Untethering Shame
Untethering Shame
Kyira Wackett
How a Small Change in Self-Talk Leads to Big Healing
5 minutes Posted Jun 5, 2025 at 7:00 am.
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Ever catch yourself thinking, “I’m such a failure” or “I’m so fat”? These thoughts might seem harmless—or even true—but they’re often rooted in shame and distorted beliefs. And here’s the truth: the way we talk to ourselves matters.

In this solo episode, host Kyira Wackett unpacks the transformational power of shifting from “I am” to “I feel.” This simple change can help us stop identifying with our shame and start practicing compassion and curiosity instead.

If you’re ready to break the cycle of harsh inner dialogue and reconnect with your true worth, this episode offers a practical and powerful place to start.


In this episode, you’ll learn:
🧠 Why “I am” statements reinforce shame
💬 How to reframe negative self-talk without dismissing your emotions
💡 The neuroscience of language and identity
🛠 A quick, everyday tool to support your shame resilience
❤️ Why feelings deserve space—but don’t deserve control over your identity


Resources Mentioned:🔥 Download the FREE handout, "⁠⁠⁠5 Things Shame Resilient People Do Every Day⁠⁠⁠" 🌐 Visit my ⁠website⁠📺 Watch on ⁠YouTube⁠📞 ⁠⁠Book a free 25-minute discovery call⁠⁠ to discuss different program options and find the support best fits your needs.


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