We Go There Podcast
We Go There Podcast
We Go There Podcast
Welcome to “We Go There”, where there is no such thing as TMI. Why? Because there is no such thing as having "too much information" when it comes to your health and wellness. Information and knowledge is power, period. And feeling empowered is everything. Many of us are living similar experiences, and yet we often feel alone,  or even worse - shameful about what we perceive to be an embarrassing problem. When we are embarrassed, we stay silent. Silence breeds shame, and shame makes our struggles even more difficult.  My hope is to help change that. And it starts here! I want to create a space where NO question is off limits (I really mean it!), where no one feels judged and where you can tune in to learn something, and feel a little seen!  From painful sex, raging hormones, vanishing libido, postpartum vaginal healing, infertility and bladder leaks (been there!) - there is no judgement here. This is about asking the awkward questions and talking with top experts to get the truth - the information you deserve. We are going there, unfiltered! And I am so excited you're here. 
From Cesarean to VBAC: Reclaiming Birth After Trauma with Kristen
This week, Nikki sits down with Kristen — mother of two — who vulnerably shares what it meant to reclaim her birth story after a deeply traumatic, unplanned cesarean during COVID.
Mar 3
41 min
$633 to Save a Life: The Childbirth Injury No One Is Talking About
In this powerful conversation, Nikki sits down with Kate Grant, founding CEO of the Fistula Foundation, to talk about obstetric fistula — a preventable childbirth injury that affects millions of women in Sub-Saharan Africa and Asia when emergency obstetric care isn’t available.
Feb 25
37 min
Is Perimenopause Becoming the Default Diagnosis? HRT, Testing Gaps, and Advocating for Better Care with Anne Matthews
This week, Nikki sits down with Anne Matthews, fertility and women’s hormone expert, founder of Energy Tree Studios, and one of Canada’s few qualified traditional Chinese medicine practitioners (ABORM). After their joint participation in a menopause panel left them speechless, Anne and Nikki knew they had to have this conversation.
Feb 17
47 min
Doulas, Collaboration Over Competition & Why Joy and Grief Walk the Same Line with Amy Silva
This week, Nikki sits down with Amy Silva, a birth doula of seven years, founder of the Collaborative Doula Collective, and a fierce advocate for collaboration over competition in the doula community. After losing her mom to suicide just six months before her first pregnancy, Amy knew she wanted to support women who didn't have that mother figure—or any support system—through one of life's most transformative experiences. Together, they unpack what it really means to hire a doula, why asking about bias is crucial, and how to prepare for birth scenarios you hope never happen (but need to plan for anyway). Amy shares her journey from the ER trauma room to the birth room, why informed consent isn't practiced enough, and how hard birth experiences shouldn't be worn as badges of honor. This conversation is vulnerable, empowering, and a masterclass in holding space. Amy shares: Why she became a doula after losing her mom to suicide 6 months before getting pregnant "Birth and death are two sides of the same coin"—doulas need to support both The most important question: What is your doula's bias? Birth preferences vs. birth plans—run through scenarios so you're not blindsided Emergency C-section: who goes in the OR with you—partner or doula? Why doulas sometimes undervalue themselves  "Get comfortable being uncomfortable"—it's okay not to have all the answers The doula scam: a woman faked pregnancies/losses and traumatized 50+ doulas C-sections aren't "the easy way out"—major surgery doesn't make you less than Hard birth experiences as badges of honor = unprocessed trauma seeking validation The Collaborative Doula Collective: 52+ doulas ending competition and supporting each other Ways to Connect with Amy: Amy's Insta | Collaborative Doula Conference Insta | Collaborative Doula Collective Insta | Web
Dec 31, 2025
53 min
Let's Talk About Prolapse: The Diagnosis, The Dismissal & The Garment That Changed Everything with Lauren Fleming
This week, Nikki sits down with Lauren Fleming, founder of Hem Support and a fierce advocate for pelvic health and patient autonomy. After being blindsided by a cystocele diagnosis at 6 weeks postpartum—and dismissed by her provider—Lauren couldn't stop thinking: why aren't we educating women about this, and why don't better support options exist? So she built them herself. Together, they unpack the reality of prolapse (50% of women will experience it), the psychological weight of feeling "broken" postpartum, and why the lack of pelvic health education is unacceptable. Lauren shares her journey from corporate project manager to garment founder, navigating a second pregnancy with prolapse, and why support garments shouldn't make you feel worse. This conversation is vulnerable, validating, and empowering. Lauren shares: Being dismissed at her 6-week appointment despite bringing photos—"it's just your tissues" The mental load: "Every single movement, you have that feeling—it's so front of mind" 50% of women will develop prolapse (we're bipeds—gravity isn't our friend) "Can I even have kids again?"—the fear that comes with zero information Why existing garments had thick elastic, butt straps, and Velcro that tore her clothes Her planned home birth with baby #2 and what she did differently 50% of women doing "Kegels" are actually bearing down  Generational silence: "My aunt had that, but we never talked about it" Why hard births shouldn't be badges of honor—trauma needs validation, not repetition Ways to Connect with Lauren: Instagram: @laurensavagefleming Website: hemsupportwear.com
Dec 23, 2025
32 min
Hospital Birth, Self-Advocacy & Why "No Thanks" Is a Full Sentence with HeHe Stewart
This week, Nikki sits down with HeHe Stewart, a leading childbirth educator and doula based in Boston, Massachusetts, who has supported over 2,000 families in the last decade. HeHe is known for her fierce advocacy around informed consent, reducing unnecessary interventions, and ensuring patient autonomy—all while her husband works as a physician in the ER, giving her a unique insider perspective on the American hospital system.
Dec 16, 2025
1 hr 3 min
Birth Advocacy, Switching Nurses & Breaking Cookie-Cutter Care with MamaNurseTina
This week, Nikki welcomes Tina, aka MamaNurseTina: a labor and delivery nurse, mom of four, content creator, and aspiring stand-up comedian who’s on a mission to empower women through birth and postpartum.
Dec 9, 2025
44 min
Calling Out Diet Culture with Registered Dietitian Abbey Sharp
This week, Nikki welcomes Abbey Sharp, a registered dietitian with over 15 years of experience, award-winning cookbook author, podcaster, YouTuber, and the voice calling out nutrition BS across social media. Abbey specializes in helping people navigate the minefield of diet misinformation, wellness culture, and the return of toxic ”skinny tok” online.
Dec 2, 2025
44 min
Breaking the Silence on Pregnancy Loss with Dr. Jessica Zucker
Let’s unpack the silence surrounding pregnancy loss. Jessica shares her own 16-week loss, how it reshaped her work, and why storytelling is the antidote to shame.
Nov 18, 2025
49 min
The Ballerina Who Refused to Break - Heather Ogden’s Story
This week, Nikki sits down with Heather Ogden, Principal Dancer with the National Ballet of Canada, to explore what it means to rebuild strength, identity, and purpose after motherhood, injury, and change.
Nov 11, 2025
49 min
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