In this episode, I respond to a question from an anonymous listener who writes:

“Every time I go out with my parents, they expect me to pay — like it’s just assumed now because I ‘make more money.’ I’m drowning in bills myself. How do I set boundaries without looking ungrateful?”

Money is one of the biggest sources of tension in adult parent–child relationships. When parents expect their adult kids to pick up the tab — or worse, cover their expenses — it can feel like love is being measured in dollars. But the truth is: you don’t owe your parents financial support, and your worth as a child isn’t defined by whether you pay.

Inside this episode, we’ll talk about:

• Why financial expectations from parents can feel so heavy
• How guilt and “you owe me” narratives get tied to money
• Why love and money should never be confused
• Practical ways to set financial boundaries without collapsing into guilt

If you’ve ever wondered whether saying “no” makes you ungrateful, this episode is for you.

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