What Your Therapist Thinks
What Your Therapist Thinks
Felicia Keller Boyle & Kristie Plantinga
How Do I Regulate My Nervous System? Resetting Your System & Managing Stress
1 hour 1 minutes Posted Apr 8, 2026 at 12:00 pm.
Show introduction with Julie Goldberg
What a regulated nervous system means
Real life examples of regulation
Three nervous system states explained
Understanding the polyvagal ladder clearly
How regulation feels inside your body
Why triggers are different for everyone
Burnout signs of dysregulated nervous system
Why we are always shifting states
Practical ways to regulate daily
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Therapists Julie Goldberg joins Kristie and Felicia to unpack the mechanics of nervous system regulation and offer a practical, somatic perspective on mental health. They explore the range of human response from fight-or-flight to shutdown. This episode reframes anxiety and burnout away from personal failures to adaptive physiological responses designed to keep you safe.

Some takeaways:

• The differences between safety, mobilization and shutdown.

• Why the goal isn't permanent calm but building resilience and flexibility.

• How our bodies naturally find safety in the presence of another regulated human.

• Changing the narrative from "What's wrong with me?" to "What is my body trying to tell me?"

• Simple somatic techniques to help navigate your stress.

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