In this episode, I respond to a question from an anonymous listener who writes:
āI keep ending up with emotionally unavailable people. I want to believe Iāve learned, but part of me feels like Iāll just make the same mistake again. How do I rebuild trust in myself?ā
We explore the intersection of shame, self-trust, and growth ā and how our fear of repeating mistakes often hides our progress. Inside this episode, weāll talk about:
- Why shame turns reflection into self-blame
- How hindsight can actually be evidence of healing
- The difference between āI canāt trust myselfā and āIām learning to listen to myselfā
- Tangible ways to rebuild trust through self-awareness and aligned action
If youāve ever doubted yourself after heartbreak or repeated patterns, this episode will help you understand what self-trust really means ā and how to rebuild it through compassion, not perfection.
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