email protected] or Leave a voicemail or text us at 814-900-4273 Be sure to check out Full Swap Radio! You can find our latest episode Tuesdays at 11:00 am CST and Thursdays at 4:00 pm CST. ...
Mar 29
41 min
Click here to send us a message!!! One kiss that felt like lightning. Compersion on fire. Then the most respectful “hugs only” text the next morning. We unpack the whiplash, next-day panic, clean boundaries, and why a polite no doesn’t cancel the hot yes. Have a similar story? Email us at [email protected] or Text us at 814-900-4273 Be sure to check out Full Swap Radio! You can find our latest episode Tuesdays at 11:00 am CST and Thursdays at 4:00 pm CST. Full Swap Radio is your o...
Feb 16
48 min
Click here to send us a message!!! Stop pretending sex is always a cinematic masterpiece. This week, Lizzie and Nash are ditching the dignity to dive into the full-body, face-reddening mistakes nobody wants to admit. From the vault of listener-submitted chaos: • "Nacho Tits": Why you should always check the label on the "whipped cream" can. • The "Sex Intern": How to handle a threesome when you realize you're just the lighting technician. • Siri Cockblocks: When Apple’s fall detection ruins t...
Jan 11
1 hr 18 min
Click here to send us a message!!! Menopause and perimenopause don’t “ruin” relationships. They expose the ones built on autopilot, entitlement, and zero emotional skill. In this Nash-only solo, I’m talking straight to the guys: what’s actually changing, why you’re probably taking it personally, and how to stop turning your partner’s body into your crisis. We get into the real stuff: sleep getting wrecked, mood shifts, why pressure kills desire, why comfort matters more than your ego, and how...
Dec 30, 2025
1 hr 7 min
Click here to send us a message!!! This isn’t your grandma’s holiday special. It’s December 23rd, the whipped cream’s already warm, the mistletoe’s hanging low, and Lizzie & Nash are going all in on why holiday sex hits harder, dirtier, and more necessary than ever. We’re talking: – Thighs trembling under Christmas lights – Tinsel in places that should not sparkle – Coffee-fueled couch rides, candy cane weaponry, and orgasmic exhale – Why sex in December isn’t just relief — it’s rebe...
Dec 24, 2025
50 min
Click here to send us a message!!! Initiating sex shouldn’t feel like defusing a bomb, but for most couples, it does. In this brutally honest, funny, and insanely hot episode, Lizzie & Nash rip apart the myths around “waiting for the right moment” and show you why the spark dies when nobody makes a move. They dig into rejection fear, gender-role nonsense, long-term desire, and how to initiate without sounding like an awkward Victorian ghost. Plus: real listener fantasies that prove boldne...
Nov 23, 2025
1 hr 10 min
Click here to send us a message!!! In this brutally honest, hilarious deep dive, Lizzie and Nash unpack one of the most uncomfortable truths of modern love: what does happiness actually look like when your partner is dating someone else? Spoiler — it’s not hearts, rainbows, or BuzzFeed-level quizzes. It’s emotional cardio, messy self-awareness, and an ongoing practice in radical honesty (with a side of fries). From the first date jitters to jealousy spirals, from rebuilding trust after dumb r...
Nov 10, 2025
33 min
Click here to send us a message!!! Lizzie and Nash break down what ethical non-monogamy really means—beyond the rumors and the stereotypes. They dig into communication, trust, jealousy, and the difference between freedom and chaos. It’s honest, funny, and real: a conversation about love without ownership and desire without shame. Have a question or want to know more? Email us at [email protected] or Text us at 814-900-4273 Instagram: https://instagram.com/whyisitsohardpodcas...
Oct 27, 2025
27 min
Click here to send us a message!!! Toys don’t ruin the moment—they amplify it. In this raw, no-BS episode, Lizzie and Nash go deep on the art of introducing sex toys into partnered play without making it awkward, clinical, or cringe. They break down the myths, tackle insecurities, and show you how toys can become your dirty little secret weapon for next-level pleasure. Expect hot takes, personal confessions, dirty laughs, and straight-up truth bombs about how to buzz, thrust, and vibe wi...
Jul 30, 2025
1 hr 10 min
Click here to send us a message!!! If you’ve ever stopped mid-thrust because someone’s parts started arguing instead of making out… this one’s for you. Lizzie and Nash are breaking down the myth that lube is just a “backup plan” and making it damn clear: lube isn’t optional—it’s a sex essential. From awkward dryness to full-body melt sessions, we’re diving into: Why spit is not a strategy How lube turns fingers into instruments of pleasure Foreplay, toys, menopause, shame, and the art of sli...
Jun 29, 2025
31 min
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