Was feeling a bit overwhelmed and exhausted from taking care of My Mother.

So thought it would be best to put the puzzle together as to why it is such an emotionally charged and evocative experience.  
When you are have your own obstacles and dances with mental illness, it's not nearly as easy to have a healthy or functional relationship with someone who has their own mental illness.

However, it is best to understand them and take windows of opportunity to maximize effectivity and efficiency without overburdening yourself