In this episode, I respond to a question from an anonymous listener who writes:

“Why do I feel like the villain every time I set a boundary with my mom? I’ll say no to something simple, and suddenly I’m the worst child in the world. How do I not get crushed by the guilt?”

If you’ve ever tried to set a boundary with a parent — only to be met with anger, guilt trips, or silence — you know how brutal it can feel. Boundaries are meant to protect relationships, but when parents push back, it can leave you drowning in shame.

Inside this episode, we’ll talk about:

• Why boundaries are not rejection but an act of love
• The difference between your guilt and their discomfort
• How “boundary backlash” shows up in families
• Practical ways to hold the line without over-explaining or apologizing

If you’ve ever felt like setting a boundary makes you the “bad guy,” this episode is for you.

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