Welcome to the Table
Welcome to the Table
Tom Weaver
We are providing hope and healing for folks struggling with sexual integrity, addiction, brokenness, betrayal or suffering from the ripple effects of the addiction. Thru our experience in this field we will providing valuable resources to those in need and a forum to ask questions and find solutions to help. Tom and Michele have walked this journey and here to help others walk out their journeys, turning what was intended for evil into something so powerful as the redemption and restoration of themselves and their relationships.
"The Rodney Coin"
Join Tom and Rodney Wright of Pure Desire Ministries as Rodney discusses healthy sexual conversations about masturbation and is it right wrong, or what does that conversation look like. Rodney share his "masturbation coin" method that he uses with men in his groups!What a great conversation!For more information email us at [email protected] or go to:https://www.tableministry.com/#unwantedsexualbehaviors #betrayaltrauma #healingfrombetrayal #lifebeyondbetrayal #sexualaddictionrecovery #pornaddictionrecovery #cometothetable
May 26
33 min
Understanding the "Why" Behind Your Sexual Desire
Join us as we have a candid discussion with Jay Stringer and his new book "Desire" | The Longings Inside Us & the Science of How We Love, Heal & Grow.Check Out Jay’s New Book! - https://jay-stringer.com/For more information email us at [email protected] or go to:https://www.tableministry.com/#unwantedsexualbehaviors #betrayaltrauma #healingfrombetrayal #lifebeyondbetrayal #sexualaddictionrecovery #pornaddictionrecovery #cometothetable
May 8
57 min
Long Term Healing & the Impact on the Family System
Traci & Rodney Wright join us today talking about a healthy family system (HFS) and what that looks like over long term healing. An excellent conversation with 2 of our dearest friends being totally open and transparent about building relational healing and creates a Healthy Family System.
Apr 11
1 hr
Long Term Sexual Sobriety| Life Expectancy?
Join Mark and I as we have an honest conversation about sobriety, what it is, what it isn't and the 6 most important things that keep it sustainable over Mark's years of sobriety.Questions go to www.tableministry.com or email [email protected] reach Mark go to www.theresstillhope.org
Feb 13
44 min
Betrayal, Your Sex Life & Menopause | The Perfect Storm
Pull up a chair and listen as Michele talks with Dr. Crystal Hollenbeck, a sex therapist, about how the devasting journey of betrayal trauma intersects with menopause and your sex life forming the "Perfect Storm" not many ever consider or know about. Dr. Crystal answers some extremely difficult questions and then they both dive into a topic rarely discussed on this journey - Menopause, PTSD & Partner Betrayal Trauma!Go to www.tableministry.com for more information or email us at [email protected]
Jan 30
1 hr 6 min
"Did He Ever Love Me?"
Did he ever love me? It’s one of the most painful questions we face after betrayal.In our upcoming episode, Tom, Michele & Dr. Capparucci break down the difference between true love and infatuation, why “his best” wasn’t enough, and how unresolved emotional wounds quietly sabotage connection.Healing starts with clarity. Join us for an honest conversation that brings truth, understanding, and the first steps toward healing and reconnection. Watch live on Facebook & YouTube Listen anytime on YouTube, Spotify, and Apple PodcastsContact is at [email protected] for more information of need help battling the after affects of addiction and betrayal. Be sure to check out our website www.tableministry.com for more information and about our upcoming Bridge to Intimacy Conference in March!
Jan 12
52 min
From the Paper Shack to the Table: Finding Hope After Addiction and Betrayal
Send us a text - This is a replay of a POD I did with Steve O'Connor from Catholics Fight Porn and wanted to share here as well.Enjoy the episode!In this episode, I sit down with Tom Weaver from Come to the Table Ministry to talk about the real struggles of sex addiction, betrayal trauma, and the hope of lasting transformation. Tom shares his powerful story of being exposed to pornography as a young boy at the “Paper Shack” in his church, how that struggle carried into marriage, and how God brought him and his wife through deep betrayal to healing and restoration.We also talk about the ministry’s Men’s and Women’s retreats and their Couples Conference, where hurting hearts find community, truth, and tools for recovery.  Check out the 'Men Make Men' retreat and the 'Princess Warrior' retreat as well as the 'Maintaining the Bridge: Hope and Healing After Betrayal' Couples Conference! Whether you’re battling addiction, walking through betrayal, or longing for deeper intimacy in your marriage, Tom offers encouragement that freedom is possible and healing is real.To close, Tom takes on some rapid-fire questions about recovery and relationships—practical insights you won’t want to miss.If you’ve ever wondered if there’s hope after betrayal, or if freedom is possible after years of struggle, this episode will speak directly to you.HELPFUL LINKS:Tom & Michele Weaver at Come to the Table Ministry:-Website here.-Retreats + Conferences here.- Disclosures here.⁠-YouTube Channel here & connect with us on other Social Media @CometotheTableMinistry-Email: [email protected] CATHOLICS FIGHT PORN:-Join an amazing group of men in the Finally Free Group here.-Get daily, uplifting CFP BOOST Texts by texting SUPPORT to (941) 279-2337-For 30 days Free of Covenant Eyes, sign up at:  https://www.covenanteyes.comPROMO CODE: CFP-Get a sweet, safe, locked-down phone [that's not a flip phone] - Get a Wisephone!  Use Promo Code: CFP to save $25 -- https://www.techless.com/CFP-Join the Finally Free Coaching Group: https://www.catholicsfightporn.com/need-help-Book a FREE Call with Steve: https://www.catholicsfightporn.com/contact-Email: [email protected] up for the email newsletter at the bottom left of catholicsfightporn.com-Connect with me on Instagram @catholicrecovery-Steve and a betrayed partner coach guide couples through the Full Disclosure process for those looking for full truth in their relationship.  Email Steve for more info.
Oct 11, 2025
57 min
Do You Really Know??
Tradition has a lot to teach us about how to connect our bodies and emotions to our theology in our relationship with God. Many men "know" they are loved by God but do not often, if ever, experience His love. Could be shame, family of origin issues or trauma and sexual addiction that can become that spiritual road block! Join Tom Weaver with Matt Wenger from Begin Again Institute Friday as we talk about Contemplative Practice for Christian men in recovery! Feel free to join us and ask questions live in the comments section!www.tableministry.comwww.beginagaininstitute.cominfo@tableministry.com
Sep 20, 2025
52 min
The Power of Truth - Honesty in the Healing Process after Betrayal
Relational Honesty after Intimate Partner Betrayal - What does it look like? Is complete rigorous honesty necessary?Join Dan Drake, Founder & Clinical Director of Banyan Therapy Group, and I as we walk through the importance of honesty in the healing process after Partner Betrayal. We will discuss the importance of cleaning up the past as well as ongoing relational honesty & what it looks like and what it isn't.
Sep 5, 2025
52 min
AIR - Artificial Intimacy Relapse ™
A view on what AIR - Artificial Intimacy Relapse™ is and how it just came into the light this week. These are my thoughts on a video that was released recently and the affect it has on recovery and the partner.And I didn't even touch on the neuroscience of it.This video has since been removed from YouTube. Contact us thru our website https://www.tableministry.com/ or [email protected]
Aug 11, 2025
12 min
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