Who Knows, It's Just Life
Who Knows, It's Just Life
Kyle Carson
Who Knows, It's Just Life is hosted by Kyle. Any and all topics are fair game: politics, social/economic justice, the isms, relationships, raising kids, technology, social media, health and wellness - any facet of life. I admit that I don’t know and that I’m still learning. I’m moving in this world based on my experiences and understanding to this point. But ultimately I'm continuously learning and trying to figure out the world as it comes to me and as I come to it. This is a public expression of that learning process. IG @realdadult
S2 Ep 4 - World Cup 2026 w/ Mabinti Yillah
You know me well enough to know that I HAD to do another episode with Mabiniti given all the storylines, narratives and controversies that this World Cup brought on. We talk about the many geopolitical, racial, religious and societal threads that came to light during this world cup.Other Place to Catch MabintiThe Empathy Protocol CSE TV - Terrence WoodsCSE TV - Spring Football
Jul 19
1 hr 9 min
S2 Ep 3 - Love Trumps Hate
Forgive me for the clickbaity title lol....On today’s episode I delve into both sides of this statement. I share my beliefs that love is truly the only and most powerful force in the universe. The second is a challenge - do we have the capacity to love the wounded child that is Donald Trump? The idea of this epiosde has been in my head for more than two years but now felt like the right time to talk about it. I’ve read a number of books that have contributed to the content including:All About Love - bell hooksThe Road Less Traveled - M Scott PeckDivine Love - Dene LoganReturn to Love - Marianne WilliamsonAdult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents - Lindsay GibsonToo Much and Never Enough - Dr. Mary TrumpI also use footage from a 12/16/2025 IG Post from Hype.r.vigilance This episode is meant to be a challenge. It is meant to push us beyond the seemingly binary dynamic in our politics, culture and society. The Song I’m Rocking To: Roberta Flack - Killing Me SoftlyMy IG: @thecoolpapabellSpotify Playlist: Evolution of Black Music: Februaryhttps://www.youtube.com/@whoknowsitsjustlife
Feb 11
48 min
S2 Ep 2 - Roller Coasters and other Updates with the Kiddo
On today’s episode I have a repeat special guest - the kiddo! After hearing the last episode of season 1, he wanted to jump on and provide some updates! Some things are new: he’s now a roller coaster enthusiast in training and a YouTuber. Some things are the same, he’s a very introspective guest who challenges me with really tough questions. Enjoy!IG: @thecoolpapabellhttps://www.youtube.com/@wanderingskylineshowEvolutions of Black Music: January
Jan 10
1 hr 10 min
S2 Ep 1 - We’re Back: Thanksgiving 2025 Reflections
After an unintentional  2+ year hiatus, we are back with a new season. Life has lifed in all ways (blessings and challenges). The decision to resume the show is less than 24 hours young but I’m excited to see what this next chapter brings. This episode was inspired by thoughts and reflections coming out of this year’s Thanksgiving break. As you might guess, I am still struggling to reconcile the time I truly appreciate with my family and the horrid, fraudulent history of the day and the incessant marketing that bombards us during this season. I also had a moving experience visiting my grandad at his memory care facility.Song I’m Rocking To: Sam Cooke - A Change is Gonna ComeBooks: Robin Wall Kimmerer “Braiding Sweetgrass” and “The Serviceberry”NEW IG: @thecoolpapabell
Dec 3, 2025
31 min
S1 Ep 43 - He's 10!
Today is a very special episode. I am joined by the kiddo to celebrate his 10th birthday! First we provide some updates from the Father's Day episode (Episode 37) and we ask each other some thought provoking questions: What is hard about being a kid? Why don't adults play with toys? Would you rather meet your ancestors or your descendants? How do you feel and show love?NEW IG: @thecoolpapabell
Sep 25, 2023
57 min
S1 Ep 42 - Breakups
On today's episode Cierra and I delve into breakups. For the first time on the show, I discuss my divorce. Cierra and I both share our experiences dealing with breakups.References:The Book of Forgiving by Desmond Tutu and Mpho TutuModern Romance by Aziz AnsariMating in Captivity and The State of Affairs by Esther PerrelAttached by by Rachel Heller Amir Levine Song I'm Rocking To:Kyle - Oddisee Born Before YesterdayNEW IG: @thecoolpapabell
Sep 16, 2023
1 hr 3 min
S1 Ep 41 - Tiptoeing into Restorative Justice: The Stolen Car
On today's episode, Cierra and I tiptoe into restorative justice with a real and ongoing situation. Cierra's car was stolen during the summer and it has put her through a lot. Guided by her faith, she is trying to regain a sense of safety and security, navigate the criminal legal system, and wrestle with the societal implications of it all. We discuss the utility of police, prisons and theorize how restorative justice could be used in this situation.References:Justice by Miriam KabaWho Knows Episode 29 w/ Randell StricklandSongs We're Rocking To:Cierra - Madison Ryann Ward WandaKyle - OddiseeNEW IG: @thecoolpapabell
Sep 15, 2023
1 hr 7 min
S1 Ep 40 - Me vs. We
On this episode I am joined by Ms. Cierra Lewis again! We discuss the eluded to topic of Me vs. We. Individual vs. Community. It often seems like individual and community identities are on opposing ends of a seesaw. We delve into the need to recognize and honor both the importance of individuality and the power in community.References Language and its impact on economic behavior The Crisis of Individualism American Individualism and Our Collective CrisisSongs We're Rocking ToBurna Boy - Sitting onto of the WorldLudovico Einaudi - Seven Days Walking Day 1Contact@cierracarismaNEW IG: @thecoolpapabell
Jul 24, 2023
1 hr 31 min
S1 Ep 39 - ...But Words Will Never Hurt Me
Yet again I am joined by Ms. Cierra Lewis on this episode were we dispel the myth that comes from the old adage "sticks and stones can break my bones but words will never hurt me".ResourcesChen paperSongsCierra: LaNell Grant - Answer by FireKyle: LaNell Grant - Collect CallContact@cierracarisma@realdadult
Jul 17, 2023
1 hr 33 min
S1 Ep 38 - When is What Cheating?
On this episode I am joined by Ms. Cierra Lewis! We discuss a few current events (July 4th and Kiki Palmer) before delving into the main topic: The Black Mirror Episode "Striking Vipers". This episode uses a fully immersive fighting game as the basis to explore sexuality, attraction, cheating and results in (spoiler alert) an ethically non-monogamous relationship. We raise several questions including "When is What Cheating?".ReferencesStriking Vipers Trailer - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yWs6okRD8bAThat's What Ci Said - Black Girl IntrovertsSongsCierra: Maverick City - Build My LifeKyle: Collie Buddz - Love & ReggaeContactsNEW IG: @thecoolpapabell@cierracarisma
Jul 8, 2023
1 hr 26 min
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