What Your Dad Didn't Teach You
What Your Dad Didn't Teach You
Louis Farfields, Dating Coach for Men
Dating isn’t rocket science, but it sure feels like it sometimes. Join Louis Farfields as he unpacks the good, the bad, and the absurd of modern dating for men. With coaches, success stories, and regular guys who’ve been through it all, you’ll get tips that actually work. Whether you’re after quick wins or deeper change. Learn everything you didn't know you needed, minus the BS.
#24 - [Unfiltered] How to Rebound Like a Maniac
What happens when a dating coach goes full savage post-breakup? Bumble blew up. Girls got wild. And coach Daan is here to share the stories.
May 18, 2025
45 min
#23 - 3 Therapist Tricks That Kill Overthinking on Dates
Ever feel like you have to prove your value every time you open your mouth? Whether it’s in convos, work, or flirting... this episode will smack you out of that habit. We break down the mindset shift that lets you speak freely, drop the performance, and stop chasing reactions.
May 11, 2025
1 hr 27 min
#22 - 5'4" and STILL Getting Girls: Meet Joey
5'4" and pulling girls most guys dream of. Joey’s story isn’t just a win for short dudes, it’s a blueprint for anyone who's ever felt “not enough.”
May 4, 2025
42 min
#21 - What Breakups Really Take From You
Love isn’t enough. In this episode, dating coach Daan De Ram shares why he ended his relationship while still in love, how men sabotage intimacy, and why most guys can’t actually handle real emotional closeness.
Apr 27, 2025
44 min
#20 - The Fear That Makes You Unlovable And How to Finally Let It Go
I sit down with my therapist Dave Wright, a hypnotherapist from Amsterdam. Dave helps me unpack the real reason most men feel stuck in dating... and in life. We dive into self-rejection, emotional triggers, setting boundaries, and how to finally feel like you’re enough.
Apr 20, 2025
1 hr 21 min
#19 - How a ‘Perfect’ Relationship Slowly Destroys You
Ramses was one of those guys. Charming, confident, dating like it was a sport. Until he fell in love. What followed was five years of passion, denial, emotional decline, and physical symptoms that doctors couldn’t explain. In this unfiltered episode, he shares what it really looks like to get lost in a relationship that seems amazing on the outside… and how he slowly found his way back.
Apr 12, 2025
56 min
#18 - Why You Still Feel Insecure (Even After the Gym + Texting Skills)
It’s not about your looks. It’s not about your lines. It's something deeper, and it’s been steering your dating life for years. Dating coach for women Mathijs joins Louis and together they pull back the curtain on what's REALLY been holding you back.
Apr 6, 2025
40 min
#17 - [Unfiltered] The Wild Side of Dating Success
You wanted more real-life stories, so here we go. In this episode, my close friend Niels and I share some of our wilder dating experiences. The kind of stuff that happens when you actually get good at the game. No theory, no over-explaining, just raw, unfiltered stories straight from real life. Enjoy!
Mar 23, 2025
55 min
#16 - Where Beginning Daters Get Stuck - And How To Break Free.
Most guys stay stuck in the beginner or intermediate stage of dating because they keep making the same mistakes. Some never escape them. In this episode, we break down the most common beginner and intermediate mistakes. We’ll show you what’s keeping you stuck and how to break free, and burst through to the next level.
Mar 16, 2025
31 min
#15 - From Player to Partner: The Transition No One Talks About
Is it time to move on, or are you just addicted to the chase? We discuss the emotional rollercoaster of high-level game, why some guys struggle to settle down, and the mental battles that come with shifting from short-term excitement to long-term fulfillment.
Mar 9, 2025
23 min
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